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@jennibellarella
Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.
Yes. This.
It's ok if you think it's a ridiculous question, but...
Are you an Aquarius ♒?
No, I'm not. I'm a Virgo. I'm also an INFP. And my color is Orange/Blue. Don't know my Enneagram number. 🤔 What are you?
You are a remarkable and open person. Thank you for sharing with others. This may be the second time I have ever posted/engaged with someone in this manner. As a successful 30 something in her life, what concerns you most about your future and ABDL? I'm a decade in front of you and I now find myself with more reflection in this area. Be well, be safe, and thank you.
Awww, well thank you very much! I'm very flattered! 🥰💕
I suppose what concerns me most - I'd really like a special person in my life for the long term. Someone wonderful to share life with, have adventures, and have kinky enriching things with. Feels like thats what I've been wanting for a good long while.
Aside from concerns about relationships, nothing really sticks out. I participate in ageplay for my enjoyment and at my leisure. I make it fit in with the rest of my life. Many of my hobbies are ageplay related and even vanilla people in my life know I "collect vintage toys" and like cute things.
Since it seems to fit casually into my life, it's not too difficult to engage in some cute stuff a little even while I'm assuming a vanilla role.
I don't project much of my future onto myself. People tell me I should. But I just don't want to. I don't know what my future holds. It usually doesn't happen the way you plan it anyway. And, I want to stay open to opportunities. So... I don't really worry about it. (Other than relationship stuff.)
So... What concerns you most about your future and ABDL?
Hi Jenni, Have u been to been to the museum of fine arts in Houston? I was there a few years ago! Such a great visit.
No! But I've been to a Dallas Museum years ago to visit the King Tut exhibition. That was amazing! I love Egyptian exhibits.
Me personally, I was introduced to BDSM in a non sexual way at the age of 14. It was greatly beneficial. He helped me to focus and build self esteem without any sex. Those who see BDSM as just kinky fuckary miss the truth. Every dynamic is unique. I NOT saying I condone underage sex. But if a teen did show interest, I feel explaining all the beauty that is in BDSM is important. This way the stereotype of "its all about sex"/"50 shades" can be put to rest and maybe BDSM wouldn't get a bad rep.
August 18, 2020: Morning
“Grooming is when an adult engages in predatory conduct to prepare a child or young person for sexual activity at a later time. Grooming can include communicating and/or attempting to befriend or establish a relationship or other emotional connection with the child.”
I’m sorry but we see things very differently Anon. I believe that there are things that should not be introduced to children. I believe power exchange dynamics are one of them. What you describe above is the textbook definition of grooming, and I don’t condone it in any way. I think that BDSM gets a bad rep because it attracts predators, misogynists and abusive men. Because it attracts such people, I believe it is especially important to keep children away from BDSM. Sorry we don’t see eye to eye on this one.
JD
Boosting!
BDSM is not a teenage confidence-building activity.
Lots of us in the D/s community recognize that it’s about way more than sex/kink, anon. But non-sexual D/s is an adult-only activity as well. Power exchange is incredibly emotionally intimate. Children can’t choose to let go of power because they don’t really have any. Now that you’re an adult, doesn’t it strike you as messed up to think about doing power exchange with a child? Some 14 year olds at still in middle school. They need parented, not power exchange. I’m really sorry for what happened to you, but it was unquestionably grooming and abusive even if it felt loving to you. :(
Going to archive and reblog with the excellent additions. Thanks Amy. 🙏🏻
Also.... Now that you're an adult, doesn't it strike you as odd that a grown man was instrested in having BDSM exchanges with a 14 year old child? Probably secretly?
Hi Miss Jenna! 🌞🌞. Would you ever consider being the girlfriend or playmate of a male abdl who likes to switch and play Daddy? But sometimes would want to ba a baby boy with you?
Again, it's not out of the realm of possibility. For the right person and the right situation, I'll compromise. But, I'm asking for an incredible person. I'm asking for a lot, and I offer a lot... I want a high quality person to be my partner and share life with me. The kinky stuff is just a bonus.
That said... I'm not a switch. I've talked to switch men before. Kind of like the situation you described. It's not ideal for me. I find they will miss out and not have their switch tendencies satisfied with me. Because I don't switch. (I've had switch feelings for girls actually, but that's another conversation for another time. Lol)
I don't have a diaper fetish. (Shocking, I know.) I have an age play fetish. So -- I like my partner to be big while I'm little. Does that make sense? So, I'm not really looking for a baby playmate.
Would you ever date a girl? Or are you strictly into guys? Just curious.
I mean, it's not out of the realm of possibility. I don't like to put limitations on things. I'm into girls. At the same time.....
I can't see myself in a serious significant relationship with a girl. I see myself with a man. Especially if it's a kink relationship. I *definitely* want a Daddy Dom. 😍 Definitely.
If you had any 3 wishes granted no strings attached what would they be?
I'd wish for my own tiny magical cute planet to live on. No bigger than the moon. With little oceans, islands, mountains, waterfalls. Only my favorite kinds of animals/fish live on the planet. Magical creatures live there too. Fairys, unicorns, etc.... I'd have my own baby princess castle. A cute little princess carriage to travel in with little fuzzy unicorn ponies that pull it.
