oh my god do NOT get me started on the phrase "oh it's just a phase!!"
my brother in CHRIST. WHO GIVES A FLYING FUCK?? so what if it's a phase??? it's no less valid, hello??? is there anyone in this room that has common sense??
i don't CARE if you were gay for a year before realizing that your attraction to the same sex was completely aesthetic and not romantic/sexual.
i don't CARE if you were trans for a couple of months before realizing that your gender confusion was mottled by the amount of stress and anxiety you had felt due to general life, which caused you to lose sense of your identity.
i don't CARE if you were asexual for a decade before realizing that your sex-repulsion was from your depression-induced low libido or general mental health problems.
i don't CARE if you were polyamorous for a week before realizing that your attraction to multiple partners came from a need of close relatives, comfort, or strong familial/platonic love.
i don't CARE if you were queer in any shape or form before realizing that you weren't due to some reason or a lack of a reason.
your identity throughout your life is a damn fucking JOURNEY. it's GOING to change, it's GOING to fluctuate. that's the entire concept of a "journey." it's not linear, it's not concrete. but that doesn't make it any less valid.
don't feel guilty for breaking up with your partner because you're no longer gay. don't feel guilty for detransitioning because you're no longer trans. don't feel guilty for anything that has to do with your own self discovery.
given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that
The way most of these are from 2021 and onwards... ewwwwwwww
Like. Holy crap the best faith interpretation of these tweets is that she was too dumb to realize how misogynistic she sounded. Else this is actually just misogyny.
This is actually so fucking gross what the hell. What are you fucking thinking when you type this shit?? I'm sorry but. No. If you defend her, you're an asshole. She's said and done SO MUCH fucked up shit at this point.
This also seems like a good opportunity to bring up other disgusting tweets I've seen screenshots of and haven't seen people talk about:
Sometimes, fanfiction is carefully plotted out stories, with plot points and call backs and themes that all tie it up in a meaningful and exciting way.
And sometimes fanfiction is, ‘Watch me do a fucking KICK FLIP off this cool sentence!! Also here's some sex'
there will never be anything as funny as the mutual disbelief between long form and short form fic writers about each other's style.
short form writers look at people writing 100k+ fics as though this is some sort of talent given as part of a fae bargain, that the commitment required shows some sort of ungodly mental fortitude.
meanwhile long form writers look at people writing 1000 word one shots like god I would cut off my left nipple to be able to say anything concisely. i would love to play with multiple ideas. free me from the shackles of this child I have birthed. i love them but I now must take them to t-ball and doctor's appointments and they're going to destroy everything I own.
Etho: (overlapping) Without moving, sitting up straight uh with, you know how you do the, the O with your legs
Gem: An O with your legs?
Etho: So you have them up, right, but they're kind of folded on top of each other
Gem: Oh, you have like your, your, your ankle on your knee?
Etho: Exactly, yeah
Gem: Your ankle's on your knee, okay, yeah
Etho: This is kind of me right now
Gem: This is you
Etho: Some- something like this
Gem: Uh-huh. Boy, you'd fit right in in guess the build
Etho: Yup (laughs)
Gem: (laughs)
Etho: With, with Skizz, right?
Gem: Yeah, okay, yeah, chat I think, I think, well, I think that's typical
Etho: Uh-hum
Gem: We'll diagnose that as typical
Etho: Does it mean something or what?
Gem: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, it doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean anything. They're just curious
Etho: Yeah. Yeah, you reposition all the time, otherwise you get sore
Gem: Okay, follow-up question from, again from the chat, has nothing to do with me. If you were to have like your dream couch, okay, in your house. What color is the couch?
Etho: What color is the couch? Well it's gotta match the place
Gem: Well yeah, but like your dream couch. Like the whole room maybe is coming together or whatever. What's the couch color?
Etho: Boy, that's a hard question
Gem: I know, it took Grian a while to answer this one
Etho: It's not like, it's not like a great answer. But it would probably be brown of some sort, just, just 'cause I don't know. I don't feel like couches should be like a feature?
Gem: Oooh, okay
Etho: More like background, right?
Gem: Yeah, no, I agree, and I do - brown is good, very natury
Etho: And like if you get a white couch. Someone - you invite someone over, there's gonna be stains
Gem: If you had said white. No, nuh-uh, no it can't be white. Well -
Etho: What's, what's your answer on that one?
Gem: Green
Etho: Green like a forest green kind of thing?
Gem: (overlapping) Like a dark green. A dark - maybe like an emerald or olive, something very deep, sprucy colored
Etho: That's a good choice 'cause that's kinda like a brown, like it's a, it's a neutral color, right?
Gem: Yeah and not like lime green, that, that'd be crazy, that'd be wild. It's gotta be still natury
Etho: Uh-hum
Gem: That's my dream. Chat, are you satisfied now? We've got our answer (laughs)
Etho: (laughs) This is what you put up all day with, weird questions like this Gem, okay
Gem: They take after the streamer, really
Etho: Right
Gem: Yeah. Yeah, I, I agree with your diagnosis, chat, I agree. I think we already knew that, but I agree, I concur
Etho: Okay now I gotta pull up the chat. What are they saying? What is this diagnosis?
Gem: (laughs) Well it's pride month Etho, so. You know there's just certain answers
Etho: You can tell by how someone sits?
Gem: No, no, no. You can't actually, to be clear. But me and Lizzie were in a call the other night and we were both sitting a certain way. And then the dads were both not sitting that way. So we started to make jokes
Etho: Were they cross-legged?
Gem: That maybe there's a correlation. No, the dads were sitting like proper in an office chair. Just normal, like feet planted, arms just on the desk, just normal sitting. At least you've got one leg up, a little bit of spice
Etho: No, no, both legs, both legs
Gem: Oh, both legs and right, both legs. Both - wait, you're cross-legged basically?
Etho: Uh not - like the legs are on top of each other, I guess
Gem: So like ankle on knee, but both, both ankles on your knee. Both ankles are on the knees
Etho: (overlapping) One, one, one ankle under knee, one on top of knee
Gem: Oh
Etho: Folded together, you know
Gem: Okay, alright. I see
Etho: What do they call that? Crisscross? Hmm
Gem: They're saying crisscross. Pretzel style
Etho: That's, that's pretty much it yeah, pretzel style
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