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Anyway if you’re not a sex worker I don’t fucking trust you.
How do you recommend someone who has no experience and starting out as an sw? I didn’t even know that an sw could make that much money 😭 any requirements with looks, upkeep etc?
SW can be lucrative, but most people aren't raking it in. A lot of what you see online is just marketing.
If I was starting from scratch, I'd take the time to conduct as much research as possible. Reddit was a goldmine for me when I was doing my research, but there are also a ton of great podcasts out there.
Don't get too fixated on looking a specific way because there is a market for everyone. If you are attractive in a conventional way, it'll definitely be beneficial for your earning potential. For me, being presentable and dressing in a classy way is just standard. I also keep it simple with a neutral gel manicure and pedicure, styled hair, and a light smokey cat eye. I used to be a lot more high-maintenance with my beauty routine, but now I prefer a more natural look. I tend to fashion a similar look when I'm at the office.
"There's no hope for the future." And that's how they felt during the Atomic Age, during the World Wars, during the Enlightenment Revolutions, during thr plagues, during the Viking raids, during the fall of Rome.
Yet, we persisted.
CS Lewis had something to say about this
Been feeling a bit hopeless of late. Wasn't expecting to stumble across a quote that would fundamentally alter my perspective and make me cry during my lunch break but here we are
This is an excellent sentiment.
Nevertheless, we persisted :)
Never feel bad for taking money from men. Men aren’t scared to have sex with you the moment they see you, so why should you be scared to ask for money? Dating should be an investment they should help you level up (nails, makeup, clothes, education, and more.)
Resources on Manifesting, Dating/Marrying Rich, Etiquette, Finances, and Upgrading Yourself
I’ve been reading like crazy lately, and these are things I think are highly beneficial for the future in these topics. There are PDFs for a lot of the books! I’ve also linked Youtube channels, products to buy if need be, blogs, websites, etc. There are far more resources I have but I don’t wanna share my good secrets lol. This is also enough in one post. I wanna put y’all on. 💞
Manifesting/Goddess Energy:
Jambalaya: The Natural Woman’s Book of Personal Charms and Practical Rituals
Powerful and Feminine: How to Increase Your Magnetic Presence and Attract the Attention You Want
Miss Pravala
Luck Manifestation Video
How to Change Your Frequency to Change Your Reality
Nine Steps to Mastermind Your Life
Road Opener
Five Laws of Feminine Power
Evoke Your Power Course
Dating/Marrying Rich:
The Manhattan Madam’s Secrets to Great Sex
Uncensored Sales Strategies: A Radical New Approach to Selling Your Customers What They Really Want - No Matter What Business You’re In
Lucrative Love: The Insider’s Secrets to Marrying Millions!
The Seduction Mystique
Trophy Man: The Surprising Secrets of Black Women Who Marry Well
Being a Woman: Fulfilling Your Femininity and Finding Love
Simply Irresistible: Unleash Your Inner Siren and Mesmerize Any Man, with Help from the Most Famous-and Infamous-Women in History
The Social Tigress: Dating Advice for Women to Attract Men and Get a Boyfriend!
Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental
Etiquette & Upgrading Yourself:
Finishing Touches: A Guide to Being Poised, Polished, and Beautifully Prepared for Life
Emily Post’s Etiquette, 18th Edition
Debrett’s A-Z of Modern Manners
Debrett’s Guide to Entertaining Etiquette
Bellemocha
Art History Classes
The New Elegant Black Woman
Tonya Leigh
Toastmasters
How to Get the Raise You Deserve
The Happiness Planner
Finances & Business:
Margin of Safety: Risk-Averse Value Investing Strategies for the Thoughtful Investor (don’t sweat about the price, it’s $13 for the Kindle version)
Never Eat Alone, Expanded and Updated: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time
Learn Foreign Exchange
Fundrise
Five Year Plan to Upgrade Your Life
Stock Basics
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How do you do dinner dates with much older looking guys? I have one coming up and I’m so nervous. He is 62. I’m 22, asian and definitely look young. Just weirded out that people gonna see us and know what’s up lol. I guess how do you stop giving a fuck? Does it just come with time?
