🌈honestly, this blog is just a big mixture of whatever i feel like posting!🌌
☁️🐈⬛a big theme on here is self expression. i love to express my thoughts and identity and all that! ^^ 🌻🫧
(ps: emojis aren't code for anything, they're just there for personal reasons / interpretation)
welcome to my blog! on here, you can call me cat !! okay!! he/him & it/its!!! i gotta lotta flags n words 2 describe me cuz i dont feel as if i fit well enough into one label. i consider myself a termcollector! :D here's my pronouns cc where u can find anything!
https://pronouns.cc/@123GoCat
on my blog i post a lottta things i just sort of post whatever i want! i mainly talk about miscellaneous stuff & post what i feel like posting. i often post my art which is of colorful kitties as well!! im an artist, animator, and music creator. oh yeah and i LOVE to talk!! self expression and yeayayyyy!!!
im very cringe , and proud of it too . #FUCK CONFORMITY!!!!
i'll post my art here!!! a reoccurring character is my fursona, katli! you'll see more of him l8r in this post .
a big theme you'll see on my blog is paraphile positivity! and self love!! para pride!! yay! i also talk about personal thoughts, queer positivity, occasionally pro-fiction stuff (my specifics on that matter), more!
i'm also openly VERY queer!! (contraqueer , xenogender, & radinclus,, pro-good faith labels in general!) ^^ i try to keep it like,,, positivity posts and to stay out of discourse!
i also in general like making motivation/hopecore kinda posts somtimes , esp with my plurfur art <3 im a furry if you couldn't tell. i'll post stuff like that too! and sometimes kandi . i just do Everything here!!
I am a NO-ACT paraphile & FLEUR adjacent individual! i myself am a paraphile, but as of now im not disclosing what i specifically am. don't try guessing or pressuring me into sharing, i find it invasive n uncomfortable! (nobody has been right yet. i'll come out when im ready, okay?)
"NO-ACT stands for "Non-Offending, Anti-Contact, Taboo" and is a movement for paraphiles who are against sexual contact with (chrono)minors, theriform animals, and non-consenting people, but pro-kink and other means of safe sexual expression"
contact stances & general terminology: https://pache-definitions.carrd.co .
contact stances do not include nonharmful when acted upon paraphilias, alterhumans, transID, and insys relationships. contact stances are outerworld, chronological, theriform, etc. for example, zoo4therian is not "contact", map4transAge is not "contact", and acting in roleplay or kink as a paraphile is not pro-contact!! do not mud down these terms commonly used by actual pro-abuse individuals!!
if you want to know more about paraphilias, here's a great resource!
🦄check out my strawpage!! there, you can hear more about my transID & extended pro para + pro fiction stances, full fursona ref sheet, about me, and socials! 🦋
yayayyayayy!!! ur reading this!! yay! uhm,, uh, so ,, alright! okay so .
my account is actually pretty sfw! as much as i talk about paraphilias, sex / kink positivity , and all that, it's all in a nonsexual or educational way! i dont mind if nsfw blogs follow me, but dont interact sexually on my account.
b4 u interact:
i swear sometimes, and reclaim some slurs! im anti censorship so i wont tag swears, but i was tag slurs as "cw slur" or "cw [letter] slur".
i sometimes misunderstand tone and/or intention. i never mean to be hostile or rude towards anyone!! please tell me if i ever do or say things that are inappropriate or directly offensive for the context , or just in general! >.<
i curate my online space , and i post NOT for the approval of others! as much as i enjoy making other people happy, i will not hide who i am, lie about my opinions ,beliefs & morals, or censor myself for validation!!
as i said before, if i ever say something genuinely offensive or hateful, you explain to me respectfully, i'll keep an open mind.
