Thanks for the follow :). Just wanted to try and see what you would recommend for me to do to try and convince my GF to do this with me. I explained to her how I do this and like to use them for spicy time. But she’s doesn’t seem to open to the idea and wants me to more or less keep it to myself.
Great question! You are so welcome and thank you for the follow as well - we enjoy sharing this journey and hearing about everyone else’s!! :)
From what we’ve seen so far in our journey, and heard from others, is it takes different amounts of time for each person to feel comfortable. Our advice would be to give her some time to process and maybe slowly introduce her, in person, into your little space. We feel having open communication about why you enjoy it, especially if it means you feel comforted by sharing this with her and want to invite her into being involved in all sides of you because you care about her, trust her, and want her to feel comfortable sharing all of her feelings, likes, wants, and desires with you too may soften her thoughts about it. We’ve found sometimes people are more open when they understand how it makes you feel and why you want it - we feel this can be a huge step opening up to possibly exploring more closeness and trust in your relationship. Does that help? We plan to continue to share our journey as it unfolds and hope it helps others find happiness and share their journeys as well.