The dinner dates I’ve been before were guys up to age 40. But I’ve accepted this date and dont wanna cancel last min and just wanna get $$
I don’t care if people know, I mean you are selling a fantasy and if the client didn’t want people to know they would have chosen a lady closer to their age. These guys want to be seen with a younger and hot lady. I’m fine with holding hands but I don’t kiss clients in public that are wayyyyy older than me. I do care more if it’s in my home city though because higher chances of bumping into others. However if it’s a fmty I don’t care just think of the money
How do I make sure a guy won’t slit my throat while doing it doggy style? I know it’s a weird question but I cannot screen because it’s not something that it’s done in my country and I’m scared of it happening.
I have escorted in European countries where screening is very tedious and not the norm. I have played around with my safety and screening protocols, the by far most important is your intuition/gut.
First of all, it's not a good assumption that after screening you'll have a guaranteed safe and good time. In my city a very well-known former pro athlete assaulted an escort in a 5* hotel suite. Not to scare you more but to show that 100% safety is an illusion when dealing with men and that's why your intuition is so important.
But still, we should do everything we can do to increase our safety. The one thing that I recommend the most is having a friend that knows when, where, and how long you are going on a booking. Text them when the booking starts that everything is OK, then text them again once the booking is over to say you're safe. You can also share your location with them. If you don't have a friend that you're willing to confide in, you can also pretend to call someone once you arrived at the client's ("Hi Susan, yes I have arrived, talk to you later") then set a phone alarm for when the booking is up and pretend it's your friend calling again.
One thing that helped me feel safe during bookings was offering outcalls to hotels only. This way, even if you haven't ID'ed the client, the hotel has their ID on record. So if anything goes wrong you have a way to get ahold of the person. This obviously applies mostly in places where SW is legal.
Speaking of outcalls, I saw on Twitter that some perverted men set up hidden cameras in their room. So once you arrive take a moment to check your surroundings and make sure they are no devices propped up in a strange way. Make yourself familiar with common types of hidden cameras so you can recognize them.
Sometimes you can get info without being too "scary" if you ask for their room reservation. So they send you a screenshot with their booking confirmation and their real name is on it. This helps also to make sure you won't get stood up.
A decent way to screen can be references from other escorts although this can be really annoying to do and many ladies don't reply or aren't active anymore. Also some real scummy workers don't want their clients to see other girls so they lie and give bad references or even go so far to blacklist their clients so no other workers would see them 🤮 seriously makes me so mad when girls in the industry make it harder for everyone else and don't give a shit about keeping others safe.
Lastly, if you do want to screen legal names, you can also just make that a rule and deal with it that some potential clients won't want to go through with it and lose the €€€. I guess what really helps is if your own presentation is very professional and trustworthy. By that I mean, having a tasteful, pro looking website, high quality photos and stuff. I totally understand why a man with a family and much to lose would not send his ID to a girl with three blurry selfies on a classifieds website.
I hope this helps 💕 stay safe
What To Do If Raped By a POT/SD
I just read a post about a SB being forced into sex against the conditions she clearly established with the man and essentially being raped. It made me so emotional and angry, I just broke down crying. There ARE things you can do in this situation, so I’m making this post with hopes to keep more girls safe.
“Rapes are usually never reported because of all the guilt. You might feel dirty, ashamed and violated. But you should know that rape is a crime too, and just like in any other case, the attacker is the only one who should be ashamed.”
Before you get intimate:
Take a basic self-defense course, such as Rape Aggression Defense (RAD). The 12-hour basic class includes three hours of classroom discussion, six hours learning hands-on defensive techniques, and three hours of simulation activity.Find a program near you here.
Invest in a disguised weapon and leave it on the nightstand next to the bed or on the bed next to you. If things go wrong, USE IT. Examples:
Buy the knife here. Buy the pepper spray here.
When the assault is happening:
Try to non-objectify yourself and become a person in the attacker’s eyes. Tell them: “I’m frightened!”“Let’s talk about this.” “I haven’t done anything to you.”“Would you do this to someone you cared about?”
