not lgbt, not cishet

just asexual /// Vent blog /// runs on queue

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Ppl come onto my vent blog, where i vent and ramble incoherently about my life experiences demanding I explain or provide a source for the last 10 years of interactions ive had with radfems like im sorry I didnt screenshot every example of terfs being rapey rape culture rapists and organize them for ease of access you see i actaully do touch grass (and have limited photo space... that im not wasting on things that hurt me)

But terfs seem to precieve me as a weak, traumatized vulnerable, young (underage maybe 👀) groomable FTM, going so far as to headcanon me as raped. And not someone who has had 10 years to watch terfs admit to raping ftms, and spread around guides to grooming us and notice how rape culture festers in the open wounds they call communities. All the mothers who groped their underage sons chests and literal CSAM books THEY DEFENDED because it was written by a radfem (you want a fucking source? Google The Beautiful Boy by Germaine Greer) and constant constant constant mockery of ftm victims. Oh and constant rape threats during "ace discourse"? Well coincidentally acediscourse was a radfem pipeline. Weird. How that works.

Im sorry i didnt screenshot all that, im sorry I dont feel like reliving all that find sources wasting my time to pander to your bad faith badgering on MY vent blog. Ig you'll just have to trust me

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Ppl be like have you watched New Queer Media and its like, google, how to explain that queer media without a ftm mc (which is all of them) is completely absolutely worthless to me but like in a normal way

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Ftm separatists aren't even separatists omggggg, they don't believe in "ftms" "separating". They want us to ally with cis women (our oppressors) and fucking radfems (our *active* oppressers).

They don't give two shits about trans men, they erode our community by including cis women and erode our safety by brushing shoulders with radfems and erode our activism by rejecting our theory and forcing a square peg (anti transmasculinity) into a circle hole (cisfeminism). And YOU KNOW HOW THEY DO THAT? by cutting off the corners and erasing, misgendering, and misinterpreting ftm oppression.

They genuinely think you are the stupidest person on the planet, and are feeding vulnerable ftms into the meat grinder to be raped and detransed by radfems. Gut them before they gut you.

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This kind of fear is heartbreaking to see. I identified as transmasc for years and please believe me that a lot of us do *not* want you to have to detransition or god forbid be sexually assaulted. I’m so sorry if that’s happened to you and has made you feel unsafe around feminists. I would still be seen as a trans man by most peoples definition and my community scared the shit out of me by saying radfems wanted me to be tradwife with a million babies. You probably think that I’m lying to you and that’s ok, I just want you to know that you have people in your corner.

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Cults send out missionaries not in an attempt to genuinely convert outsiders, but to solidify the "Us vs Them" mentality they use to control the narrative and further isolate and condition members.

As outsiders react negatively to unsolicited proselytizing (which the cultist may perceive as a kind, truthful, or benign action), their belief is unintentionally affirmed; the outside world is unjustly hostile to the in-group, and only the in-group can be relied on as a source of safety, truth, and acceptance.

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Oookayyy… genuinely very weird that you think women have to make any kind of effort to get abuse hurled at us or that expressing solidarity is some kind of cult thing. Maybe you should consider that your “allies” show you drowned screenshots of the most bitter, hurt, and exhausted radfems in order to scare you into compliance.

It’s interesting that you accuse me of having an “us vs. them” mentality when you open the post calling the 50 percent of the worlds population, the half that in most countries has fewer rights than the other or is even considered less than human, is your oppressor. How are “cis” women in third world nations oppressing you? How are women who have their breasts ironed and their genitals mutilated oppressing you? How are women who can’t even go outside without a male escort oppressing you? How are female infants who are left to die because of son preference oppressing you?

[discourse-aftermath]

Cults send out missionaries not in an attempt to genuinely convert outsiders, but to solidify the "Us vs Them" mentality they use to control the narrative and further isolate and condition members.

As outsiders react negatively to unsolicited proselytizing (which the cultist may perceive as a kind, truthful, or benign action), their belief is unintentionally affirmed; the outside world is unjustly hostile to the in-group, and only the in-group can be relied on as a source of safety, truth, and acceptance.

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Ftm separatists aren't even separatists omggggg, they don't believe in "ftms" "separating". They want us to ally with cis women (our oppressors) and fucking radfems (our *active* oppressers).