That's wish number 1....
I'd really love to get into sewing more, but I'm basically a complete novice and have no idea where to start. Any tips or sources for beginners?
YouTube!!! Seriously! There are fantastic (and great quality) videos on YouTube for sewing.
You could start different ways. Depending on what you'd ultimately like to be able to do. What's your ultimate goal for your sewing? What would you like to make?
I started with hand sewing when I was a little girl. Then worked up to sewing scraps on a sewing machine, just trying to make little dolls and things out of scraps of fabric. That helped me learn important foundational things. My curiosity and desire to make things lead me to learning things along the way. I didn't learn everything all at once!
But I'd get curious about how lace is added, or a zipper, or how to line up buttons, or how to gather fabric, or how to make puffy sleeves, how to repair something, how to read patterns, how to keep fabric from fraying or slipping on the machine, etc. etc.
Hi! I wanted to ask if you have/could write a pattern or give advice for adjusting an existing pattern for the booties you've crocheted. They're so cute and I'd like to make some, but I can't really think where to start on adjusting a pattern. Please and thank you!
You're probably referring to the knitted booties I have. I didn't make those, and I don't know how to knit.
For crochet booties, I'm still working out my own patterns. Considering my patterns get stolen and sold by shops, I doubt very seriously I'd share a pattern if it's one I created. That's one reason why I have never shown some of my favorite ABDL outfits I've sewn. And I no longer share my ideas for cloth rattles or other ABDL toys.
Would you like a dl boyfriend
I would like a partner to spend life with. Whose sweet soul speaks to mine when we're together and apart. I want a deep, deep connection with someone incredible. Someone that recognizes all the best and good in me. Understands me and knows me very well. A partner that wouldn't think twice about disrespecting or hurting me. Someone that can apologize with ease, forgive and let go.
I'd like someone with values and visions aligned with mine. A strong, resilient person. High insight and communication is really important for me.
Just to name a few things...
There you go again being all awesome. Well said my little friend. 🤩👏👏👏👏
Awww ❤️🥰 Thank you, kindly!
What happened to people asking normal non kink related questions. How about these. What is your favorite season? How about your favorite holiday? Do you believe in love at first sight? Have you ever found yourself struggling with your core beliefs? If so, what was the situation and how did you work through them? I really appreciate your blog so much. Keep being amazing 🙂.
Thank you very much! These are fun questions... let's see --
I love sunshine and pretty skies. I like when the grass is bright and trees are full of leaves. I like flowers blooming. Leaves changing into pretty colors. I like sparking frosty snow. I like the sound of wind rustling leaves. And, long summer days. Can't say I have a favorite season.... If I had to pick I'd say late spring time and mid fall. And temps in the 50s-70s.
I love to celebrate EVERYTHING. But my favorite holiday is Christmas. I dream of one day having a special Daddy/baby Christmas morning.... Sigh.... Pitter-pattering into the living room, my little diapey crinkling. Sleepy, but excited to see what Santa left me! Watching Daddy open presents baby wrapped for him.... Looking at our tree.... sigh....
I don't believe seeing a person's physical body and knowing nothing deeper about them is enough to warrant the kind of love you're referring to. 🤔 I believe you could court a person without seeing them, fall for them... And THEN meet them... And "technically" have love at first sight. 🤔 I believe in soulful connections?
My core beliefs have been pretty well established for a while now, but yes those were challenged over and over. I've had a lot of really difficult things happen in my life. All my life. There were many, many situations. And I worked through all of them as needed. I'd be happy to talk about them, but you'd have to narrow it down a bit to a specific belief, event, age, time, something. Lol
Would you like a dl boyfriend
I would like a partner to spend life with. Whose sweet soul speaks to mine when we're together and apart. I want a deep, deep connection with someone incredible. Someone that recognizes all the best and good in me. Understands me and knows me very well. A partner that wouldn't think twice about disrespecting or hurting me. Someone that can apologize with ease, forgive and let go.
I'd like someone with values and visions aligned with mine. A strong, resilient person. High insight and communication is really important for me.
Just to name a few things...
Academic advising? Admissions and enrollment? Alumni relations? Something else?
Lol I have multiple roles actually! Why do you ask?
May I ask where are you from?
You can ask me anything you like! 🥰 Just know I may not answer it. 👍
Are you a professor?
No, but I work in higher education.
So what do u enjoy doing outside if this lifestyle.
What I enjoy *outside* of this lifestyle?
Well, this lifestyle is still my favorite thing I like doing outside of work and normal domestic life things. It's still my get-away and something that brings me happiness. I enjoy collecting toys and creating things for my little life -- like clothes, decorations, art. This is the thing I enjoy spending time on. I love being in my playroom surrounded by toys, little books, and crafts and cute things.
Vanilla things I enjoy? I like being creative. Sewing, painting, crochet, hobbies, etc. I enjoy playing cute video games. (Like AnimaI Crossing.) I love to read. (I'm reading the Outlander series right now. I've read a lot of books.) I like going on walks and getting lots of steps! I love to go to aquariums/museums/plays. I like to sing. I like watching TV shows. I even like naps!