If you think you’re in hearing range of others, don’t just scream. Yell phrases that let others know something is wrong and it’s not a joke. Phrases like ”POLICE!” “CALL 911 NOW!”
Notice and leave identifying marks. A large bite mark on their face, punctured eyeball, deeply scratched leg, ripped out piercing etc. is easily identifiable, as are memorable tattoos, etc. Think kill. Go for weak spots like eyes (poke hard), nose (hard upward motion with the lower part of your open hand) genitals (grab really tightly and squeeze or punch hard) etc. to make sure the person’s hands aren’t free to punch or hold on to you and you can run for it. If you are in a place where you can’t run, notice your surroundings and leave a mark on them if you can. Rapists have been caught because their victims left identifiable teeth marks, nail marks, or DNA in the cars or rooms where they were assaulted.
Try to scratch them or pull out a few loose hairs so that you’ll have a DNA sample for the police to convict him with and put his ass in jail, to be raped by other guys for the rest of his sad life.
If you were assaulted less than 96 hours ago (4 days):
Call the police in the jurisdiction in which the assault occurred, and file a police report. The police will escort you to the nearest hospital with a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner program or other appropriate facility if major trauma is involved.
If the assault happened more than 96 hours ago (4 days):
Contact the police department in the jurisdiction in which the assault occurred. Explain what happened. The police will set up an appointment for you to come in and make an official statement. You can also call a Hotline Operator at the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE. Your call will be kept anonymous and confidential.
Preserve all physical evidence of the assault. Do not shower, bathe, douche, eat, drink, wash your hands, or brush your teeth until after you have had a medical examination. Save all of the clothing you were wearing at the time of the assault. Place each item of clothing in a separate paper bag. Do not use plastic bags. Do not clean or disturb anything in the area where the assault occurred.
If you suspect that you may have drugged, ask the hospital or clinic where you receive medical care to take a urine sample. Drugs, such as Rohypnol and GHB, are more likely to be detected in urine than in blood.
Write down as much as you can remember about the circumstances of the assault, including a description of the assailant.
Your safety, your life and your happiness ARE WORTH IT. Do not let ANYONE take that from you. If you have any questions or just need someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to contact me! Stay safe sugars xo
I had to pepper spray a POT one time because he tried this, shit was one of the craziest things I’ve ever experienced…..totally not cool
Any advice on the best escorting sites for new escorts in the states? Everything seems like such a scam or scary and I’m trying to dip my toes into escorting full time instead of dancing. Any advice to get started would be so helpful!😭💛
Hi! I try to be careful about listing ad platforms publicly because you never know who’s reading. TikTok is screwing up the market for sex workers everywhere and then there are very young girls who haven’t learned how to protect themselves but thinking that escorting is a viable option…
That said, the best websites will actually differ according to your region and depend on your advertising budget. Some websites rank better than others depending on where you live. Girls in the northeast will usually use different platforms than girls on the west coast. A lot of websites are free to advertise on and some of the more “elite” platforms charge around $300/month or more.
The top ranking websites for each region are actually safe to use. The only top ranking site I’d stay away from, no matter the region, is Eros. Supposedly, the government raided them some years ago and I read they’ve been cooperating with the feds ever since.
Google “escorts [YOUR CITY]” and the top 3 - 5 are the websites you want to sign up for. Those are the same websites that turn up in potential client’s searches. They’re legit. You’ll have to try them out to see which bring you the most traffic.
Lower end websites that rank well look shady but they’re okay to advertise on. Low end ad platforms attract scumbags but those platforms can also be gems. You’ve just got to try them out.
Also, client review boards are an option as well. I’ve only used one and all of the clients have been trash in my opinion. But there are some girls who get nearly all their clients from review boards.
As for the “scary” part, if you’re referring to the sign up process, it’s hard to avoid. All of the high ranking websites will ask you to send in your driver’s license. It’s nearly impossible to stay anonymous if you want to advertise on an escorting platform online.
