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(through gritted teeth) sometimes what's good for your mental health isn't another do nothing day or a little treat sometimes what's good for you is putting in some of the work. Not all of it at once but sometimes you have to finish that essay or at least take the next step or you have to clean your room or at least dust the shelves or you gotta do the laundry or at least put it all in the hamper and it's not fun and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks but you have to because i read a post on the internet that told me that's what being nice to yourself is sometimes
this kind of being the most important post ive ever read on this website
my april challenge goals
finish entire thesis draft (40-50 pages)
read the entirety of 4 books outside of class
getting schoolwork done asap
send in grad school app
keep room cleaned
figure out & adhere to adequate meal plan for my schedule up until june
finish lingering embroidery projects
continue eating adequate fiber
finish at least 2 ongoing fics
get some adequate hiking shoes for birding
and more probably
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Easy Ways To Significantly Improve Your Life
they seem like not a big deal, but if you do them correctly, i promise your life will have the same glow up mine had!
1. GET ENOUGH SLEEP. top 1 priority of any girl that truly cares about herself. a good night of sleep is extremely important for your mental health and overall wellbeing, mental clarity and emotional regulation. also beauty sleep is real, you won't maintain your prettiness if your sleep schedule is bad. aim for uninterrupted 7-9 hours per day (with REM). no more, no less
2. KEEP ALWAYS EDUCATING YOURSELF. remember when women and girls couldn't go to school, universities or just learn anything aside the tradicional feminine roles? we collectively fought for this right, so please never stop learning. education is power and will never be a waste of time because you’ll always receive something back from your knowledge—and it’s the only thing no one can take away from you
3. MANAGE YOUR FINANCIALS WISELY. i need to scream this one. the current state of the whole world's economy isn't the best (it's actually the opposite, the prices change fast and you actually don't need all those material stuff your materialistic mind tells you. remember it's your time (your hours of work) being traded for what you buy
4. DRINK WATER. aside from kidney stones (i never had, but i know people who had and they suffered a lot), keeping hydrated gives you a better skin and help maintaining your energy always up. i'm not talking about soda, but pure water or natural juices. this is what truly counts
5. CREATE A COMFORTABLE LIVING SPACE. i'm being serious. my psychologist always says that our environment is a product of our mind, so if your living space is messy and dirty, it'll impact on your mind. also, add some decorations you like, make it nice place to stay
6. LIMIT SCREEN TIME. no, you don't need to spend five hours per day on social media, i'll be an extremist and say you don't even need more than one hour per day, but at least don't make it your whole day or a copy mechanism for life. queue is your friend here on Tumblr, you'll have an active blog without losing your valuable time all day here. you probably don’t even remember the last post you saw, so it’s not that important at all
7. USE YOUR OWN BRAIN. at first, it may seem fun & easier to use other people (or even AIs) to think for you and solve your problems, but you’re basically atrophying your brain’s abilities to think, be creative and understand the world by your own perspective which is so rich and unique. there’s no problem in needing people (AI is a deeper problem tho), but don’t trade your mental abilities for it. connect the dots yourself. exercise your brain by reading books, playing memory/logic games and experiencing life according to your own thoughts and rules
I want to stop and go home and listen to music but I can’t. but I will. Soon I will
calling my mom to let her know eat dinner first without with me because im going to be much later than I thought at the public library. Feels like im a hitman and telling my boss the job’s taking longer than expected bc the target keeps moving around and going under awnings etc.
I want to stop and go home and listen to music but I can’t. but I will. Soon I will
Chore Scorpion: I come from the toughest meanest place you can imagine. I want to be gentle, I want to die gently, but It seems that when life gets hard I have to get harder to match.
