your local intersectional feminist

pro choice, trans rights, blm, pro vaccination, fuck scotus, give indiginous people back their land,  pro stricter gun laws, lgbt rights, disability awareness, weight and size is not an indicator of health, stop cultural appropriation, let trans women in sports, abolish ice, justice for the missing children, eat the rich, acab, defund the police, raise minimum wage, house the homeless, keep our water clean, keep our planet alive, menstral products should be free

[destroyallbigots]

Here's a little about me for my side blog.

Hello, my name is Heidi and I go by they/she pronouns. Asxual biromantic as well. If what you've seen above hasn't said it then I'll just say it here. This blog is where I share my leftist opinions and spread awareness about different things going on. So if your beliefs are mine, we're chill.

I love oil or acrylic paintings that look like they're from either the Victorian or Renaissance era. Also, I love ducks, frogs, owls, cows, and cats. They're all just really cute. Musical theatre is something that I love with all my heart. It's very dear to me and a huge comfort. I love musicals like Mad Ones, Heathers, and Waitress. Some tv shows/animes I love are SpyxFamily, Sailor Moon, One Piece, Stranger Things, Dragon Prince, She Ra, Owl House, and Demon Slayer.

I enjoy writing and drawing. I'm currently writing a book. I do a lot of digital art that I do over on my instagram.

Anyway, that's just some facts about me. And if you're any kind of bigoted, get off my blog.

[destroyallbigots]

you can't advocate for women's rights and advocate for "trans women" to be let into female spaces in the same breath, sorry.

Have you ever looked into gender studies? Have you heard of gender vs. sex? It's not a difficult concept to understand. If my grandmother, who grew up in a bigoted environment, can understand it. I bet you can, I know JK Rowling had a huge effect on you but you can learn to understand. What's with the quotation marks? Trans women are women. Not letting trans women into "female spaces" is like saying black women shouldn't be allowed in "female spaces". See how dumb that sounds? If you narrow down someone just to their genitals, you're an asshole and a creep. Imagine, your just trying to live your life, and someone asks about your genitals? And narrows down their perception of you just by your genitals? You know how creepy and perverted that sounds? That's exactly what you're doing. Feminism is intersectional. You can't look at someone and say that they don't deserve their rights as a human being. Everyone's entitled to their own opinions like "I don't like caramel" or "I prefer the color red". But you can't say that about someone's rights as a human being. It's like when men say certain things about women, it's our rights as a human being to have human rights. You can't exclude certain women from "female spaces", they just makes you as bad as the oppressors we are fighting against.

[destroyallbigots]

"Just say no"

"Just fight back"

She did

But when she finally was able to fight, she was convicted.

This world doesn't care about its women and AFAB people. Especially America's WOC. Over a 1,000 Indigenous women are missing. They aren't just someone's family, girlfriend, and or a friend. They are human beings. There are many cases like these, violence against women and other AFABS have lasted for centuries. This cycle of hatred and abuse needs to stop.

Remember 97%.

[destroyallbigots]

live action little mermaid

So I've been seeing a lot of people upset about Halle Bailey playing Ariel in the new Little Mermaid, just over her skin tone. If you're one of those people, grow the fuck up.

The skin color debate: First off, she's half fish, she's not real. The second argument people are using is "Well what if we changed Tiana or Mulan's race? 🤓🤓". First of all, Ariel's race has zero impact on the story. Also, Mulan's and Tiana's race do have a purpose. Mulan's story was based on a Chinese story, yeah I think her race would matter. Tiana, based on a black woman. And Tiana's story is also to show what some of the struggles might have been being a black woman in 1920s New Orleans. Ariel's race was never specified in the book. And besides not one person is telling you to watch the movie, the original is still there. Also, the movie is set in the Mediterranean Sea, which is where? Between Asia, Europe, and Africa. So technically she can be any skin color. Even if it is set in Denmark, there are black people there. CRAZY RIGHT???

the "her hair isn't red enough" or "what about the ginger rep?": First off, the "what about the ginger rep?" is such a funny argument. I see those posts and start laughing. I'm a redhead, and I could not care what color Ariel's hair would be in the new film. Besides, we have Merida, who is honestly one of the better disney princesses. Her hair looked pretty ginger in the trailer, and that's on top of all the blue filters, the fact she's in a dark cavern, and she's underwater. Red hair usually turns brown underwater, so I would not be surprised if her hair is like the original.

At the end of the day, grow up, be mature. The film is supposed to be for children. Let black girls grow up with the representation they haven't had for so long.