Can you please please answer this ? Like what will you answer to this man please I'll copy paste below
During the first date, I gave her the benefit of the doubt (she doesn't earn yet but is from a well-off family) because I had initiated the intent to meet her in person. However, now that I have been on the second date, the fact that she hasn't shown even a formal intent to split bothers me.
Another weird conversation I had with her was about gender equality. She told me that she didn't believe in any such things, that men were givers, and that women shouldn't approach men even if they found them attractive. She said that men's masculine energy is in the endless pursuit of the girl they like because women like it this way (it is their feminine energy, as per her), and if they don't pursue the girl, then someone else will (so why should women bother approaching). I felt deranged and genuinely wished Indian men had better standards.
this is where women go wrong. Now why would you explicitly reveal your playbook??
Forget if I’m dating someone, even my guy friends pay for me because
A) I insist on paying and they push back and I think somewhere they like the chase of yes and no
B) theory of elimination
c) positive reinforcement but in a teasing way: “oh my god you pay too often, this needs to stop, I can’t let you do this!!”
d) labelling effect: “you give off lover boy vibes, I feel like you’d be such a good boyfriend” (now they’re expected to live up to it and it hurts them in the ego so they will)
women - never ever reveal your thoughts by words but through actions. Men like a chase. You gotta give them that chase in order to make them do what you want. now if you want to be a stay at home housewife (which I am against btw) saying those exact words would make any man run away. Rephrase it. Different words, same meaning.
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I didn’t make it, but I feel it.
Escort Touring 101 & What To Do When A Client Pays For A Trip
2014 more than any other year I have travelled extensively. 2-3 times or more Every month I was off to some local. It was wild and fun and crazy.
And honestly, for the state I was in, I wasn’t making any real money consistantly, majority of the money I made was from other places.
So I decided to attempt to write out my experience with Touring on my own as well as things I do when clients pay my travel expenses.
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Before You Travel
Trusted Traveller Programs
If you know your going to be hopping about frequently there are some programs you should know about to help speed things up during your travels, below are the ones I’ve found most beneficial.
TSA Pre Check - Good for alot of the major airports in the US. Allows you to zoom through the lines and not have to remove shoes, computers or belts. When you are running late and the difference between catching your plane or not is the TSA line you will be happy for this.
Global Entry - If your going to be globetrotting, you really want this. If you ever thought about working in places like Dubai, Australia or Asia you REALLY want this. Why? If your smart you will be bringing back currency exceeding the 10K USD limit, you are not going to want to declare that because it will open a whole host of problems, namely “Where did you get the money from?”. If you keep making trips to these places, for no apparent reason eventually someone will get curious. You vacation in Dubai 10 times a year? This way ma'am… Your not hurting anyone, your not dealing in drugs, you are a low risk traveller for all they care, GE will allow you to enter back into the US without too many, if any problems.
There are more programs you can Read About Them Here.
Airline & Hotel Loyalty Programs
Ideally, you should pick a few select hotels & airlines that you like and join the loyalty program. I spoke a little on this in my other guide How To Survive A Long Distance Flight but here is a bit more detail:
Depending on how you present your self and where you travel you may want to join different programs here are a few of my favorites:
USA
Starwood Preferred Guests - Include the St.Regis and The W Hotel chains
Marriott Rewards - Only the Marriotts
Kimpton Karma Rewards - Includes hotels like The Epic, Hotel Palomar, signing up gets you free Wifi for the hotels! This is my favorite USA program.
Europe, Asia, Middle East
Golden Circle - Shangri-La hotels, I have Jade Tier and the service you get with it is amazing.
Hotels will ALWAY give you preference and treat you to upgrades and nice things when you book directly with them over a 3rd party site. However there is one 3rd party program I highly recommend:
Hotels.com - Stay 10 Nights get one free. If you often stay at hotels that cost 300+ a night and you rack that up, thats a 300-500 room yours for a night for free. They award you according to how much you spend on average.
