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Bonk / Header by musical-lambert420 / Icon by poi.ka on instagram / Hate mail recieved: 4 / Left 8th October 2020

[deianiradiscourse]

Hi if you follow me read this thanks

I’m probably going to log out of this account and never come back.

[That’s it, but if u wanna know why, read below]

I was constantly worried about being taken seriously as a nonbinary person. I was so terrified that I’d be deemed a “transtrender” by the only community that accepted me. Then I went to college, and I got a group of friends and Jschlatt uploaded this video where he talked about how, in the nicest way, other people’s opinions didn’t matter. So the next day I decided to wear a skirt to college and every single one of my friends treated me the exact same way as before. And it doesn’t sound like a big deal, but their respect being completely unchanging when I decided not to wear masculine clothes woke me the fuck up.

I realised that I didn’t care about discourse anymore. The only reason I hung onto discourse was because I needed an outlet for the anger that came from nbphobia, both internally and externally, and that outlet was this blog. I don’t care if someone calls themself pansexual, identifies as genderfluid, uses neopronouns, identifies as a xenogender, is a “nondysphoric” transgender person, etc. Mogai isn’t the reason the LGBT+ community is losing support.

I saw posts and rants like this when I got into discourse. I got asks that almost perfectly predicted this outcome. And every single time I didn’t care because I was confident in my opinions. Even though it was shitty, I’m thankful for discourse. It’s the thing that educated me about what being trans is, and made me realise I had gender dysphoria.

Goodbye, - Bonk

[theartofangirling]

I’ve been waiting a year to post this

[deianiradiscourse]

Anyway my new discourse blog is @trannyopinionrants if any of y’all care

[deianiradiscourse]

I think I’m gonna end up deleting this blog

[deianiradiscourse]

I’ll decide later

[deianiradiscourse]

I think I’m gonna end up deleting this blog

[deianiradiscourse]

Aight I’m done deleting shit there’s totally stuff left over but i dont care enough to do anything

[deianiradiscourse]

Back to delete some shit

I hate all of you & hold the complete opposite opinions now.

[haresbreathz]

THE. ROSE LALONDE FOR today

[twitblr]

🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

[isa-ghost]

This is one of the most adorable Pride posts I’ve ever seen

[ebonykain]

Scheduling this to reblog on the day before National Coming Out Day (Oct 11th).

Because if your aren’t ready yet, for any reason, that is your right to not come out yet.

If YOU are out but have a friend who is NOT, it is not your right to out them. Respect their wishes, respect their safety, respect their health.

Encouraging your friends by promising to stand with them when they come out: Good.

Bullying your friends by saying they owe it to the LGBTQIA+ community to come out: Bad.

It’s okay if someone isn’t ready yet.

[bluef00t]

“you talk like a smart/pretentious person” actually I just forget simple words constantly and am forced to rummage through my brain for the nearest synonym, which is usually twice as long and needlessly specific

[peachdoxie]

#see also: the exact feeling im trying to convey with my sentences doesnt get across the same way without that specific word

[theofficialvincenzo]

See also: my various hyperfixations expose me to words I like and get I excited to use them in sentences

[nyanbinyuri]

see also also: i’m too fucking stupit to make the sentence less pretentious

[hustleinatrap]

In honor of 19-year-old Simone Biles being named Woman Of The Year by ESPN. 

She won a record four gold medals at the Olympics. She’s untouchable!

Congratulations!

[tanosaurus]

okay but she is just literally flying. She doesn’t obey the laws of physics. She is her own law. Biles Law. Coolest woman ever.

[aadyeah]

Biles law sounds like something I would like to study

[whitepeopletwitter]

[deianiradiscourse]

Do you think it’s possible that neurodivergent people see the world in a different way and therefore their own gender? But no, they’re wrong and shouldn’t be part of this community just because they don’t fit into the same special little box you’ve created for yourself and whoever’s you deem worthy. I’m going to start identifying as faegender because of you.

Good for u

[everythingfox]

Does anyone know what happened?

[byrneing]

[ladymioka-deactivated20230701]

[everythingfox]

I don’t know what any of the above means, but it looks like everyone hates it, a lot.

[i-hate-chick-fil-a]

Not to mention the fact that Mrs. White isn’t qualified to teach. She should be required to take a remedial English course. “I have went”? please. It’s “I have gone”, Mrs. White. 

first, my kid would not sign anything without me seeing it first. 2nd, upon seeing it i would be at the superintendant’s office the next morning. then we would speak to the teacher. black folk gotta nip it in the bud.

[holy-jeez-its-matt]

Dont let your children be controlled like this. I remember back when I was in school my mom always told me “if you really need to use the bathroom or attend to an emergency and the teacher won’t let you, then just leave the classroom and I’ll deal with teacher and principle”

Mom had my back

[sandersstudies]

If I was this kid I would use up those passes and then just fuckin’ throw up or get a severe nosebleed in the classroom and then refuse to leave because “sorry, I can’t go to the nurse, I already used up my two passes for the fucking MONTH”

[xenoqueer]

There was a student at my high school, who we will call John Doe, who actually did that. When teachers gave him a limited number of bathroom allowances (usually 3 per semester, which was the standard at my school), he would use them in the first week, and then induce vomitting my eating rotten food he found around the school garbage cans. If teachers refused to let him go, he would just throw up on something they had to touch. Light switches, keyboards, whatever was available.

