The Wedding Files

Hi, My name is Debby. The proposal, engagement, and marriage stage is an exciting time for anyone. I've taken the time to document this journey so that I'll never forget! Enjoy! Fast forward 1 year later and we have a baby on the way, so what better way to document this time than to keep on blogging!? Keep on enjoying!

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Middle of this year, we also welcomed another member of the family - Otis! Otis is now 4 months old and cannot wait to meet baby sister in 13 short weeks! Look at these cuties :)

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Earlier this year, we learned that we would soon be joined by another member of the family :) Baby Avalyn, we cannot wait to meet you in January 2016!

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Happy 1 year anniversary! I cannot believe it’s been 1 full year! So much love <3

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It's OVER!

I cannot believe that the day has come and gone. So many great memories, so many things I wish I did and didn't get the chance to! It was a wonderful day and we got to see so much love and support from all of our family and friends. Nothing else beats that!

Thank you everyone!

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This would be perfect!!!!

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OMG

34 days

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Wedding Planning Basics: 10 Biggest Wedding Planning Blunders to Avoid

The top ten wedding planning mistakes and how to avoid them.

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The Extras

Now that the big things are dealt with, I'm thinking about the small things. How important is it to: A: Whiten your teeth B: Laser eye surgery (yeah, I'm considering this as a small thing!?) C: Facial treatment: Chemical peels, Microdermabrasion, etc. D: Hair extensions E: Tanning services to bronze uppp F: Nail appointments and other beauty appointments (like my already booked mink eye-lashes!) G: Get fit!?

I'm still going through this list and deciding what to book and what not to do... So much thought goes into this darn day! Does it matter in the end!?

Time for bed, beauty sleep awaits!

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The flower girl and ring bearer have a very special place in our wedding. Being our niece and nephew, we wanted to make sure that they will feel special, loved, and look back on that day to remember how special they were (even if they may be too shy to walk out!)

For that reason we have a very special card made for them in their honour! Now if only I could find where I put it last! Ugh!

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Invitations are almost all out! Thank goodness! I'm so behind! Above is a beautiful shot taken by one of our friends - He really captured it beautifully!

It's been handy to hand-delivery these babies and it's a good thing that I have Wednesdays off! It's been a load off my shoulders knowing that these invites are finally where they should be! ALMOST THERE!

I took a risk and sent some invites to Mickey and Minnie, Cinderella, Obama, Oprah, and the Queen of England, LOL. I hope I get something back in return!

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We've chosen our honeymoon destination! Check it out!

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77 DAYS!!!

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I've been looking at honeymoon stuff a lot lately. This would be so so so awesome. I know Mr. Fiance would love love looooove!

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I'm attracted to anything and everything sparkly and pretty!! Like these beaaaaautiful Jimmy Choos!!!! OMG.

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Just some reflecting...

I’ve been having a couple of conversations with a few people lately about having your own identity while in a relationship.

Some people who’ve lived their entire life doing their own thing feel smothered when they start dating/getting serious in a relationship… So they want to back off, let go, return back to the life they’ve always loved and known or create some space with their partner... and this got me thinking... Albert and I do everything together! I admit there were times in the beginning I would feel my own identity was drifting away… and for awhile I wasn’t quite fond of that, but I’ve come to realize that in it’s place, a new identity was formed. One that builds a life that intertwines Albert’s identity with mine… and to be honest? I LOVE IT!! It’s so much fun to have someone to poke fun of, bounce ideas off of, argue with, agree with, support, etc etc. Our new identity has become so strong that when we do our own thing… I feel almost... like... incomplete (Gosh that was cheesy). I do also agree that it’s important to have your own interests as well, so that there are always new things to share with each other, but I do have to say… Being with Albert all the time, doesn’t bother me one bit! (he better be thinking the same!!!)

He takes my weird and crazy, and I take his cynic and skepticism. We’ve come a long way, but we have accepted each other and that thought alone makes me so happy! Can't wait for those 94 days to go by!

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94 days!!! The madness is ON!

I came across this quote and though I've heard this countless times, I like the way this one is phrased:

"Always remember that the only purpose of your wedding day is to marry the one you love. Everything else is a bonus!"

Bonus, it is!

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Joanna & Andrew's Wedding

Photography: Esther Sun Photography Event Venue: Vibiana Wedding Planning, Design, Linens:

I love the classiness of this wedding, want want want!!!