How Do you deal with self-judgement and the feeling of abnormality when you wear? I need help please ❤
Good question. I find that the older I get the less I care what others think. I still have little moments where I wonder why I do what I do but I’ve just come to accept that I like what I like. Not everyone will agree with my life choices and many would find the diaper wearing repulsive I’m sure, but my true friends pretty much all know and they are still by my side. You just have to be okay with the fact that not everyone will like or accept you. Some people spend all their time and energy trying to impress or please others but in the process neglect their own happiness.
Also, if you really think about it, diapers are just one of many choices of underpants. They happen to be absorbent and disposable but what really makes them any more weird than a thong, jockstrap or boxers? People have kinks or desires to wear those as well.
The way I see it, I have a successful career, lots of great friends and family, 3 adorable kitties and an incredible and loving man who I will soon marry. Diapers and my little side is just a small part of what makes me who I am. I am unique for sure and definitely not for everyone but I know my place and I know what makes me happy. Life is just one big adventure and along the way we find ourselves. It’s hard when we’re young but from my limited experience, it gets easier as we age.
Live life your way and love with all your heart. The rest will fall in place 😉🙂 just be patient!
