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mulletlove-deactivated20200811

all i can do is keep putting love into the universe

i’ve warmed up significantly towards the concept of small talk ever since i learned that its sole purpose is to make friendly noises.

as long as you smile and nod, people are satisfied. it’s just to show that you are nice and there with good intentions. we’re small in a big world and have to rely on other people to be decent to us. so we do our little human dance to each other to say, “i’m not here to hurt you. here’s something we have in common, like the weather or sports or itchy sweaters, so we both know we’re on the same team. we both agree on a basic fact, like that it is rainy or that being itchy is uncomfortable, and this proves we can get along. i’m being light-hearted and non-threatening right now.”

small talk isn’t to get to know a person. it’s just a greeting to affirm you’re buddies in the universe.

i am motivated by wanting the other person to know i am friendly, so i have gotten pretty decent at small talk when i used to hate it.

piratedgender

themisally

heartpeacenquiet

It's okay if it takes a little longer than you thought.

rslashrats

.. <- two ants kissing

virgoboy

Well at the risk of sounding a bit pathetic i need someone sweet and soft and kind

selfcarereminder

rest is part of the process, not a prize you get when you’ve finished everything. you don’t have to earn it first

i-am-a-fish

unlearn shame. then with all the new space in your brain you can learn something cool. like you can learn how to read braille. or you can learn how to make chocolate mousse. you can do anything really

eymurn

“i thought i’d weird you out” you weirded me in, twin

kuromilesbian-deactivated202205

big fan of love, being in love and making others feel loved

sirlonius

When you're going through a rough patch in life keep in mind that you're going through it. You're not stuck there. There's happiness on the other side.