rent lowering gunshotz ;3

🌻🌈honestly, this blog is just a big mixture of whatever i feel like posting! currently, it consists of colorful plurfur-type furry art, pro-para related posts (anti contact) , and i also try to spread positivity and inspiration sometimes too!!🐈‍⬛📎 ☁️a big theme on here is self expression!🫧 (the emojis aren't emoji code for anything, it's just aesthetic + personal meaning)

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redoing intro post hold onnn

basic info if you just got here is that i gawt he/him & it/its pronouns n my stuff gotta lotta eyestrain stuff .

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quite a handful of my peers know my social media username, and every now and then i'll just it in the hallways or commons and just be like oh thats me . huh. Me Reference . one two three gocat reference . Ok

[duskypigeon]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH TO ALL MY LOVELY PARAPHILES!! MWAH MWAH I LOVE YOU ALL /P

idk how theyll show up in order haha so the list might be out of order and idk if tumblr flags shit so some names are shortened :p

- MAP - necro - terato - NO-ACT - paraqueer - paraphilia - zoo - alef zoo - biasto - kodo - lol - sho

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AW WHAT THESE R SO CUTE!! this is really underrated whatt!! everybeing look at thiss

MY PIGEONS YAYYAYYAYAYA (no-act, paraqueer, & general paraphile)

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sorry for not posting art lately! i've been meaning to do a lotta stuff online, but i'm busy with irl stuff .

even this weekend i was promising myself i'd post my strawpage and intro post , but yesterday i was at a 4+ hour social event and then went to goodwill and was tired and then today i went out to eat for breakfast and then watched 2 movies in theaters back to back (tadc & backrooms- both were 10/10 :D)

anyways here's whatever the hel this is

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ppl aren't calling themselves MAP's to make it sound "less bad" versus pedophile, its because MAP, (minor attracted person) covers other forms of attraction that aren't just pedophilia

pedophilia= prepubescent children (usually under 11 )

hebephilia=early adolescence (around 12 - 14)

ephebophilia= freshly postpubescent young people (15-19)

there's other terms too, such as nepiophilia (1-4 years old) , infantophilia (less than 1 years old)

so like, MAP isn't made to "sound less icky" its meant to be like, an umbrella term

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zawg i genuinely can NOT explain this!!

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what aboutzz.. plushozoophilia? (I think the creator of this flag got executed by tumblr)

GGWAHH THIS WAS SO FUN!! TY SOFTIE 4 THE REQQ

para flag oc reqs

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original post here

responses and examples with be under the "para flag oc reqs" tag on here!!

rules:

no explicitly "pro-contact" or adjacent flags, it's fine if the flag doesn't exclusively have a contact stance on it but nothing like, specifically pro-contact or anything like that.

i'd prefer if you do this, that you'd be anti-contact + anti-abuse and such (read pinned post for more)

no overllyyy complicated flags. you can have multiple variations of the flag included in ur ask it if you're unsure if it's considered complicated or not when i say complicated flags i mean stuff like this. they dont look bad, but i would like more flag looking flags ^^ / nm

(lightgender and bunbluery flag)

send one flag at a time. it's okay if you do multiple asks (dont spam too much though) but i'd like it separated

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reblogs in pro-para spaces r appreciated! ^_^ these r actually rlly fun

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reblogging this as its pride month!!!! para pride yay!!!

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ALL OF THE ONES I'VE DONE SO FAR THAT IM PERSONALLY MOST PROUD OF!! plEASESEND MORE I LOVE DOING THESE

not in order ,,, i think teratophilia was my most recent?? along with adipophilia ..,,,, yah!!!!!

[dark--friction]

I made a NO-ACT paraphile ask game! I made them so that you could answer some of them without actually needing to reveal one's paraphilia, but still be focused around paraphilias. :)

