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If we cant have Syndra with baggy pants then i will make it so.

For the bots that want me to dm them to get spoiled.... Girl...just send the damn money lmaooooo I'm here being cute as all hell just cash app me.

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deebott

I just wanna say thank you all so so much!!!!!!

pussymargiela

tami-taylors-hair

I wish age gap discourse hadn't spiraled the way it has because I want there to be a safe space to say "Men in their 40s who date 25 year olds aren't predators, they're just fucking losers"

lullabyofbirdlxnd

... honey you just described a predator LOL

tami-taylors-hair

No, I said what I said. But thank you for providing an example of how this topic has become insufferable on the internet.

lullabyofbirdlxnd

i am honestly burningly curious about how a 40 year old man who fucks around with college grads is not a predator

tami-taylors-hair

"College grad" is not a developmental stage, nor is it what I would describe a 25 year old as. I was 4 years out of college at 25. My mother had two children at 25. You can be a fucking congressman at 25.

There's a difference between a man who is immature and buys into misogynistic views of beauty and aging and one who is a predator. Also, many actual predators? Not losers and able to move through society pretty freely being seen as cool and the ideal, so conflating the two isn't helpful.

This is going to be my final response to any attempt at discourse. You're welcome to continue amongst yourselves.

thiswaycomessomethingwicked

also sometimes a 40 year old and a 25 year old just weirdly find each and it's a perfectly normal relationship - like all human relationships are complex and situational, it's so rarely an either/or thing let alone just one thing only

if a 40 year old dude only dates 25 year olds, DiCaprio style or something adjacent to it, then yeah he's a loser

if a 40 year old dude meets a 25 year old through social event or friends or whatever and they happen to hit it off and make a go of it, and this isn't some sort of reoccurring pattern for the guy, that's just a relationship with an age difference

being predatory means something specific, and man I agree w/ OP and really wish people just stopped ascribing it to any and all relationship dynamics they personally might not like

predator and groomer - two words that need to go up on the "can't use till you learn their meaning" shelf

adurot

I have just learned that Mountain Goats are NOT, in fact, actual Goats.

adurot

I have never heard of this band. I AM in fact referring to the animal.

adurot

But wait, there’s more!

elvensilk

but you know what IS a goat? a musk ox

whalesharkpasta

WHAT

shencomix

loish

Thinking about what it would be like to see color for the first time. I always love stories with those kind of themes, ever since I read The Giver as a kid. The idea of growing up without color but suddenly seeing it for the first time always stuck with me.