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♀ 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞, 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐞. 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞-𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞, 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐥𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞!
𝐣𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐜𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭!
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐧 ♀ 𖤓 when this aspect happens in someone's chart, it means that the attention of other people really does matter to them, even if they try to make it seem like it does not. but it makes sense because the sun is something that impacts everything around them thus the reaction of other people could be something you are used to. however to become more confident, you have to remember you are still whole without the attention of other people, the praise and compliments from others when it comes to your beauty or your style should not be the thing that fills you up; it has to be an addition. your confidence has to come from something you already know you are, not what other people tell you.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 ♀ ☽ to have this aspect means that you are someone who could be okay with dimming your light for other people because you are emotionally sensitive. you are very empathetic, which can lead you into situations that allow you to be walked over by other people. stop dismissing the compliments of others and remember that you are allowed to be worshipped. do not hold back your feelings because someone else does not have the capacity for it. people who have this aspect need to comprehend that they are enough for other people as they are enough for themselves. allow yourself to be in touch with things that make you feel comfortable and deep in your emotional space, allow yourself to want to feel pretty.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐲 ♀☿️ those who have this aspect in their chart do not need to keep up with everything and everyone all the time. it is okay to let go and be comfortable in the speed you are at. this could also entail that you can reach your confidence by not holding back your expressive side through fashion or make-up. so what if your make-up is colourful or odd? you are someone who should remember that you are allowed to express your feelings and even frustrations with beauty and romance, since you are so nervous about everything, you tend to bottle everything up. but if you feel like you don't have anyone to speak to yet, do a journal, speak to yourself, and even voice-note it. you'll notice the difference when you no longer have pressure on your shoulders.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐬 ♀♂ some people who have this aspect might not like to hear this, but you need to stop associating your values with men or through masculine things. you are allowed to value both yin and yang in your life without looking down on one or the other. people who have this aspect are usually very stylish and express their confidence through fashion or beauty, but remember, things do not need to be a competition. remember why you have passions and goals in life and remind yourself that you shouldn't measure your success, your allure, and your popularity against other people, or you will continue feeling frustrated about expressing both sides of yourself, or love, beauty, and self-confidence.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 ♀♄ when this aspect appears in people's charts, the harsh truth is yes, your beauty is going to come in its own time but when it appears, it is going to be the prettiest bouquet. this is the type of beauty that lasts compared to other people, and I am not trying to stir competition im saying it in a manner of, when there's trendy beauty going in and out, people who have this aspect embody the type of look that always stays standing as time passes by. this aspect means that the majority of the people who have this in their chart have a hard time feeling their own special allure, and that comes with the territory of this aspect. you have to go through the lessons of feeling "ugly" to understand what it means to entirely comprehend beauty that is not shallow and superficial, but is also about self-peace and self-belonging, and once you realise that your beauty belongs to yourself, you become unstoppable.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐣𝐮𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫 ♀♃ this aspect means that you are someone who gives love so much to other people, but you forget to give it to yourself, or it can go the other way round. balance is important here, and how you impact people emotionally and socially is prominent with this type of aspect, because philosophy, when it comes to love, is a big tool with how you interact with yourself and with other people. you are someone who needs to remember that the love you have is a gift, and you should never stop giving it to yourself, though another thing you have to remember is that there is so much in life you have to learn, so do not think everything is over when it comes to your social or romantic life, and even the "progress" of your beauty. with the Jupiterian influence, this means that you are supposed to be trying things until they finally suit you not because you have to settle with the mentality other people try to put into you.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐮𝐬 ♀♅ to have this aspect is to comprehend that the second you could understand words and behaviour from other people, you understood that you stood out because it is likely something other people continuously picked on you about. this is the aspect where individuals are too ahead, juxtaposed to the individuals they are around. on the other hand, to learn your confidence and security you have to learn how to tame your ego that wants to be different than people all the time because if you dont you'll find yourself trying to keep up wit all types of people and instead of being happy with what makes you unique currently, you might become too bothered on how other people can creative innovative ideas and ways to treat themselves before you.