In the midst of prom kings and drama queens.

beautiful agitator, audiophile, infused with melanin, law student, read at your own peril

[demonstrativediva-blog]

and she fell in love with a man whose heart, whose mind body and soul hadn’t been awakened since the last woman irresponsibly stirred it and drained him of his sensibilities and robbed him of his capacity to love fully. to love boldly and passionately. sometimes his words fall on deaf ears as his actions continuously fall short, and yet the girl won’t stop dreaming of him. she is patient yet stern in her expectations. she is tired and constantly left feeling unsatisfied and disappointed by his failed promises and inability to return her feelings. so she inevitably finds herself at a crossroads, hoping to conjure up some decisiveness as to whether or not she should leave him behind or continue to care for him in hopes that one day he’ll become who she needs him to be. 

[artistofthemillennium-deactivat]

2016 mood

[tootsieboy-deactivated20171122]

How to tell if he’s a thot

[beautyisopinion-deactivated2021]

LOL I’m reblogging this again because niggas are so salty in the comments

[a-fashion-killa]

“if he majors in business” 😂😂😂 this is so funny lol

[xlovelessambitions]

BYE. 😂😂😂😂😂 I shoulda known bout the beard thing cause bearded niggas make me weak and almost want them to ruin my life

[moisemorancy-deactivated2022061]

😂😂😂 get the fuck outta here

[horusyounggod]

😩😩😩😩 I barely passed…

[aesthetictrek]

“Soooo would y'all like some dessert or…”

[najaaozixxjsiaaiaiia]

[chrystelle-deactivated20181001]

I’m the grandma

[penis-hilton]

im maddie

[mynameisentirelyigbo-deactivate]

I’m the beef

[king-emare]

Lmaooo

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

1. Is this a person who always puts you down? A friend is someone who accepts you as you are – and allows you to be different, and to think for yourself, and to make your own decisions – without an explanation. However, if a person is demeaning or always puts you down, criticises your opinions, or the way you dress or look, then that’s someone to avoid as they’re a toxic friend.

2. Do they gossip about you? A friend is someone you can totally trust. You can share your deepest secrets, and say what’s on your mind – and they won’t tell a person or betray your trust. However, if you always have to watch what you say around a friend, as they’re likely to gossip or let a secret slip, then it’s likely that this person is a toxic friend.

3. Do they constantly mock and make fun of you? A bit of gentle ribbing shows affection between friends. But if they’re always making fun of you, or highlighting your faults, or attacking you in public, then they’re not a genuine friend.

4. How do you feel after being with your friend? Think about your answers to the following:

- Do you feel defensive when you spend time with them?

- Do you feel hurt or upset after spending time with them?

- Do you feel as if you always have to justify yourself instead of being “natural” around your friend?

- Do you enjoy their company or do you feel ambivalent?

- Do they undermine your confidence and self-esteem?

- Do you feel attacked and used after spending time with them?

- Does the friendship feel unbalanced and require a lot of work?

- Is it more a competition than a genuine friendship?

Note: If you recognize the signs of a toxic friend, then it’s time to move on and find a different friend. Being with this individual will wreak your happiness.

[dntdodrugs-deactivated20160418]

[thesnobbyartsyblog]

[haitianvixen]

THATS THE EXACT FACE IM SCREAMING

[unofficiallylegit]

LMFAO

[letters2society]

HAAAAAAAAAAA! WHO DID THIS

[cicinatural26]

SMH man lol

[bando--grand-scamyon]

@Lil Scrappy

[landosmoove-blog]

Black Man's Apology

I am sorry.

I became an obstacle to your emancipation In total fear of my perpetual emasculation Instead of being angry, you heard me. You embraced me. Breast to breast, you affirmed me. You don’t deserve me. You deserve better. You are of the same blood as Zora or Coretta When the community fell apart, you love held it together. But my lechery was clever. While you were uplifting our neighborhood I was double dipping in your sisterhood And did all I could to turn your back on them for good.