Instead of making admin do anything about this toxic policy, they just doubled down harder, to the extent that one girl politely informed a teacher that she felt like she might be about to have a seizure and could she go to the nurse, please. She was denied, sat back down at her desk, and promptly passed out and concussed herself on the concrete floor when she fell. 

Another girl had severe vertigo-induced fainting, could not get a teacher to excuse her from a phys ed class, and fell off a monkey bars and split her head open, and nearly lost an eye because her glasses broke when she landed.

A student with, I believe, diabetes had a severe blood sugar drop and tried to eat a candy bar in a class with a “no food or drinks” rule. The candy bar was taken away, and she had to be taken out by EMTs. 

This kind of human rights abuse in public schools is not new. I graduated a full decade ago. 

I’m glad it’s being publically discussed again, (briefly around 2003-2005 this was also a popular subject of discussion). I hope that this time, concrete changes in policy are actually affected.

[theeldritchbeesechurger]

yo what the FVCK is wrong with schools

[dorklesblog]

They’re run by evil boomers who lick dry tree trunks

[dorklesblog]

What the fuck did I just even say

[arsonistblue]

Gods, I have so many stories about this, but here’s the most prominent one:

When I was in seventh grade, I pretty much got slashed across my stomach by a piece of metal. It’s a miracle it didn’t hit any organs. 

Now, I have an extremely high pain tolerance, so I just tightly wrapped my jacked around my waist where most of the cut was and did my best not to get blood on the carpet. 

When I got inside, I said, “Mr. [redacted], may I go to the nurse? It’s an emergency. I’m bleeding out and may have a punctured organ.” And he laughed and said “No, I’m sure you can survive a little cut.” Now to be fair, he thought I was being dramatic, but I wasn’t. I told him “No, a piece of metal slashed my stomach from my left rib to the right of my belly button. I’m using my jacket to stop the blood.”

At this point he rolled his eyes and said “is it really an emergency? You’re not crying.” And I told him I have an unnaturally high pain tolerance, and that it hurt quite a bit, I was just handling it. I outlined where the cut was and even showed him one end, then the other end, but kept most of it covered because I was fucking bleeding out. 

He told me, “This will reflect poorly on your grade, since you’ve already used your nurse pass this term. I recommend you get a big bandaid from the first aid kit and sit back down, otherwise I’ll have to give you an F for today.”

My teacher told me to put a bandaid on a cut that slashed across my stomach because I’d already used my nurse pass for the term, and if I left it would reflect poorly on my grade. 

Now, I don’t know about you, but I’d really rather not bleed out in a history classroom. So I just walked to the door and said “Mr [redacted], I am bleeding out. If I do not get this healed, I will die. I’m leaving now,” and he still tried to stop me, saying he ‘wasn’t allowed to let students leave during class.’ WELL EXCUSE ME MR. ASSFACE McGEE, WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE A CORPSE IN YOUR CLASSROOM BY THE END OF THE PERIOD? 

He kept me in there for SO LONG THAT I ENDED UP PASSING OUT FROM BLOOD LOSS. Only then did he decide I should go to the nurse. IF THAT’S NOT A RED FUCKING FLAG ABOUT THE SCHOOL SYSTEM, I DON’T KNOW WHAT IS. 

[7thedisasterdyke]

holy fuck

[justiceforandrewjohnson]

When I was a lot younger I had a very small, very overactive bladder. I told my teacher I had to go to the bathroom and he said no. So I held it. Finally it got to where I couldn’t, I just simply couldn’t, so I asked again. He said no. So again I tried to hold it. Inevitably I pissed myself in front of everyone and there were no extra clothes at the school I could change into so I went like that ALL DAY yall ALL DAY. I get home soaked and I tell my dad who was very protective what happened and he called the princicpal and almsot got my teacher fired. Let kids take a piss. Christ.

[urbanfantasyinspiration]

That last one happened to me in first grade. I was livid, my dad went mental

[whitepeopletwitter]

[sizvideos]

A man has built Ogo, a hands-free wheelchair for his paraplegic friend (video)

[thelamprey]

Holy shit this is awesome.

[imfemalewarrior]

For any wheelchair users following me! 

-FemaleWarrior, She/They 

[weaselle]

every few months I forget about this and then see it again and it is always one of the coolest things I’ve ever seen.

So this time I looked it up, I wondered how to get one and how much it cost. Turns out  it was a bit hard to find, actually, and that’s because it’s no longer called the Ogo, it’s called the Omeo.

They are pretty advanced as a product now, in terms of accessories, color options, etc (they have an off road conversion kit and stuff!). They are kind of expensive, tho not necessarily when compared to other wheel chairs, which cost anywhere from a couple hundred bucks for a shitty one, to like 4k for a high end electric one. An Omeo will cost you just under 2k.

Here is their website, if you want to learn more: https://omeotechnology.com/

[immopengu]

ONE MORE TIME FOR ALL MY WHEELCHAIR USERS!!!!