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I think you can tell a lot about how rigorous and committed someone's belief in a human right is by how quickly they are able to name people who they think could or should have that right taken away.

fandomsandfeminism

Like "X is a universal human right. (This doesn't include Y people though)"

Either you X isn't a human right, or you think Y aren't people.

digriv

This includes non-offending pedos too btw . Hot take as a victim of pedophiles but it's a mental illness, such is the same w/ hypersexuality

unknown-uno

Earth Shattering Comedy I personally feel as though Aster would be over the moon with space puns & jokes.*･ﾟ✧*･ﾟ✧

itsy ramble below explaining my inspo behind this if you're interested.

yet-another-heathen

On conditioned whumpees...

Y'know, I think one of the things that people get wrong with conditioned whumpees is their rules. Specifically, when a whumpee was in long term captivity/training and they later get released or escape.

Most people write them as latching onto a caretaker or new whumper, and begging for new rules so they know they're doing something right. A new set of laws to live by, a new framework to behave to.

And that's... not really how conditioning works.

Conditioning means automatic reactions. Your body doing something that was trained into you without consulting your brain first.

There is no decision making. There is no choice. The trigger hits, and you are immediately performing the correct action regardless of anything else.

You're told to kneel? Your knees have already hit the ground. You're supposed to be standing in one part of the house when a certain noise is made? You've launched into movement before you even realize what you heard.

These rules are woven into the fabric of your body. And they are insurmountable. The conditioning overrides emotion, internal conflict, hesitation, beliefs, wants... everything.

Your whumpee may very well hate what is being done to them, and after the moment has passed they're cursing themself and their whumper. They're still a person on the inside. And that person is still very much alive. Most of the time, they will have some level of awareness that what's being done to them is wrong. They'll be angry. They'll be hurt. And they will hate that there is nothing they can do about it.

But the next time that trigger occurs, the response still hits them exactly the same.

So now take your whumpee out of that situation. They ran away, were rescued, were sold. They got out. Now they're with new people, a new caretaker, a new whumper. Or they're on their own and trying to make their own way in the world.

But those conditioned responses are still there.

There's no turning them off. You don't just replace them with new rules. They are in your every fibre. They have been built into the very framework of who you are.

The next time someone says the word "kneel", your knees are on the ground again. No matter where you are, or who you're with. The response happens before you can stop it. If they don't know why, everyone looks at you like you're insane. And you feel like you are.

Deconditioning is an agonizing process that takes more effort than I can even begin to describe to someone who's never experienced it.

Every time they hit that trigger, that response will still be there. Over, and over, and over, and over.

Breaking those rules down takes YEARS. And it is a constant effort that the whumpee has to choose to undergo every single time. Progress is measured milimeter by milimeter. You're told to kneel, and you kneel. You're told to kneel, and your mind catches up with the fact that you already did it— but a little sooner than it did before. Then a split second sooner. Then as you're doing it. Then you feel the impulse just before your knees hit the ground. Then you have a split-second of resistance before you go down. On and on and on and on, inching toward progress despite the fact that you're fighting with all your might. And that progress is anything but linear.

You don't just start obeying new rules. You don't latch on to your caretaker's new way of doing things and drop everything that you were conditioned to do before. These rules don't just get replaced.

Conditioning is not a belief system. It's a flinch response. Programmed deeper than the instincts you were born with.

You can be ordered not to obey the old command, and moments later when the trigger comes, you will anyway. Because in conditioning, the action comes before the choice.

These rules, these laws of your existence, come above everything else. And if your new whumper wants to replace them, they are going to have to beat the new rules into you so often and so severely that the pain becomes stronger than the old conditioning. At which point, the newly desired response will very, very slowly start to take over.

You're not swapping out new rules. You're layering new, worse conditioning on top of the old. And your brain will spend time stuck in that split-second between both responses before one finally grows stronger than the other. And even then, the change will not happen quickly.

That is what your conditioned whumpee is up against. That is what makes it such a horrible—HORRIBLE— and powerful tool.

yet-another-heathen

WOW this post blew up! I am so glad that so many of you are finding it useful, your comments have been making my day.

Since I have a huge new influx of people seeing my blog, I wanted to take the chance to say something about it.

I know that the whump that I write and talk about is more realistic and gritty than what many in the community like to write/read. And I want to remind you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying whump that's more comforting and escape-fantasy oriented. For those of you who write caretakers and many of you in the pet whump community especially, I know that whump is a way to get away. And there is nothing wrong with deciding not to bring the real-life horror into it.

(There is no wrong way to enjoy whump. Remember that.)

But in my own stories, I am writing for someone else entirely. I am writing for the people like me.

I am going to include the horrible, grinding, gritty, and ugly parts of whump, because I know what it feels like to finally discover someone else who knows.

I know what it's like to catch a glimpse of yourself in something like this. To see the flare of indignity in a whumpee answered by a familiar tug behind your sternum. To remember that flinch with your whole body. To know the horrible tug of having to keep your head down because you had to, no matter how badly you burned to push back. To know, to truly know, fear.

I know what it's like to realize that most of the people in the whump community can't imagine these things happening to someone in real life. Things that did happen to you.

I know you're out there.

I see you.

You are not alone.

Every story I write is TO YOU. I will keep calling out into the dark until I find as many of you as I can. Not only to show you that you're not alone, but to promise you that it's going to be okay.

digriv

most people don't know how to imagine it, so i'll remind of conditioning every human has; counting down from 10.

it makes everyone stop, without even thinking. to go “10, 9,” or “5, 4,” to an adult, as an adult. it's conditioning we all learn and is (usually) not forced by physical trauma.

now imagine ten times worse 😁

kritzenkriegen

*thinks up an idea for a silly quick piece* okay haha let's whip something up real quick

*idea gets more complicated*

oh no

sharpilu

buncha lifers as centaurs :3

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RABBIT JIM Y im not normal

noxlotl

Cw body horror ||

That one bugged villager from Impossible Minecraft

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no bc this was sprinting at them full speed. imagine that. actually don't you'll thank me.

noxlotl

Cw body horror ||

That one bugged villager from Impossible Minecraft

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YOOOOOO

sandmonopoly

on the life series, loops, and love @/thirdtimed // on loving, forugh farrokhzad // x // @/sodiumfreak // the only thing, sufjan stevens // @/imwiremother // gaby dunn // dogfish, mary oliver

volcanocraft

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who would be out first (break sobriety)

kitsuneisi

Could a mutant like a zombie or a vampire infect a human, turning them into a mutant?

Nope, some powers may affect other people but it cannot change their nature. Some creatures in the universe (not humanoid forms of live) have temporaly effects, but it's not possible to get powers from any living being from earth.

#from earth #foreshadowing #aliens?? in my ddvau??#waiter! waiter!#there's an alien in my fave au!#i bet its keralis