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐞 ♀♆ when this aspect appears in someone's chart, it means that you are someone who needs to understand what you want and to stop going along with the ride because it means you are less lonely. to gain confidence, you have to learn that merging with other people does not mean you have to lose your identity or your values and what makes you beautiful. you are someone who is allowed to adopt different ideas and aesthetics, but that does not mean you have to forget your roots because you want to run away from the feelings and thoughts that make you face the root of your need to be with someone, to feel beautiful, or to feel needed. understand that your confidence does not specifically come from your connections but from your ability to bring what you thought was lost in you back into reality.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐨 ♀♇ this aspect can mean that you are someone who can go through many self-destructive eras due to beauty. this aspect speaks of an obsession with attaining beauty to the point you forget about the self-help lessons you are supposed to go through to actually healthfully embody the attributes you want to display as an evolved version of yourself. this aspect requests you to calm down, stop being so fast, and stop being so scared about the fact that you won't embody the version you want yourself to be in time, because when you are too busy focusing on that, you lose track of focus. understand where your obsession with romance and beauty has come from, comprehend that you are way more than what people might've said to you in the past. people who have this aspect usually have intense interactions with other people when it comes to beauty or romance which could've impacted your connection to your confidence to be more of a power-trip than something that adds onto your allure. you have to remember that you are way more than your looks if you don't, you will always associate your looks with why you gain attention from other people and not the fact that you are a powerful force in people's lives and your own.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 𝐧𝐨𝐝𝐞 ♀☊ similar to venus aspecting pluto. north node and venus making a connection means that you are someone who prioritises Venusian themes and qualities. it could be something that dictates your life that when you feel like you are not involving yourself in Venusian qualities, you could feel as if you are letting yourself down. romance and beauty could be something that angers you, you could feel like you let yourself and other people down if you are not following the standard of what beauty and even what femininity should be like. what this aspect is saying is that for you to feel confident, you have to make your own version and caliber of beauty. you also need to take care of yourself, your insecurities, and what makes you to feel inadequate. just pushing forward and acting as if you are better than looking at what makes you competitive and insecure does benefit no one.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐧𝐨𝐝𝐞 ♀☋ when this aspect appears in someone's reading, it means that these people lose themselves in beauty standards or lose their respect to gain the attention of someone they are crushing on. this is quite similar to Venus aspecting Neptune because both energies can imply feelings of isolation and being lost, so when the object finds something it could center around, it attaches itself to the new foundation to never feel lonely anymore. however, how this can make an individual less secure is that they could fall into patterns of involving themselves with people and situations that do not emotionally fulfill them all because they don't want to be alone. in other people's theories, this is an indicator of having a karmic love life from the past that you have to heal in this lifetime, or it will continue to torment you. on the brighter side this is a very musical placement.
ꨄ 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐱𝐢𝐬 ꨄ
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭/𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 ꨄ this aspect means that you are someone who sometimes feels like you have to perform for other people instead of pursuing things that make you as a whole happy. you might've been someone who was introduced to the structure of beauty, "femininity" at a young age, so when you are interacting with people or just things you like, you might measure it against how feminine you are. to become more confident, you have to become someone who lives through beauty and life for yourself and not for the expectations and standards of other people. remember your beauty belongs to yourself; you don't have to be like everyone else.
𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐦𝐮𝐦 𝐜𝐨𝐞𝐥𝐢/𝐦𝐢𝐝𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐧 ꨄ to have this aspect in your chart means that a more emotional and angrier side of femininity could've been disciplined out of you so there could be insecurity about expressing your feelings towards someone without feeling or thinking that you are being too much for others. to feel more confident you have to stop feeling awkward about liking the things you like, many of you could feel as if other people are going to be making fun of your interests when you speak about them and sometimes this aspect could make people embody the trait of thinking that they're so deep and different which makes them alone but that's not always the case.
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