🍐: What paraphilia(s) do you have? If you have more than one, do you have one that you consider your "main" one? 🎨: What color(s) do you associate with your paraphilia(s)? 🐾: If your paraphilia(s) has an animal mascot, what is it? Do you like it/think it fits? If not, what animal would you choose? 🌿: If your paraphilia(s) has a symbol or non-animal mascot, what is it? Do you like it/think it fits? If not, what symbol/thing would you choose? 🏳️: Do you like your paraphilia(s)'s flag(s)? What would you change about it? 🖋️: Do you have paraphile headcanons/OC's? share them! 🏳️‍🌈: Do you have non-paraphile pride flags/labels? Share them! 👕: What outfit(s) do you think fits your paraphilia(s)? Describe it or show pictures! 👃: If your paraphilia(s) had a scent what would it be? Would it be multiple scents, like a perfume? 🍸: Design a cocktail/mocktail based off of your paraphilia(s)! Or maybe just a drink you like? 🍔: Describe a food or dish that reminds you of your paraphilia! Or maybe just a food you like? 🍦: What does your paraphilia(s) feel like to you? Is it sharp, soft, warm, cold, etc? 🐛: Do you like pokemon? If so, what Pokemon do you associate with your paraphilia(s)? Or which is your favorite? 🎼: Do you associate any song(s) with your paraphilia(s)? 💻: What's your favorite outlet for your paraphilia(s)? 🎉: What does paraphile pride mean to you? How do you celebrate yourself/your paraphilia(s)?

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🍐: not comfortable with sharing! im wondering how hard it'll be to complete this ask game,,, i dont wanna give out too much hints though. 

🎨: bright red, pastel pink & blue, yellow, hot pink. 

🐾: aarrgh it doesnt!!! i wish it did!

🌿: yes it does! one's a  book lookin  thing and another is a paperclip.. i think..?and the other is this hollow circle thing  . i think they're fitting! 

🏳️: yes mainly!! except for one of them , where i cant find a good flag for it because everyone makes it,.. too obvious? idk how else you'd do it though but it's like, you'd look at the flag and be like "yo is that the flag for (insert para here)

🖋️: my main fursona that represents me has the same paras as i do, so i suppose yeah! 

🏳️‍🌈: oh my . that'd be too much to share- here's my pronouns cc 

👕: can't share it without giving too much information

👃: can't share it without giving too much information

🍸: idk how to do that. hmm there'd be cherries and bubbles... but also a lemon . uhh shoot idk . sparkling apple juice??

🍔: boba and  mcdonalds apple slices that they have in the kids menu??? idk how to describe it. or applesauce ,,?  .  OH ALSO SODA!!! and water . and candy n sweets yayyayayyayya 

🍦:  warmth, definitely!! safety and comfort! ^_^ 

🐛: idrk much pokemon!  or anything about it ...,,, my favorite is probably meowth lawlllzzz

🎼: yes but i wont share it cuz it'd reveal too much

💻: Doing Them. none of them are inherently harmful so i might as well. sometimes i draw my fursona doing it , or the fantasies i'm not able to act out (due to them being. well. impossible) but i haven't done that in a bit

🎉: para pride to me means self love . being able to accept myself and love myself for the reason i used to hate myself for . it's recognizing self growth and discovery 

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hello sooo i feel as if maybe i should specify where my boundaries are with my pro fiction stance-

i am not personally okay with sexual or romantic non-consensual RPF. I think if 2 adults say that they're okay with it being made then it's fine

where i draw the line with sexual fictional media is

when it's handled without responsibility and exposed to minors

used to manipulate /groom them in order to perpetuate harm.

showing sexual media to unwanting individuals / without consent (however that doesnt just go for fiction, that goes for any form of sexual media.)

Fictional media on it's own can't hurt anyone- it's about the individual consuming the media. I believe that fictional media on it's own doesn't hurt others, and that any harm relating to any form of fiction is of complete fault of the one who did it.

i've also noticed all examples of fiction "making" or "encouraging" the consumer to do things aren't at fault of the fiction itself, but the consumers individual circumstances.

Whether that be their environment, mental state, or personal choice, pinning the blame onthe art or media they consume is blatantly abuse apologism.

[kuuura]

[shittttyproblems]

not today...

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😋 yummy !

[mouzieplush]

Help me decide what flag to put on a little crayon pride doodle!!

💟🏳️‍🌈💖🏳️‍⚧️

half lesboy-half turigirl

general paraphile flag

bi lesbian

transage

leather

transgender with neutrois symbol

Voting ended onJun 7

Thank uu :)

I'm NOT waiting a day for this by the way 🥹🥹 Maybe at the most like. 30 minutes because I have everything else colored and I'm #IMPATIENT

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herez alla my stuffs i gawttt at the event i waz at frum earlier 2day!!!!

and the event there was a kandi making station thing!! i made the gender nonconforming flag and the NO-ACT paraphile flag woaoaooonbdggr!!