I am sorry…

That I silenced you during my progression To only become silent during your oppression. Your body has been ravaged by white superiority But it is no mystery in history that your ravager also looks like me. Weary, you ran to me looking for security. Instead I spread your legs with entitlement and Massaged your knees with misogyny. I am a travesty, your majesty.

I am sorry.

When I say I am sorry, I expect nothing in return. I drank a cold glass of water while I watched you burn After you were told by myself an apology must be earned. Now, I must dissociate myself with myself for myself to learn… That this apology is no soliloquy of scrap love songs and memories. But rather a litany of self reflections and fallacies. A deceleration that no formality or analogy, under any capacity, can change your mentality after the finality of the fatality left by my dark twisted fantasy.

I am sorry.

[landojohnson]

[demonstrativediva-blog]

🔥🔥🔥

[landojohnson]

Liberation

[indiana-ifill-deactivated201612]

Microscopic photograph of the inside of a Vagina. How beautiful.

[sleezed]

This the shit that make niggas not even pull out. This is it. Behold. Sweet sugar walls

[revysprite-deactivated20170502]

This looks so fucking weird lmao but this actually makes sense because I’m pretty sure during arousal they move around and guide the sperm towards the cervix. ISNT ANATOMY COOL???????????

[oziomathewicked]

I thought that was pulp. I thought this was some kinda delicious, juicy fruit. This is a vagina. That’s pussy pulp.

[mimisavagee]

I thought these were bugs or something, this is so cool

[prettyboyshyflizzy]

Ummm 😳 ok wow

[blackgirlnamedkaivy-deactivated]

This is amazing.

[euphoric-infinity-deactivated20]

Wooweeee ☺️

[identificat]

this is the inside of a fucking fig

[only1eu]

Lmfao 😂😂😂 mofos really b'leed that?

[chokesngags]

Just some words of real shit -

Be careful who you have unprotected sex with.

Be careful who you vent to.

Be careful of how you use the word ‘love.’

Know when to let that shit go.

Be careful who you speak to about your finances. 

Calm down before making decisions in anger.

Some bridges need to be burned.

Know the difference between like, lust and love.

Trust your gut.

Write it down; you’re not gonna remember.

Find an outlet for your stress/anxiety. Run, yoga, drink/smoke in moderation, write, meditate. find something that works for you.

Once it’s on the internet, it’s nachos anymore.

Stop trying to please everyone. It is impossible. Someone will be offended. Someone will be unsatisfied. 

Drink more fucking water. 

Memorize important numbers by heart. Your phone may not always be available.

Love yourself. Learn to if you do not know how. If you put yourself first in all that you do, it will come to you soon. 

Stop caring so much about what people will think and say. Because fuck em. 

Stop lurking through his/her shit. Mind your got damn business and live.

Try to be considerate of how your actions or lack of can affect others. You never know what people may have going on. The inconvenience can cost time, energy and money.

Communication kills assumptions.

Cum often.

#kbye

[kingjaffejoffer]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

What do we want from a relationship partner?

1. Someone who’s trustworthy and safe

2. Someone who accepts us unconditionally

3. Someone who encourages us to be all we can be

4. Someone who’s understanding, and is caring and kind

5. Someone who’s respectful and who treats us properly

6. Someone who’s consistent, and always keeps their word

7. Someone who is caring, and good to be around.

[demonstrativediva-blog]

found him but too afraid of commitment

[gold-kushkloudz]

[yourmajestyyy]

“Who you getting all dressed up for?”

[ahshayla]

“Who you getting sexy for?”

[jayayyenneee-deactivated2019103]

“Who you buying all those snacks for?”

[theeeprotagonist]

“who you putting all that makeup on for?” “who you making that big ass plate for”

[missqueenienie]

Who you trying to be cute for?

[nipsndnaps-deactivated20170717]

“Who you cookin for?”

[saint-tee]

“who been making you so happy lately”

[evanspetres-deactivated20201015]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Just because you don’t see results after a day, or even a week, don’t give up. You may not see changes, but every smart choice you make is affecting you in ways you’d never imagine.

fitspiration (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[pomeranian2]