[destroyallbigots]

unpopular opinions I'm hoping is just common knowledge

people who talk about their boyfriend/girlfriend and almost nothing else are red flags

If you tell people to "stop talking about *problematic creator* because that's just letting more people like their content" is not helping. You're part of the problem.

"Boy v. Girls" jokes aren't funny, neither are the "Girls *doing literally a normal hobby*"

people who call themselves the therapist friend, usually aren't

if you're a full grown adult making fun of a teen's hobbies or clothing style. Get a life, especially if you're taking pictures/videos of them

watching/reading a problematic person's content is still supporting them. Even if you don't support the creator's actions, you're still helping their platform

[destroyallbigots]

I've never gotten transphobes when they tell transwomen to stay out of the women's restroom because it'll make the cis women there uncomfortable. I would be uncomfortable with the people who are obsessed with other people's genitals tf? Just let people go the the restroom.

[emmeriex]

since the queen is dead here is a list people to outlive

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Pro-life people act like the people who are getting abortions are women who sleep with men and abort the "baby" at 9 months. There are women out there who WANT children. Crazy right? But there are a lot of factors. Health problems, finance, relationship problems. But alright

[usual-suspect]

Relationship problems? Like what? Mind elaborating on what such a problem might be? Maybe give an example? Thank you.

[destroyallbigots]

Abusive relationship, one of them or neither of them wanting children

[usual-suspect]

Understood ma’am. Couple of more questions: 1. Why would a woman be in a relationship with an abusive man? 2. Why would a woman have sex with a man that doesn’t want children with her?

[destroyallbigots]

A lot of people get stuck in abusive relationship. And I could go over a list of reasons why they can't leave. But a whoole lot of people think the person is good then when they are committed, the abuser shows their true colors.

idk, maybe because the couple might want to have sex? Having sex doesn't mean you want children. Unless that's someone's only reason for having it.

[usual-suspect]

Very interesting. I still might ask some things out of interest: 1. Would you say if a woman doesn’t have sex with a man for an extended period of time that she would be able to discover his true colors and that he might not be a good match? 2. Hypothetically if you want to have sex with a man and it just so happens you end up having sex but you discover you are pregnant for some reason too late and the man says “you have to have an abortion”, wouldn’t that be a betrayal coming from the man? 3. Or imagine you say “I have to have an abortion” and the man says “yes, absolutely”, wouldn’t that be creepy coming from the man?

4. Shouldn’t the question of having an abortion be solved before having sex in your personal opinion? 

[destroyallbigots]

Depends. She could have sex with him before he shows his true colors.

Not really. If it's forced, then it's fucked up. The woman should always be the one to make the choice.

Yeah, it would be weird. But I doubt someone in a healthy relationship would say something like that.

I would assume a lot of people wouldn't think of that. There are ways to prevent it, but if it fails and she gets pregnant. Shouldn't she be allowed to have an abortion? Because if a child is raised in a home where they aren't wanted, it could affect the child in a lot of ways.

[usual-suspect]

Well, the logic is upside down. This means I can at this present moment sleep with women for the heck of it. And by the way if I wanted to do it without being emotionally invested I could. The reason why I don't do it is because no woman ever is emotionally "uninvested", so to speak. Even if she is a downright prostitute I still wouldn't be able to bring myself to actually sleep with her because there is no cost for me if I flip my switch off but women don't have that switch.

I have confirmed this hypothesis by observing my close friends. Women are hateful when a man isn't invested. And to top it all off you will forever remain an enemy in their eyes.

So when I call women names of any variety is because my side of the plate is clean.

Either way explaining the logic behind it to you is useless. Do what you will.

[destroyallbigots]

..... Bro what? What does that have to do with anything? This post is about pro life and pro choice people. And yeah, if in some world I slept with a man and somehow wanted to keep the child I might get out of it, I'd be pissed if a man isn't invested.

[destroyallbigots]

Pro-life people act like the people who are getting abortions are women who sleep with men and abort the "baby" at 9 months. There are women out there who WANT children. Crazy right? But there are a lot of factors. Health problems, finance, relationship problems. But alright

[usual-suspect]

Relationship problems? Like what? Mind elaborating on what such a problem might be? Maybe give an example? Thank you.

[destroyallbigots]

Abusive relationship, one of them or neither of them wanting children

[usual-suspect]

Understood ma’am. Couple of more questions: 1. Why would a woman be in a relationship with an abusive man? 2. Why would a woman have sex with a man that doesn’t want children with her?

[destroyallbigots]

A lot of people get stuck in abusive relationship. And I could go over a list of reasons why they can't leave. But a whoole lot of people think the person is good then when they are committed, the abuser shows their true colors.

idk, maybe because the couple might want to have sex? Having sex doesn't mean you want children. Unless that's someone's only reason for having it.

