Originally an ask blog. Created on Tue,19 Aug 2014

Minors dnf no longer full of joy and whimsey. SHIPPING DISCOURSE IS STUPID, DRAW WHATEVER YOU WANT [Call me Ringo]/22/Nonbinary

[novelconcepts]

Hey, man, c'mere. Listen. Get in real close, this is important.

You're gonna make stuff again. You're gonna make stuff you're proud of. You're gonna make stuff you're excited to share. You're going to feel that overwhelming drive to create, not just the frantic I want to want to you're stuck in now. You're going to have awesome ideas, and you're going to make them into reality. You're going to create again. You're still an artist. You're still a writer. You're still home to the same passion you had before. You'll find it again. It's not gone. It's just resting. Let it rest. You're going to make stuff again. I promise.

[parkchanwoohoo]

if u get second job i'll you

YOU'LL ME??

[fujoislife]

RobbieLiam 💕 and NoelLiam 💕 This is what really happened in 1995, guys 😆

[danaes-silver-hammer]

for the robbieliam girlies

[dlnrmn]

Happy Valentine's Day!!

[flowerchild-eddie]

happy birthday to you happy birthday to youu, happy birthday to mickyyy, happy birthday to youuu :)

81 and still got it, boy <3

[monkee-number-five]

they like it when mike watches them :)

uhm is this even like legible... idk. i hope so

[scaryselfship]

[i-am-the-myrmidon]

[itstwue-itstwue]

Anneliese and Erika Ludlow and Davy

[snarshall]

Draw-over of a shot from Little Shop of Horrors :)

Seymour is a scottish fold tabby mix and Audrey is a white oriental shorthair

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If you are here, you need to not be.

The mandatory evacuation zone stretches from Ball Road to the north, Trask Avenue to the south, Valley View Street to the west and Dale Avenue to the east. That includes parts of Garden Grove, Cypress, Stanton, Anaheim, Buena Park and Westminster.

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Potential blast zone:

[thegentlefriend]

This is for the friends with pedophilia OCD, otherwise known as POCD, which is a deeply stigmatized form of OCD:

No, you are not a pedophile. You will not become a pedophile. You do not have to constantly investigate every single thought in your head to reassure yourself that you are not a pedophile. You do not have to live in fear of yourself.

OCD is a complex illness, friend. It asks you to consider the worst possible ‘what-ifs.’ It is an alarm system that is constantly going off in your mind, one that demands constant effort and attention. It’s exhausting.

You are not a pedophile. Your POCD does not make you a pedophile. Your intrusive thoughts are a product of misfirings in your brain.

Your intrusive thoughts are not signs. Your intrusive thoughts do not define who you are, nor what you will do.

Your intrusive thoughts are just thoughts. Brain goop. Accidental gibberish. Brain goop is not a secret desire — it’s just goop.

Fear-tinged goop, my friend, because often OCD likes to target topics that make us fearful.

You do not need to drain your time and energy in rumination. You are not these thoughts.

I hope you have trusted professionals in your life to guide you in coping with this illness, friend. I hope you have trusted professionals and emotional support who understand the nature of your illness — that is to say, who do not shame you, nor presume that you are a pedophile. You are not a pedophile. No one should be telling you that you are a pedophile.

Be kind to yourself, friend. These thoughts are goop, nothing more. Let them wash away in the river of your mind.

You are not a pedophile for having POCD. My friend, you are struggling with an illness that makes you worry and worry. You are not a pedophile.

[razzafrazzle]

as 4 non-blondes once said. What's Going On

[one-time-i-dreamt]

Wtf all in the same day???

Not equating the first two arrests to the third one, just shocking that it all happened in the same day

[dhamphir]

Your "thought crimes" become action when you decide to log in and write a public dissertation on how it's Okay To Be a Pedophile. Btw.

[this-is-ocd-ocspec-saneism]

I got mass reported until my twt was banned and then I was put on a blacklist alongside real fucking predators 💜 because I dared to mention my POCD 💜

This is OCD saneism and paramisia. (@thisisparamisia)

What the actual hell? I’m so sorry. That’s awful. I really hope you’re doing better. Genuinely, I’m really sorry and I hope things are going better for you. I hope you have people in your life who are willing to listen and help you. You deserve it.

I feel like people see the word pedophile/paraphile and their critical thinking just turns off. They immediately jump to predator and listen to nothing else the person says.

1: POCD doesn’t mean you’re a paraphile. The very essence of the subtype is you’re afraid of being one and avoid people and things out of fear you’ll hurt someone. It’s a compulsion and you shouldn’t feel the need to do that, but OCD is a good manipulator.

2: Paraphile ≠ predator. Plenty of paraphiles have no intention of ever hurting or exploiting anyone and never have. To demonize them is paramisiac and, by extension, saneism.

[hewoweens]

u can be boiling alive in your mind for months and then on a random tuesday ur head gets so clear and life is worth living again and you're like damn what was all that about then