im radqueer critical, which means i dont support some ideologies of that community but im not entirely opposing them. this is because i am against the community's encouragement, acceptance, &or tolerance of abuse apologism, pro-contact stances, irl CSAM & bestiality, and more. i understand that not all radqueers are like this!! radqueers are okay to interact respectfully and can follow if they read the "stances & byi" section of my strawpage and align with it. just know my blog this isn't a radqueer space,,!
the reason i dont use anti-radqueer as a label is because its associated with anti-para, anti transID*(see strawpage for transID stances) and anti-fic hateful groups , and a lot of harassment comes from it,, . i feel like the radqueer discourse as a whole feels weird because someone who calls themself "radqueer adjacent" could have the same moral / stance alignment (contact staces n etc) to someone else who calls themselves anti-radqueer . idk it feels useless atp
with that, i block freely, and i suggest you do too!! ,, i dont have a dni list. if you're unclear about anything just ask me!
tags!
some tags i often post on are any general paraphile tags such as "op is a paraphile" and "pro para anti c" and "anti contact paraphile" . i also post on the plurfur tag a lot of the times! and common tws, too (suggestive, gore, flashing) will be tagged like "#cw [thing]" or "#tw [thing]"
my custom blog tags:
talking: #voluble meowz 🐈⬛
my art: #by my own 2 pawz🐾
stuff with music: #have a listen🎧
anything venty: #aw dang it🎭
fanart for me: #prrrr.. i cherish 🌟
fanart for others: #a gift 4 you! 🎁
happy positive hopecore type stuff!!: #pawsitivity post
advice sorta stuff: #advice from me
reblogs: #reblog
reblogs with comment: #i've got smthn else to say!💬
note: any post before july 15th 2026 will not be under these tags. advice tag and pawsitivity tag will have some older posts along with "reblog" but all of these other custom tags will not .
🌟MY FURSONA!!!!!!🌟
he has earrings too btw, i just forgot them in the base ref sheet ;w; full ref sheet on my strawpage though!!! (earrings are just black dot things)
info,,, uhh,.... he's me. like he's just me . and my mascot at the same time. it's like , ..,,, whatever i want it to be.
he can also be feral too , only physically though. his brain will mainly always be anthropomorphic in some way!
askbox & DMs
my askbox and dms are always open to everyone, just know that my askbox doesnt have anon on.
i'd prefer you do this for sending asks & dms:
have a blog theme or smthn like such put together (pfp, banner, colors, etc,, no blank blogs! sorry, i just gotta know that you aren't a bot.)
say why you're messaging me
don't be rude or try to start arguments, be mature. i avoid being involved in interpersonal discourse! if you need clarity on stances (example, if you think something i stated was bigoted, harmful, or otherwise offensive, i'm open to any corrections. im no perfect person, and im still learning. along with that, i sometimes need help on wording my opinions in a way thats understandable!) then please tell me respectfully and such!
have patience . i misunderstand things at times, and while i catch myself most of the time, sometimes i'll miss things.
TL;DR- no blank blogs and interact with good intention!
other: dont involve me in shipping discourse or syscourse!
(while i am pro fiction, darkshiping could involve nonconsensual RPF in which i do not support. pro fiction means *fiction!*). although, i do think antiship is kind of stupid. im not explicitly proship but im anti-anti if that makes sense. (given i'm pro fiction im assuming you can figure out what my stance on shipping is! fiction should stay fiction, etc. I only disconnect myself from the proship community due to the drama & discourse n allat ;p plus, it's pretty ambiguous and more nuanced than you might think., no drama llama here! 🚫🎭🦙)
if you really wish to bother with my syscourse stance, you can find it relatively here. to sum it up, very cluttered and a bit confused. please don't label me under any specific label.
oh and. im anti-facism and anti-maga and anti-racism + anti-sexism n all that,, but i think thats implied bcuz of previous info.,,?? im also anti xenosatanism toooo. again, if this isn't already implied from my other statements.
i hope u enjoy ur time on my blog !!!!!!! don't like, just block! i wont be offended, curate your own online experience <3
Your stance on rq being neutral.. do you mind explaining? I do believe the community is harmful.
idk what to tell you bro. i’ve seen a lotta different people and stances in the community and i don’t believe all of them are bad. but i also don’t support everything i’ve seen. i don’t fully understand everything about the community, so until i know more things, my stance is neutral
OKEY 4 YOUR 🫵 HALF OF THE TRADE YOU'LL DO .,, THIS flag!!!!