A Good Tip: Get memberships with the hotels but use Hotels.com to book them, when you check in just let the desk know your a member so you can get points. If it ever comes a time when your due for a free upgrade, and have your 10 nights in Hotels.com, book the hotel with Hotels.com then upgrade your room when you check in at your hotel! A free spa suite! (Perfect for when you need a fancy place for new photos)
The same deal can be said for airlines, however theres no good site like hotels.com for airlines, however with some airlines you can ‘cheat’ a little.
Emirates - Emirates has a partnership with Alaska Airlines….It is much cheaper to buy miles from Alaska than Emirates….Especially if you have a travel points credit card. You can cheaply buy enough miles from Alaska for first class or business class on Emirates. Just buy the miles then transfer them over to Emirates.
One World Alliance - American Airlines, British Airlines, Japan Airlines. I became an Emerald member and more than once I have received a free flight. Whenever I can not use Virgin, I go with one of the OWA.
Now Lets get on to something that alot of people want to know:
How To Plan For A Tour
Potential tours can be hard, you have to decide where will work best for you, where to advertise, yada yada.
Well, I’m going to save you some trouble.
What should I charge during a tour
Some ladies have lower or higher prices depending on the city, for NYC $500 is a good average for a lady at 300-400 someplace else for example, an NYC lady in the midwest who is $500 might do $400. Some people don’t change. It’s up to you what you want to do. If you want to change prices, look at native ladies who look like you to see what they are charging and match them. Just keep in mind that you have to make back a minimum.
How much money is needed for a tour?
Most Places in the USA: It will cost around 1K - 1.5K for airfare and hotel alone. Places closer to your home will obviously be less but if your going from Los Angeles to Boston or from New York to Miami, thats a good average.
Worldwide : Easily 3K alone for airfare and hotel.
With ads, it depends on how you market yourself. Your ad budget can be as low as $10 all the way to 1K+.
When booking flight and hotels, check the cancelation policy. Make sure you can easily cancel or change in case of anything.
How do I figure out where to tour?
Put out feelers. This works best for Eros Guide, put out base ads in other cities describing a fly me to you package or a potential tour date and see how many guys line up. Look on eros guide and see what kind of escorts are advertising in the city you want. For example, Atlanta is filled with buxom T&A for days, type of ladies, you may do well if you fit that look. Latinas dominate Miami. Little things like that can help you build a list.
You can also pick a lady who is similar to you in rates and looks and copy her tour city list. just don’t be that person who follows the poor lady around like a puppy…its okay if you cross paths once or twice but the same exact tour schedule? Ladies are not dumb.
Where To Advertise For A Tour
USA
A General consensus has agreed that a general combination of Eros Guide, P411 and Date-Check net the best results. Then the local review boards for whatever area your touring. ECCIE for the South, TNA for the West, TER for the East. RS2K is the Midwest favorite that is not a board. If your going to an obscure city for some Godforsaken reason, Backpage is your friend.
UK
A little harder but not impossible. Captain 69, Punterlink, and AdultWork seem to be the kings. I especially love Adultwork and because you have to pay for C69, the people active there are more likely to book. Why waste money just looking after all, they get a list of ladies they want and then pick. easy.
Everywhere Else
Do not underestimate the reach of backpage and craigslist, it can be a joke sometimes in the US but other places it is a gold mine.
A note on other ad venues* If you can not find it on the first two pages of google for certain keywords neither can your clients and it’s probably a waste of time. A majority of ad malls are unless they are popular.
Getting Clients For a Tour
Depending on how big your tour is and how you operate, the minimum time you should wait to advertise is 1 week before the day. Ideally, I would do a month or 2 weeks before.
Some ladies offer pre booking specials and others require deposits. It’s up to you. However keep in mind that for men who want 2hr+ appointments, get a deposit, sometimes they cancel last minute and thats money wasted.
How to make back money if people cancel
Honestly? Freestyle. If you have a really nice hotel, put on your finery and head to the bar. Be shameless, your actually a guest here, there is always one man in a bar who wants to be approached or who wants to approach you. Greylist the dudes who cancel, if they want to book again, they have to pay a fee.
A City I put ads in got very little inquiries.
Don’t go unless you have enough clients to make back your investment + one hour of your time at minimum. Even that is a bit steep but sometimes you will have the last minute people who will boost profit.