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this sticker that i got at an event has a lotta pride flags (including lithromantic which i dont see that often) and also the leather pride flag which is cool cuz i dont see too much kink flags out and about (although rubber and leather r pretty popular amongst the lgbtq community)

but. whats this?? i've looked everywhere lowkey cannot find anything

like i can see everything except for this one. whats this one?

[catgirlforeskin]

this might be the clearest distillation of how a politics of disgust detaches you from consequential reality.

When judging which of two things is worse, which is more harmful, and only one of the two has an actual victim that was materially harmed, that one has to be the worst of the two, regardless of how distasteful you find the other.

A belief otherwise is fundamentally incompatible with restorative justice, because in the case of "art I find distasteful" there is no harmed party with whom to make amends. Any "justice" sought here can only be retributive, can only push you into reactionary politics.

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oH MY GAWD disgust factor ≠ actual morals!!!!! something could be the most grossest , pedophilic, fetishistic artwork that ever exists, but on it's own, still doesn't hurt anyone, and the harm is in the hands of the consumer and not of the art .

underpaying a freelancer on the other hand risks and takes lives . unfortunately as someone who Lives, you kind of , well, Need Money . and if you're underpaid then you don't have enough money to pay for a house, food, and clothing

[paras-doxical]

Paraqueer

[ID: Two nearly identical flags. The flag has nine stripes, with all of them except for one being the same width. The middle stripe is twice as large as the other stripes. The stripe colors are: dark blue, dark green, yellowish green, off-white, pale sea green, off-white, yellowish green, dark green, and dark blue. The second flag has the symbol of a turtle over top, its silhouette in black. End ID]

What is paraqueer?

Paraqueer is inherently pro paraphilia and anti contact. It is a term meant be used by queer paraphiles. You can only use this term if you are queer and a para.

Paraqueers understand the importance of consent and are strictly anti contact for any paras that would be nonconsensual or harming to others if acted upon. They know that children and animals can never consent.

Paraqueers know that they can be proud of their paras without harming other people, and they support other paras. Paraqueers also support recovery for those who desire it and finding coping mechanisms. They understand that thought crimes do not exist.

Paraqueers know that paraphilias do not necessarily make them queer; however, their paraphilias can interact with their queer identities.

Turtle and mountain emojis can be used as symbols for paraqueers. (🐢⛰️) (🏞️🐢) (🏔️🐢), (🐢🗻), etc.

Paraqueers support:

Anti-contact

Kink

Sex workers

Plurality/Systems

"Contradictory" labels

Mspec lesbians/gays

Lesboys and turigirls

Neopronouns, xenogenders, and neurogenders

Those who are aspec, including aplatonic

Freaks and weirdos

Polyamory

Disabled people

Body inclusivity

Self-shipping

Informed self-diagnosis

People with personality disorders (including NPD, ASPD, BPD, etc)

People with mental disorders/who are mentally ill

Neurodivergency

Stigmatized disorders

Accessibility

Fictionkin/Otherkin/Therian/Alterhuman/etc

Cringe/being authentic

Solidarity

Identities they do not understand

Paraqueers are against:

Pro contact/contact neutral/contact complex/anyone who claims that children or animals can consent

Minors in kink

Purity culture/anti sex beliefs

Exclusionism

Gatekeeping

Censorship

Ableism

Fatmisia

Abuse and grooming

Harassment

Bullying

Shaming

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i made a bracelet of this flag!!

it looks. too . blue . i need to make it greener

idk i barely recognize it now BUT its a niche tumblr label with like less than 500 ppl who like it so i doubt it matters . more 4 me!

[123gocat]

original post here

responses and examples with be under the "para flag oc reqs" tag on here!!

rules:

no explicitly "pro-contact" or adjacent flags, it's fine if the flag doesn't exclusively have a contact stance on it but nothing like, specifically pro-contact or anything like that.

i'd prefer if you do this, that you'd be anti-contact + anti-abuse and such (read pinned post for more)

no overllyyy complicated flags. you can have multiple variations of the flag included in ur ask it if you're unsure if it's considered complicated or not when i say complicated flags i mean stuff like this. they dont look bad, but i would like more flag looking flags ^^ / nm

(lightgender and bunbluery flag)

send one flag at a time. it's okay if you do multiple asks (dont spam too much though) but i'd like it separated

[123gocat]

reblogs in pro-para spaces r appreciated! ^_^ these r actually rlly fun

[123gocat]

reblogging this as its pride month!!!! para pride yay!!!