I was once part of a marching band back in high school. That extracurricular activity taught me so much about life that I wouldn’t have learned from just taking regular class and listening to regular and irregular teachers.
When you’re part of a marching band, you only have one task and that is to bring the noise to the streets. It is an announcement, a signal of a commencement, an event, a festivity!
In early history, marching bands were used in battles where the beat of the drums was said to raise the morale of the fighters. Increasing their enthusiasm to kill and win, or (maybe) just to make them feel that they’re still part of something while they’re wasting their lives. Luckily, I live in an era where I don’t have to face such cruelty and despair.
So, music has been part of me ever since. When I was a kid I’d listen to backstreetboys, then it became red hot chilli peppers, then matchbox twenty, then blink 182, then radiohead, then glassjaw... it went on. Bands and their music inspire me to think and to see the world differently. Just like when I play the double drums in the marching band, making noise in the street...
It felt like I saw everything, everyone, differently. I felt that I’m part of this elite group. A group only a few understood. It felt good to be different.
So it was inevitable that I’d learn a musical instrument and that is the guitar. With a guitar, you could either cover songs or create songs. I leaned on the latter. I love creating tunes even back then when I was still starting. We love to create compositions with our late vocalist from my first band, Eroica.
We don’t usually do covers, because we want to start with something fresh. But also, we don’t know how to do covers. I find it hard to cover tracks at that time, and in introspect, even until now.
Nonetheless, life was good with music and my guitar around. It has kept me safe on my darkest and happiest moments. Driving is better with my playlist in Spotify titled ‘A Long Drive Down South.’ Recently, I bought gadgets that are way too expensive just for this hobby. I know I won’t be getting any returns for this, financially that is. Except the fact that I get to have an identity, sufficient enough to satisfy myself. It pays to be different, I said.
So as this weird mind of mine think and relate to the vast universe, I saw that the reason behind this yearning for being different is deeply rooted, it’s written in our DNA.
We are born to be different.
We are the results of chance. We are the results of lasting cataclysm that should have not given us a chance, but we strived. We’re forgiven by nature. We’re blessed by gods and creators. We’re products of billion years of evolution. There’s got to be something in you and in me that keeps us staying and believing on who we are.
It pays to be different, I say.
Running away from the norms is definitely a feat. It is not for the weak heart or for those who don’t believe in their individuality. But, what other proof do you need for your divine individuality? You are a product of miracles, so act like one! ~ I say.
Get rid of anything common. Be a hipster or whatever they call you. Be weird and read the things people don’t read. Share the thoughts that people consider taboo. Make mistakes in the hopes that it will bring you to the right path. Experiment on experiences that completes you, it’s you and not them after all.
Raise the cup high for your individuality, create and be unique!
Despair and depression is common. It pays to be different, to be optimistic and see the good views no matter what. Sadness is overrated and poverty is common. Traveling and getting to places where your friends have never been is different. Getting enough for you to give more to people you care and to get the things that satisfy you is different, not better, but way different than the thousands consider.
The march to being an individual is a difficult path. You may need some tools (like music, meditation, other forms of art, and so on) for you to make this work. You may need to read more books, to encounter more eye-opening events, and you may even hurt others or be hurt in the process. The point here is that you keep on keeping on. Discovering that inner beauty that is you.
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