Domina et servus

All written musings of ours are copyrighted, of course. This is the blog of an adult couple, a real life Domina and Her faithful sub male. We are devoted, life-long partners who are very much in love and completely supportive of each other's needs and desires. She posts as Domina or HGIC (Head Goddess in Charge) and he posts simply as servus or "him." NSFW. Please be over 18 to view. If you are the owner of any image presented herein and wish it removed, please contact us and servus will take it down.

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Home Alone

We have the house to ourselves this week, Domina and I. Today is a work day, but usually I’m off work before She is. Her last words to me this morning as we both departed for work:

“Before I walk in the door, be naked. And be afraid.”

Update: It’s 1830 and after She left the office Domina headed to the gym. I’m showered, clipped, trimmed, and clean. I’m a bit nervous, actually. I often am with this, though I don’t know why. I’ve vacuumed the floor and am now doing the dishes, and I’m very naked. I’m watching through the front door window, trying to spot Her Mercedes at the gate to our farm. I’ve laid out all Her tools as She prefers: dildos, vibrators, plugs, whip, crop, chastity device, manacles and chains. I’m just missing the Woman of my dreams.

—servus

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Mistress is one of them.

--servus

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question for servus.. what's the most humiliating thing that your goddess has instructed you to do. That you initially didnt like, but now wish you could do more?

I've always kind of dreaded anal penetration, I suppose because some small fear that it will hurt lurks somewhere. And for the same reason I'm always hypersensitive to CBT. In both cases I end up enjoying myself, and though my cock and balls have never been pushed to the most extreme, I have taken some decently sized cock (we'll say up to 10 or 11 inches). However, I think the single event that best answers your question was the time Mistress had me masturbate while hovering over the kitchen sink with my ass full of water. I had already given myself an enema, but as She led me through Her instructions and told me to let go of the water at the same moment I came, I could not help but worry. When I came, it was truly the most amazing orgasm I've ever had--probably in part because I was so worried at what might happen.--servus

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First useful cock I've seen in ages. -Domina HGIC

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-Domina HGIC

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The Ritual,  Roberto Ferri

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There are moments when I wish for softest touch and obliteration too, for both the kiss and the sting of the whip.

I yearn for everything without end.

--servus

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This was our table last night, as Mistress and I dined in candlelight. We ate with our hands, drank Chianti from cups of beaded glass, and grinned like children. It was perfect there in our gilded alcove, and for us the world stayed its rowdy play. Afterward, we retired to bed, and I begged for Her attention. Mistress took me as She wished, laughing at me, calling me things, and then embracing me in slumber.

This morning, within these walls, braced against a November wind, we still glow.

--servus

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Ultimately, the male comes to realize that there was never a true contest between the sexes, because as a man he never possessed the many qualities present in Women–to birth, to heal, to grow, even to destroy and replant. He comes to see that he may, however, complement Her by adding to the relationship his own qualities–strength and speed and the nature of the carnivore–because it is still a dangerous world.

Growing with Her, within Her, because of Her, his Domina, he finds that being possessed is better than possessing; he finds that in being relieved of the need to conquer, he is a better man as a whole, still fully capable in his masculinity, and with a clearer purpose as the protector, the guardian, the knight to his Queen.

–servus

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To those who likewise earned the right to wear the eagle, globe, and anchor, happy birthday. Semper Fidelis. --servus

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-Domina-HGIC

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You raised me from the slumber of melancholy, and more than once. You came and You saw and You exhaled life into me. I owe You my heart, yes, but my eternal energies as well. Upon everything will I labor. And I will, I swear, touch Your lips in sigh and murmured sweetness even when the world has grown dim around us.

I owe no less than forever.

Happy anniversary, my Love.

--servus

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Devotion in the warm tones of summershine is an easy feat. His love is never more sincere than when still boasting under a laden wintry edge.

--servus

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Sinister blessings and moonlit kisses for the witches and devils that cavort and caper in our midst. Happy Halloween 2017. --servus

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I ask myself, is it not godlike that the Female hand, which can be both soft and yet firm, feeds and in turn punishes?

--servus

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As an interpreter of Female worship and fetishism, and as a submissive male for whom the best place in the world, the happiest place, is below the lowest station of a Woman, some things are an absolute, quick-fire trigger to the senses...and enough to make one feel his very soul bending over.

--servus

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Mistress came home this Sunday morning after a brutal overnight flight back from the Canadian west coast to here at America's belly button. She's been gone for the last five days and four nights, and She is exhausted, of course.

I met Her on the front lawn at 9AM. I wore a black shirt and jeans, and all was in its place. I brought hot coffee and soft kisses, and took Her luggage inside. I had breakfast waiting on the table and our bed covers pulled back. How wonderful it felt to hold Her again, to remove Her shoes for Her. I held Her hand as sleep took hold.

Give me Your burdens and I will carry them as my own. Let the crumbling world slip by. Slumber in peace, finally, while I watch over.

--servus

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The rain finally fell this morning, and I felt privileged to be there and to feel it. I would not cede this place at Your side to another, nor imagine that anyone else could make me happier. I have learned things that should not be forgotten, and in the life remaining, during the short and long of it, I will live best. I will give You the very best of me.

[Image made by me, off our back deck.]

--servus