They don't give two shits about trans men, they erode our community by including cis women and erode our safety by brushing shoulders with radfems and erode our activism by rejecting our theory and forcing a square peg (anti transmasculinity) into a circle hole (cisfeminism). And YOU KNOW HOW THEY DO THAT? by cutting off the corners and erasing, misgendering, and misinterpreting ftm oppression.

They genuinely think you are the stupidest person on the planet, and are feeding vulnerable ftms into the meat grinder to be raped and detransed by radfems. Gut them before they gut you.

[femratical]

This kind of fear is heartbreaking to see. I identified as transmasc for years and please believe me that a lot of us do *not* want you to have to detransition or god forbid be sexually assaulted. I’m so sorry if that’s happened to you and has made you feel unsafe around feminists. I would still be seen as a trans man by most peoples definition and my community scared the shit out of me by saying radfems wanted me to be tradwife with a million babies. You probably think that I’m lying to you and that’s ok, I just want you to know that you have people in your corner.

[discourse-aftermath]

Cults send out missionaries not in an attempt to genuinely convert outsiders, but to solidify the "Us vs Them" mentality they use to control the narrative and further isolate and condition members.

As outsiders react negatively to unsolicited proselytizing (which the cultist may perceive as a kind, truthful, or benign action), their belief is unintentionally affirmed; the outside world is unjustly hostile to the in-group, and only the in-group can be relied on as a source of safety, truth, and acceptance.

[discourse-aftermath]

Ftm separatists aren't even separatists omggggg, they don't believe in "ftms" "separating". They want us to ally with cis women (our oppressors) and fucking radfems (our *active* oppressers).

They don't give two shits about trans men, they erode our community by including cis women and erode our safety by brushing shoulders with radfems and erode our activism by rejecting our theory and forcing a square peg (anti transmasculinity) into a circle hole (cisfeminism). And YOU KNOW HOW THEY DO THAT? by cutting off the corners and erasing, misgendering, and misinterpreting ftm oppression.

They genuinely think you are the stupidest person on the planet, and are feeding vulnerable ftms into the meat grinder to be raped and detransed by radfems. Gut them before they gut you.

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Everyday I am vindicated in being t4c

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Watching specific popular blogs make those snappy "exclus are cringe 😎" posts knowing for a fucking fact they reblog from open exclus.

Exclus are only bad when disparaging them gets you clout ig. No one actually cares about asexuals/acephobia.

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Need to start tagging my normie posts as "don't tag as ar/o." If you hate asexuals so fucking much you can't stand any reminder of our existence or acknowledgment of our shared experiences, fine. But let's make it fair.

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Wanna throw up when people call trans women our "sisters" and trans men our "brothers". So gross forcing that shit on people

Like yeah we're a family alright. An abusive one.

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Something about how "erasure isn't that bad" until Stonewall removed the T (from LGBT) from their website, that gets days of coverage and protests. Something about how hate crimes are the worst, most potent form of oppression, until it happens to a trans man, big name trans activists don't even bother reporting on that.

Maybe "it isn't that bad" wasn't refering to how bad ftm oppression is materially. They meant it isn't that bad when trans men are oppressed.

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"It's a small but loud minority" = "irl we just kiss"

Refusal to acknowledge the problem allows it to fester.

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How's it go again? "Its a small minority"?

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I know this looks really bad, but remember your mantra:

"Trans unity is real. Irl we just kiss. T4T is safe and good for you. Irl communities are safe and good for you. You must have solidarity with your Sisters. There is no fundamental issue rotting the trans community that needs to be critically addressed.

It's a small minority.

It's a small minority

It's a small minority."

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Sometimes I remember I'm ar/o and its like *grabs my mental seam ripper*

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I can't believe sexfav aces are the Big Bad of the ace community, seen as "basically allo" assimilationist bootlickers, the main source of acephobia, palatable, because of fandom bullshit*. Because you're annoyed ppl ship ace characters.

Protecting the sanctity of a fictional characters fictional sexuality was more important then real life sex favorable aces. More important then accurate analysis of acephobia (because no, sexfav aces are not palatable to allos, because the lack of sexual attraction is the problem, aces being queer is the problem). More important then community or solidarity. Threw it all away to make sure no one ships Alaster from fucking Hazbin Hotel. Was it worth it.

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"Bluntly if the only time you ever mention [sex favorable aces] is to [baselessly claim we're palatable and acceptable to allos] then I do not trust you."

Also it's "interesting" how sexfav aces getting any amount of positivity is acephobic now.

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