A City I put ads in got no inquiries.
Cancel the tour. But NEVER announce that you are canceling it to the public. You will lose face. You will always get the last minute guys who will ask and you have two options: Tell them you are booked up, or tell them you are no longer coming but if they book an overnight or something you can come to them. Don’t ever say it’s because you did not get enough inquiries, make it seem like another place wanted you more so.
With that said heres some advice on what you can do when a clients pays for a trip
Free Trip? Huray! Congrats! Most if not all of my travels have been like this. You can use the advice above to plan your trip but for your sake heres some additional things to consider:
Go a week earlier than you need. If you client will have a hotel or your meeting him at his home, go down a week early to get some extra cash from the trip.
Know your Clients schedule: If he will be gone from 11AM - 2PM, make plans to see a client or two.
Just because a man invites you down doesn’t mean you should stop working, if anything try to see if the area would be a good tour destination for the future.
In the end if it doesn’t matter to you to work or not then by all means don’t. I just want you to know you have options.
However, make sure you know your clients personality a bit before doing this, if your not sure but still want extra money, don’t see anyone while your with them but in place go a week early or stay for a week after.
What makes a tour successful?
I consider a tour successful if I made back twice my investment. So if it cost me 1K to tour, I need to make back a minimum of 2K. The more money you put into your tour does not really translate into how much you will make. You can spend 2K on your tour but make only 500. I think you should spend the bare minimum in order to maximize profit.
Now lets get into some finer details of touring:
What to Bring On a Tour
I never travel with more than hand luggage, airlines lose things like you wont believe. But it’s easy to pack for a week or two depending on what your planning on doing.
If your only going to be seeing clients, Pack one set of lingerie for each day your staying, An evening/party dress, One pair of jeans, one nice blouse,( or a sun/day dress for the jeans and blouse) one simple shirt, one set of heels, maybe a toy or two and your make up. Anything more can be bought or given to you by the hotel.
*A note on condoms* I like to buy the mega packs of 100 / 500 because it’s dirt cheap and I have them for a long while. Condoms have a shelf life of 4 to 5 years. I buy a new set just for piece of mind once a year. I can not bare to go to the store to buy them so I get the big pack online for $10-$20 bucks (Trojan or Lifestyle) and just hold on to it. I put some in each of my bags and secure the rest in a good cool spot. Think about doing this: Paying $5-$10 every time you need condoms is expensive, even $30 for a Costo box of 30-50 is expensive. Condoms are a must have item, buy in mass bulk and save money and always be prepared. Amazon.com & Condomania are excellent places to buy good brand name FRESH condoms for less. Also the embarrassment factor is low. Once a year vs every week or month sounds like a good deal to me.
All the above can fit in a nice Longchamp bag or other carry on luggage if you have a computer.
How long to stay at a hotel
Depends on how much volume you have and how long your staying.
If your seeing one or two guys a day and staying for a week. I’d keep the hotel the whole time.
More than 3-4 guys a day and I’d change after 2-3 days.
What To do about Housekeeping?
As disgusting as this sounds, it might be in your best interest to…..dispose of used condoms outside the hotel. Store them in a bag and dump them yourself. Workers are trained to look for signs of trafficking and the top two things to set off alarms are alot of condoms and not letting them clean the room everyday……Some hotels have a “Check In” policy, if you deny service for 48 hours, they will forcibly come in to check that you are alright, especially if your a woman and checked in alone.
Other considerations
If you can you should try to see the city your in. I made the mistake years back of going to beautiful places but only seeing the airport and hotel during my stay. Don’t be like that, go see a show or attraction. Enjoy yourself a bit and take pictures. Theres so much to see in the world.
Good Luck Touring!
What are the biggest differences between an average girl look vs. a successful escort look? Is it body? Fashion? Or act?
No, no, no...
What do you think...?
Yes, it’s all an act...
Plenty of plain women securing the bag. Plenty of model-looking girls getting used and dumped.
