DonutHere

Just a selfshipper ~ 18 ~ They/He/She

[donutselfships]

Welcome to my blog!

Hello there!! I'm Donut, and I've been selfshipping since before I even knew it had a name. (They/He/She pronouns) (Genderfluid) (aroace)

I cannot draw to save my life, so most of the stuff I post here will be selfship writing or general reblogs of my loves <3! This pinned will probably get prettier with time, I'm new to actually posting on Tumblr. Longtime reblogger/liker, first time poster if that makes any sense.

Romantic F/O List:

https://www.tumblr.com/donutselfships/800508248640929794/fo-list-romantic?source=share

Familial F/O List:

https://www.tumblr.com/donutselfships/800509844169850880/fo-list-familial?source=share

Platonic F/O List:

https://www.tumblr.com/donutselfships/800510315329667072/fo-list-platonic?source=share

I don't mind sharers following/interacting, except for a handful of f/os who I'm slightly more protective over (mostly due to fandom stuff, not because of bad experiences with any selfshippers!)

DNI:

bigots, MAGA, homophobes, transphobes, proship/darkship/comship, selfshippers who ship with irl people (actual people, not characters portrayed by live action actors)

[candyheartedchy]

I love self shipping and having fun :]

[polyamandhellaglam]

Polyamory is safe for work. Polyamory is safe for kids. Polyamory is safe for day time tv. Polyamory isn’t more sexual than any other relationship and it can be just as romantic, sweet, and healthy.

[evilwriter37]

Aggressively reblogs.

[123gocat]

NO CUZ I SAW A POST THAT HAD SMTHN LIKE “tw: polyamory” AND ITS LIKE ???? ???? OKAY SO “tw: relationship” “tw: marriage” “tw: people existing” RAUGHhh

[a-tangled-mermaid]

Sigh. At least I have this.

[newrider]

[wamscoastsmoker]

IT’S HALLOWEEN TIME TO GET SPOOKY

[notsocialphobixanymorelmao-deac]

I T S T H E M I D D L E O F J U N E

[wamscoastsmoker]

I T I S H A L L O W E E N T I M E T O G E T S P O O K Y

[pwhyxco]

ok who the fuck got this on my dash it’s still june

[wamscoastsmoker]

get spooky

[tshifty]

how does this appear every june

[likeimbrandnew]

T I M E T O G E T S P O O K Y

[hellscape-of-sarah-blog]

it’s june

[prinxiety-logicalitysanderssides]

T I M E T O G E T S P O O K I N G Y’ A L L

[imin-loveanon-deactivated202006]

LEE IT’S JUNE

[weirdsthenewnormal]

GAY HALLOWEEN TIME

[2am-soda-deactivated20211215]

y’all know what fuckin month it is 😎

[mimosa-sexypeople-contests-2026]

It’s pride month everybody!!!!!!

[fl0w3rfields]

Wait hold on I interrupt my usual silly posting to bring you:

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE THE #1 SELFSHIPPER EVER TO BE A SELFSHIPPER!!

You don't have to be the loudest fan. You don't have to post only about your f/o 24/7. You don't have to own every piece of merch. You don't have to solely draw your ship and nothing else. You don't have to have hundreds of commissions bought or pictures of your f/o on every wall of your room.

You know what DOES make you a selfshipper? Loving a fictional character! Thats it! Thats the only requirement and everything else is up to how YOU want to experience that!!! Don't stress yourself out by trying to win a race thats not there. Your ship, your f/o, is something thats meant to make you happy.

I want to look you in the eyes and assure anyone out there that you don't have to match some checklist to be a real selfshipper! You can just simply be.

Proship dni

[sweetimaginesforyourloves]

You ARE your f/o's type!! Even if canon or anyone/anything else says you wouldn't be, you absolutely are!! They're your f/o because THEY chose YOU so obviously you're their type!!!

(pro/darkshippers dni please!)

[nebbymakesimagines]

I feel like now is a good time to talk about how much AAVE gets appropriated even by selfshippers who recognize that using terms like "yume" is appropriation.

No, you are not "crashing out" when you see a double. You can talk about being upset or having a meltdown, or if you enjoy making a joke about your situation, that you're losing your marbles or going batshit.

And if I see you using "simp" I am at least considering blocking. That is not a word that you should be using for yourself or for others. In its original context*, simp is used as an insult against men who have feelings for women beyond seeing them as sexual objects. It is a word with explicitly misogynist intention. Using it as a joke or term of endearment is not reclaiming, especially if you are not black yourself.

*I know that "simp" was originally used to mean "simpleton", but its modern definition originated in rap spaces in the 80s.

[nebbymakesimagines]

Imagine you and your F/O(s) blurring the lines between what's romantic and what's platonic.

Saying "I love you" to each other but never kissing.

Talking about wanting to get married... for the tax benefits.

Getting REALLY intimate but never once calling each other their boyfriend/girlfriend/or any other similar term like that.

Your relationship doesn't need to fit a hard category. It's whatever you define it as.

For queerplatonic, altreous, and otherwise undefined F/Os. Dividers by firefly-graphics, banner by me.

[hauntanelle]

one must imagine the tumblr mutual happy

[fireeternal]

rare selfshippers i love you. like i've never heard of that guy a day in my fucking life but you're so right pookie he seems perfect for you

[candyheartedchy]

Wanted to draw something for pride real quick since I never done it before, but also I never felt I could until now. And of course I had to include Bugs because his character helped me be more open and embrace parts of myself that I never understood until years later. Heck I’m still learning about who I am everyday, but I feel more comfortable about being myself now than I did in years.

[frankys-wife]

Wow wow it has been a minute since I’ve posted here lol but Happy Pride to you and all your f/o’s everyone 🫶🏻🩵

[donutselfships]

Haha I'm backkkkk... againnn......

College finals kicked in and I lost all motivation entirely :(

BUT! I'll do my best to be active this summer. Pinkie promise.

At the very least I'll be reblogging Tumblr Sexyman tournament polls which have some of my husbands in 'em. My wife Morticia won Tumblr Sexywoman and I'm very proud <3

[mimosa-sexypeople-contests-2026]

Tumblr Sexyman Contest 2026 Round 1 Part 49

Jack (Jack in the Box)

The Devil from The Bible (Snapcube)

The Narrator (The Stanley Parable)

Voting ended onJun 8

[mimosa-sexypeople-contests-2026]

Tumblr Sexyman Contest 2026 Round 1 Part 67

Dr. Kenning Flugslys (Villanous)

Dean Winchester (Supernatural)

Ryland Grace (Project Hail Mary)

Voting ended onJun 8

[mimosa-sexypeople-contests-2026]

Tumblr Sexyman Contest 2026 Round 1 Part 66

The Doorman (Deadlock)

Medic (Team Fortress 2)

Voting ended onJun 8