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FUCK HARD
FUCK FAST
FUCK BADLY
NEVER USE GENERATIVE AI
CREATE JOY
MUSIC ALWAYS
PSPSPSPS AT KITTIES ON THE STREET
YUMMY SOUP
go see the doctor about that thing
BE TRANSGENDER
KISS YOUR FRIENDS
EAT CHEESE
NEVER KILL YOURSELF
THRIVE
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(through gritted teeth) sometimes what's good for your mental health isn't another do nothing day or a little treat sometimes what's good for you is putting in some of the work. Not all of it at once but sometimes you have to finish that essay or at least take the next step or you have to clean your room or at least dust the shelves or you gotta do the laundry or at least put it all in the hamper and it's not fun and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks and it sucks but you have to because i read a post on the internet that told me that's what being nice to yourself is sometimes
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how to write that 17-page essay that’s high-key giving you anxiety
so it’s 4am and you’ve had three cups of coffee but you’ve only written two sentences. you look at the prompt and find it has ceased to make sense. “how the fuck am i gonna turn this into a 17-page paper” you ask.Â
never fear! your friendly neighborhood college fuckup is here with an answer. buckle down and get another cup of coffee; you’re in this for the long haul. (literally. this post got long because i’m apparently incapable of writing short posts, but i also pulled a 3.9 cGPA using this method so i’d say it’s worth the read.)
first, a cheat: email your professor and ask if you can use subheaders. subheaders eliminate the need for smooth transitions between portions of your argument and also create a ton of white space, which can help you reach page count.Â
second, a tip: don’t be afraid to meet with your prof. this essay probably isn’t a take-home exam; it’s likely that your prof set this paper to give you a chance to learn and write about something you enjoy. shoot your prof an email saying “hey, this is what i’m thinking, this is what i’m struggling with, can i meet with you to talk it out?” 9 times out of 10, your prof will say yes. if they say no, talk to another prof in the same discipline. otherwise talk to your uni writing center or a friend of yours. worse come to worst, shoot me a message.
what you’re gonna do now is outline the fuck out of your paper to procrastinate actually writing it.Â
step 1: take apart the prompt. it’ll be asking for a few different things; mark these things with different cues: brackets, underlining, different colored pens, whatever. this structures your response.
if you don’t know your thesis yet, that’s fine! let it develop naturally as you conduct your research and plan your argument. you can change it as you go - that’s the point of researching the topic. no one will know what your first draft thesis was.
step 2: look at the dismembered prompt. write bullets with brief explanations for how you’ll attack each part of the prompt. these can be detailed or as vague as “look up that one reading and use it as a counter argument.” then figure out the best way to organize the bullets. if nothing makes sense, that’s fine too. you can write each chunk of your argument and structure it later.
these bullets make good subheaders. js.
step 3: under each bullet from step 2, list out what info and evidence you need for that aspect of your argument. don’t worry about details yet; focus on structure. write these bullets as though you’re talking to a friend about what your argument is and why is works. let it be stupid. let it be simple. say shit like “freud was a bitch and i can prove it.”Â
step 4: now that you have a rough draft of your outline, go back and fill in the details. remember, you’re still outlining! you’re basically redoing step 3 with the bullets you made in step 3. this is the part where i take the most time and put in the most effort.
i tend to reach page/word count easily if my outline is half the length the paper needs to be, so i keep outlining until i reach that point. this ratio might be different for you. if you can figure out your ratio, it can tell you if you need to look for more info or if you’re good to go.
make a note of what you’re citing but don’t worry about actual citations. i like using gdocs because you can easily paste a link to your source in a comment. this way, the sources don’t clutter up your doc or artificially inflate your page or word count.
be silly! be stupid! use swear words and memes and internet lingo. you’re just outlining right now; you don’t need to sound smart and professional. you should be focusing on what you want to say, not how to say it.
by the end of this process, my outline is basically my paper in bulletpoint format, without any fancy jargon or quotes or cited evidence, and usually not in complete sentences. i’ve essentially tricked myself into writing my paper by saying “i’m just outlining, it doesn’t really matter.” it’s also less daunting to write the rest of the paper when you know you already have 9 pages done instead of 0.
step 5: write the damn thing! open a fresh doc for your paper and view it side-by-side with your outline. now you get to make your bullets sound pretentious and academic. insert quotes and other evidence. turn “freud was a bitch” into “freud knowingly perpetuated several falsehoods for the sake of his personal gain, thereby undoing decades of progress in the field of psychology.”Â
don’t worry about citations right now, though! do what you did in your outline and insert the citations as comments at the points where they need to be. creating citations will interrupt your flow.
step 6: once your paper is done, go back and add citations! this can take up to an hour depending on how many sources you have, so budget your time appropriately.Â
holy shit! you just wrote a whole damn paper! i’m proud of you, buddy. go buy yourself a milkshake and take a nap.Â
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