And no one ever speaks regarding this... but relegating yourself to an ultra-glamorous “bombshell” type, or even an all-natural “model” may actually be a detriment. Because you attract a personality inclined towards short-term thinking and satisfaction (aka, not as much revenue for you.)
And aside from fitting in and demonstrating some social capital to your audience or target client in regards to style, dress, external accessories, it is also meaningless in the pursuit of end goal (wealth).
People get too caught up in the details, bite off more than they can chew.
Ultimately, things like your heel height and the style of your nails hold no real meaning: they’re just arbitrary details used to 1) induce conversation, 2) attract the eye and signify someone who invests in their appearance, and 3) are blank canvases to project some qualities on that you want to be associated with in your persona of seduction.
Selecting them doesn’t mean anything otherwise - like nobody genuinely cares whether you’re all in nudes, though perhaps it’s to appear sensual and modern; or red nails, yet another popular choice, given that red’s supposed association with “passion”, which is also discretionary ...
You need to perfect the “heaux” aura… your mindset, the way you carry yourself, and your body language should indicate that you are a woman who fulfills the fantasy, but only if you obtain investment. Only then! Otherwise? Never.
You don’t need to wear ten thousand diamonds, or to don a crocodile Hermès Kelly.
You don’t need to have 10L of Juvederm injected.
You don’t need to have been on the cover of Vogue.
But you should be comfortable internally and externally, projecting the image, that you are a sexual object available for consumption at the right price. And you need to find men who recognize that quality, and terminate relations with anybody and anything that doesn’t recognize this.
Even I, as an escort, can recognize other escorts when traversing out and about. Just from a glimpse. And I can recognize clients - men who would hire escorts - from walking out and about. And men normally recognize me as an escort ... the number of times at Davos, I was asked, “Are you here for business or pleasure?”
The “heaux aura” or behavior signifying you are an escort normally comprises of body language, some overt sexuality, and positioning yourself in social situations where there is a “gray” area. Is a ‘good’ woman going to be out alone, at the bar, with no girlfriends or a boyfriend, at 9pm in a somewhat suggestive outfit? No...
So, how do you do this? How do you project this image?
The first change is internal.
When you go out… you internalize and have the mindset, that you don’t perform sexually for free.
Your time is not free …
Your beauty is not free…
Your presence is not free …!
Read it, internalize it, embody it, breathe it. You don’t explain yourself: when somebody even questions this mentality or framework, you move on.
The second you go out to freestyle, your mindset should be, where is the money? Are you making rent tonight, or no?
Because then, you control your body language to project the image that you are sexually available. You are not a regular woman. What does a regular woman do?
A regular woman hides behind their phone, pretending to be busy. A regular woman avoids eye contact and is timid and insecure. A regular woman is afraid to be seen as sexual and to take up space. She gazes around hurriedly to seem preoccupied. She’s there to relax and be alone, to meet a friend, for a little business meeting.
You differentiate yourself. You’re alone and seem approachable. You’re not on your phone, and you are open and confident. You are aware you’re easily an object of desire, and own it. You are sexually open and in control. And yes, you are a sexual being, but only for the right price. You make eye contact.
And if you’re a beginner, it will take time to reprogram yourself. You need to constantly re-position yourself, and notice and alter the way you carry yourself to give that suggestive, questionable atmosphere. A steep learning curve. So practice whenever you can, and exert discipline.
It should happen. If you are in the right position, meaning, you are 1) in a locality with high amounts of wealth, 2) in a space with a high number of single, unattached men, and 3) have the right body language, it should occur.
You nip conversations with useless men in the bud. You keep your eyes on the prize. You internalize your value and remain unwavering on your end goal.
And you’ll always experience dead nights, or useless men seeking to exploit you. Grow a thick skin; unfortunately, male entitlement to attractive members of the female sex knows no bounds and knows no humility or humbleness..: Make it clear you are here for business - get to the action as fast as possible. Cut them off; keep it moving.
At one point, you’ll probably have practiced your body language and presence so often, it will happen without you even noticing. And you’ll be approached for solicitation even when you don’t intend to. They will come and find you. Then it becomes yet another problem to deal with. 😉