PERMAFREAK !!! MADE BY ME!!!! its a permaID for being permanently a freak!! whether that be cis, trans , or whatever!!!! more info on the linked post
YAYYYYYAYYAYAYAY MY PART OF THE TRADEEEE!!!
RLLY FUN FLAGGGG i wish id donee more stripessss but i like...a lot the coluours n stuff + freakkk hell yeah im a freak too....WOOOOO YAY
my pinss yayayyayy :3 :3 i made them at a makerspace @ my library ^^ unfortunately the buttons were smaller than i anticipated , because the one with the size i wanted with broken. fleura one is Very off center . annoying . i will make another one some other time but for now here's my stuffss yay!!!!!!!!!
the reason the size is wrong is cuz i got the template wrong :,3 still i think permaFreak , transweight+, and permaloved turned out pretty well!!!! non radq transID flag is okay too but i might try again some other time ,, with better sizes. and also with the no-act flag with the symbol i like the one with the symbol better idk why i didnt include it. okay
i dislike the weird jump to blame suicide victims for their suicides and call them selfish. suicide is very frequently in some way a social murder. i think instead of blaming someone who was in such a dark place that they saw no other way out we should maybe be blaming the people who threw gas on the fire, such as those with a lot of power to make that person's life that bad or those who abused them into it. is that really that unreasonable
"erm actually this thing you said you experienced, where doctors treated you wrong, is illegal!!" Do you understand that medical malpractice is a real thing and not just a plot device from House MD. You get that, right. Right??
"i'm not pro para, i'm pro recovery for paras! i don't support them posting about their degeneracy attraction, and making all those flags to invade the queer community, but i think they should get help 🥹"
ok. so, what does that "recovery/help" look like to you? are you aware that accepting and expressing unwanted feelings can help someone lessen the distress they feel, and is a therapy method proven to work with paras (see this post)? how do you feel about paras that aren't disordered and don't need help? do you think that disabled people making flags are trying to "invade" the queer community, too? why aren't you pro-para, if you apparently care about paraphiles' wellbeing so much? :)
Kinda hate it when some neurotypical people misuse neurodivergent words, especially ones that people struggle with on a daily basis.
“I let my intrusive thoughts win”
No, John, you just got your hair done in a crazy cool colour you’ve always wanted. I have to worry about potentially harming people around me for no other reason than just my brain hates me having fun sometimes I guess.
i woke up wayyy too early (6:50am) and im going to try to go back to bed. i swear 2 god if i accidentally fall asleep and wake up at like 2:00pm im abt to be mad as fuckk,,, ,
i will not confirm nor deny anything but i would be interested in the paraphilia headcanons you might have of me . feel free to comment them here if you want!!! i find it interesting to see what you think!! if you have any!!
aint no way im 98 pounds what the Fuck . dude my cat could snap me like crisp celery.
thats not supposed to happen. my body isn't supposed to be like that :( i feel like i have the wrong body type, like i feel like i should've been born with a different natural body type.,,,,, i hate this i hate my bones i hate it ☹️
if you fucking go on here talking bout any "aww i wish i was that weight🥺" or "ohh you're so luckyyy!!" or "im jealouss" or anything of the like, i WILL block you , that pisses me off so bad. it's insensitive , i hear it too much, disrespectful , etc .
this awakened something in mean holy ssshit omg what thhaat is so nostalgic to me whaat. past me would be soo so happy omg iiis this what comforting yoyr inner child feels like im sso happy
