[bace-jeleren]

It is your sworn duty, when you're in your 30's, to do something every day that would have gotten you viciously bullied in high school.

[bace-jeleren]

Getting a lot of comments and tags on this that are like "they bullied me for just existing:/" SO EXIST!!!! GET OUT THERE AND LIVE AND KEEP LIVING!!!!!!! KEEP ON BEING YOU!!!!!!!!!

[deathbyleche]

Sometimes I forget how incredibly talented I am

[deathbyleche]

[deathbyleche]

[deathbyleche]

Tell me why I chose today to listen to Mac de Marco in the car and be a sadboi on my way to work.

32 and still singing along to the sad songs that remind me of you. What can I say. Some things change and some shit will never fucking let its hold off me.

What was I even crying about tho? Missing the memory of you? The person I use to be? The person I could have been? Over past mistakes? The knowledge that’ll I’ll probably never hear from you again? I don’t know. I hope you’re okay. Im trying my best

[deathbyleche]

Only a couple more days until I move out.

I’ve been cleaning out old stuff. Tossing and donating stuff I dont need.

Finding the 2017 diary was a hard one. We weren’t happy for so many months before that Cutty Flam show. I don’t think you honestly loved me. I think you just liked being liked. You certainly kept getting enough girls numbers each week to prove that point.

Was also sad finding photos of me and andrew. Photos that he had ripped up and I tapped back together. I hate that I stayed with someone that was abusing me for so long. I hate that I felt like i deserved it.

I’m glad I’m moving out. The last two years have been a lot of good changes. Working on the childhood trauma, finding friends who aren’t shitty people, trying to be confident in my abilities. Its not fucking easy but Im glad to finally be able to take care of myself first

[deathbyleche]

Sometimes I just need to admit that IcyHot is the answer

[plaguedocboi]

Alright was no one going to tell me that in the middle of the Nevada desert is an old cemetery that contains the bodies of a bunch of miners who died in a fire and next door is a haunted clown motel

Why are we still setting horror movies in generic Victorian houses in the woods when this is a real place in the world

[bonesbeetle]

prev you fascinate me

[dumbpuppyfag]

you'll be hanging out with the sweetest person ever and they'll randomly tell you a childhood experience that would have vaporised you and you're like oh we should find your parents and murder them irl

[jartita-me-teneis]

[sparklytimepiece]

for the jewelry crafters and the macrame enjoyers alike, as both I love this

[riahchan]

[bintro]

[dajo42]

if i worked at nintendo i would try so hard to make it canon that mario and luigi are red/green colourblind and think theyre wearing the exact same outfit

[allsadnshit]

Being an adult in this recession and being like wow I am totally "splurging" on 3 new sets of cotton underwear and 3 pairs of socks like whoaaaaa hold your horses duke of the land where's all this money gonna come from

[important-animal-images]

[raspberrysgod]

[geck-motj]

so glad this came up on my feed bc i made my own!!

it took me 4hrs to make and i gave him eyes and some starfish frends

[magicratfingers]

if you really loved me you’d make me a strawbster

[inbabylontheywept]

People are so much more sad, and desparate, and lonely than you think. I have had three incidents in the last four months were a technician I was working with was being either dangerously unfocused (we work with high voltage), or just flat out angry with their coworkers, and every time when I just pulled them aside to say hey, this isn't you, you're nice, and you're competent, so something must be up - what can I do to help - they have responded by bursting into tears. One guy was struggling to get his wife moved into a care home, one guy just got served divorce papers, and the other hadn't slept a wink the night before because his daughter had the pukes.

I haven't spent my whole life responding to people being rude, or stupid, or dangerous with knee jerk compassion. It's a new habit. The first time I did that as the lead for my lab, it was because the guy genuinely was so good natured that I knew something had to be off. But the other two times were just me going, alright, lets see if it always goes this well, and so far, it has. I'm almost 30, and I just figured out that the #1 reason people are shitty are because they are going through shit.

I don't think you have, like, a moral obligation to respond to people being jerks with knee jerk compassion. But it has made my life so much easier the last four months that I would recommend trying. For your own sake. Please.

(I'll step off my soapbox now. Enjoy your Sunday.)

[tethered-heartstrings]

"stress" by yoan capote - made of bronze and concrete

[tethered-heartstrings]