The-Tribute-System

DID system. A mix of many other things all thrown together to make the mess of a person I am today. Some will wonder how I still smile, and I think the same thing!

[what-even-is-thiss]

You know just how long 2018 has been? You know how long?

Did you even remember there was an Olympic games this year? Because I didn’t. I thought oh, last year. No. There was a winter Olympics in Korea and I forgot about it.

[softestvirgil]

You know how long this year has been? The tide pod thing happened in January of this year

[what-even-is-thiss]

The royal wedding was only in May I am so upset

[blueberryymacadamia]

love simon came out this year hhh

[mintedwitcher]

Black Panther came out this year too

[mossdealer]

[benisaconfusedbiguy-deactivated]

i swear this year was like 5 years long or something

[dissociativegod04]

And then 2019, well, where did it even go??

[bpdshan]

exfoliator but for my brain so I can scrub out the trauma

[slowlymadeart]

[deathinfire-blog1]

[systemsanctuaryserver]

greetings from the team of the System Sanctuary Server! we’d like to invite everyone to join our discourse-free system server, by systems, for systems. we’re a relatively large, active server that provides support and community for traumogenic plural systems (DID/OSDD) and the mental health community at large. though we are a space which focuses on systems, we also allow singlets (non-systems) to join so long as they are considerate and respectful of the journeys and lives of everyone in the server and the rules that help keep our community up and running. additionally we’re always looking to network with other servers and spaces to help connect people with resources and others with experiences like theirs! for anyone who’s interested, feel free to get in touch with myself (Ellem of the Kit Folk, the server owner!) here via asks or PMs, or to head right on over to the server at https://discord.gg/v3nMANr

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[winterslune]

due to personal reasons I will now switch and completely forget what I was about to do

[traumauserboxes]

This user was psychologically abused for years.

[madeofbees]

It’s okay if you don’t feel ready for 2019.

It’s okay if the thought of a new year fills you with panic.

It’s okay if it doesn’t feel like an exciting new start.

It’s okay if you’re scared.

Just remember: there is no inherent difference between today and tomorrow. You don’t have to change your life or your plans or your body. It doesn’t have to be a life changing event.

You are still you, no matter what the calendar says.

[spooniestrong]

THIS ^

[acrispyapple]

who’s still on tumblr?

reblog if you plan on remaining active.

just wanna see if the number’s still huge! ☆

[anxietyproblem]

[breathing-memories-deactivated2]

This!!!! A thousand times this!!!!

[undertastic-dork]

Say this louder for the folks in the back

Some people really, really need to get this through their head.

[swissarmy-system]

Person I’m on a date with: you look a little nervous, just be you ☺️ lol

Me(internally ): oh god, not right now…guys please don’t…

Alters(waiting to see who’s gunna front first ):

[what-even-is-thiss]

You know just how long 2018 has been? You know how long?

Did you even remember there was an Olympic games this year? Because I didn’t. I thought oh, last year. No. There was a winter Olympics in Korea and I forgot about it.

[softestvirgil]

You know how long this year has been? The tide pod thing happened in January of this year

[what-even-is-thiss]

The royal wedding was only in May I am so upset

[blueberryymacadamia]

love simon came out this year hhh

[mintedwitcher]

Black Panther came out this year too

[mossdealer]

[benisaconfusedbiguy-deactivated]

i swear this year was like 5 years long or something

[hamuland]

2 scoops of hamster

[survivorsuggest]

trauma nightmares are exhausting. it doesn’t matter if you relive your actual experiences in those dreams or if your brain creates a different scenario based on your fears and emotions, they are always heavy, suffocating, pressing the air from your lungs. you’ll wake up feeling tired, like you haven’t slept at all, like you’ve been running in fear all night. you might find it hard to escape the dream, feel truly awake, it might linger over you and make you lose your sense of reality all day. it’s okay for you to take a break on those days. you went through and are reeling from a symptom of the aftermath of trauma. you’re mentally unwell and need to take care if yourself to recover from the nightmares. you’re not weak or stupid for reacting to them so strongly, they’re not “just dreams”, dreams are your brain’s way of working through what’s gnawing at you and they can be extremely scary and emotional. you deserve to take the time you need to get over a trauma nightmare, you deserve to take it seriously and talk about it to someone who understands. your emotions are real and they make sense in the context of your trauma. don’t belittle yourself for reacting strongly to a dream.

[minjiminjiminji]

XKCD’s excellent presentation on historical global temperature and anthropogenic global warming. 

[After setting your car on fire] “Listen, your car’s temperature has changed before.”

[asteraceaeblue-deactivated20181]

For the “Earth’s climate has changed before” crowd.

[liskobot]

right now we have fortnite dancing

next, we should do sims dancing

[liskobot]

catch me at the club like

[niyarest]

girls night out

[crow-operating-system]

If you are talking to someone with alters, DO NOT say “you need to switch” or “someone else needs/has to come out.”

Because what we hear is “you won’t be able to do this so you aren’t wanted. If only you could be that alter because you can’t handle this.”