[usual-suspect]

Very interesting. I still might ask some things out of interest: 1. Would you say if a woman doesn’t have sex with a man for an extended period of time that she would be able to discover his true colors and that he might not be a good match? 2. Hypothetically if you want to have sex with a man and it just so happens you end up having sex but you discover you are pregnant for some reason too late and the man says “you have to have an abortion”, wouldn’t that be a betrayal coming from the man? 3. Or imagine you say “I have to have an abortion” and the man says “yes, absolutely”, wouldn’t that be creepy coming from the man?

4. Shouldn’t the question of having an abortion be solved before having sex in your personal opinion? 

[destroyallbigots]

Depends. She could have sex with him before he shows his true colors.

Not really. If it's forced, then it's fucked up. The woman should always be the one to make the choice.

Yeah, it would be weird. But I doubt someone in a healthy relationship would say something like that.

I would assume a lot of people wouldn't think of that. There are ways to prevent it, but if it fails and she gets pregnant. Shouldn't she be allowed to have an abortion? Because if a child is raised in a home where they aren't wanted, it could affect the child in a lot of ways.

[destroyallbigots]

Pro-life people act like the people who are getting abortions are women who sleep with men and abort the "baby" at 9 months. There are women out there who WANT children. Crazy right? But there are a lot of factors. Health problems, finance, relationship problems. But alright

[usual-suspect]

Relationship problems? Like what? Mind elaborating on what such a problem might be? Maybe give an example? Thank you.

[destroyallbigots]

Abusive relationship, one of them or neither of them wanting children

[usual-suspect]

Understood ma’am. Couple of more questions: 1. Why would a woman be in a relationship with an abusive man? 2. Why would a woman have sex with a man that doesn’t want children with her?

[destroyallbigots]

A lot of people get stuck in abusive relationship. And I could go over a list of reasons why they can't leave. But a whoole lot of people think the person is good then when they are committed, the abuser shows their true colors.

idk, maybe because the couple might want to have sex? Having sex doesn't mean you want children. Unless that's someone's only reason for having it.

[destroyallbigots]

Pro-life people act like the people who are getting abortions are women who sleep with men and abort the "baby" at 9 months. There are women out there who WANT children. Crazy right? But there are a lot of factors. Health problems, finance, relationship problems. But alright

[usual-suspect]

Relationship problems? Like what? Mind elaborating on what such a problem might be? Maybe give an example? Thank you.

[destroyallbigots]

Abusive relationship, one of them or neither of them wanting children

[destroyallbigots]

Pro-life people act like the people who are getting abortions are women who sleep with men and abort the "baby" at 9 months. There are women out there who WANT children. Crazy right? But there are a lot of factors. Health problems, finance, relationship problems. But alright

[muffinlevelchicanery]

[destroyallbigots]

^^^

[keltiemoon]

I'll always find it hilarious how fragile a lot of cis men are about their masculinity. They have all these little rules telling them one little thing could make them less manly, so they act like tough shit out of insecurity instead of just realizing all those bullshit rules are made up lol

[mywitchcultblr]

Saying it again one more time, trans doesn't have to be binary and in under no circumstances should a trans person forced to 'dress the part' without their true consent. Cis people have no rights to force us to bow down with the traditional presentation of traditional masculinity and femininity, especially with the fact that many Cis are breaking gender mold left and right. Butch trans women are women and they are not 'lazy' nor 'not caring' for being masculine, same thing with feminine trans men, they are not 'lacking in effort' or 'an embarrassment' for any other trans men out there for being feminine.

You fucking wear that flannel and jeans with pride, girl. You go wear that pastel skirt and own the day my dude...

[destroyallbigots]

^^^^^

[destroyallbigots]

Stop. Telling. People. Monkeypox. Is. A. Gay. STI

It's not, literally read the CDC. It' s a harmful narrative that needs to stop. I've already heard multiple people I know say it's a disease from bisexual men. It needs to stop.

[destroyallbigots]

If you're someone who says trans activism is misogynistic. Stop trying to hide your transphobia by calling yourself a "radical feminist". You're part of the reason why so many trans people are suffering in America. You guys preach so much about trans people "invading" your spaces, instead of focusing on actual problems. Like, I don't know, maybe the overturning of Roe v Wade.

And if you're gay and a terf, stop hurting our community. We are called the LGBTQ COMMUNITY, we shouldn't be hurting our trans siblings.

Also, what "misogyny" are you seeing from trans activists? Genuine question, because I haven't seen any in like, 3 years. And even then, it was one post.