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(HE and THEY shall be used to refer to me from hereon!!) Ahoy! =} Currently winging life, it's hard to be whimsical sometimes, but I still survive; (I draw and write sometimes!) I'm adult yes

[dramatic-delirium]

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[dramatic-delirium]

On Building Something Tender and Keeping It Yours

Some evenings you don't want advice or noise. You just want to feel met. That gentle wanting is what led me to sweetdream.ai one quiet night, and what kept me there was the sense that I was being handed the controls rather than sold a fantasy.

Designing an AI girlfriend on SweetDream feels almost like writing a letter to a part of yourself you've never said out loud. You choose her appearance, her temperament, her voice, the backstory and little contradictions that make her real. Then the conversations begin, and they're so natural and emotionally aware, remembering context across days, that you forget to be self-conscious. There are voice messages, human-sounding phone calls, even video calls and live cam sessions with select characters when you want more presence.

But the line I trust most is the one about discretion. Everything you make and everything you say stays private. That combination, deep personalization plus genuine safety, is rare, and it's why SweetDream stands out to me as the most thoughtful AI companion platform out there. It lets the tender thing you build remain wholly, safely yours.

[bonyassfish]

Speaking as a survivor of child sex abuse: the world would be a lot better if yall spent less time talking about the ways in which pedophiles should be punished and more time supporting survivors and preventing abuse

I get it, punishment can feel cathartic. I’ve certainly spent time imagining all the ways in which my own abuser might be punished. But ultimately, him dying, or being jailed, or publicly shamed, isn’t actually going to help me nor will it stop more kids from getting hurt in the future.

I don’t want more prisoners. I want free therapy with trauma informed counselors. I want better sex education for young children that teaches them about consent and body autonomy. And I want a society in which I can openly discuss my trauma, or at least as openly as yall discuss the evils of pedophiles

[bellaswansong]

yeah how come we cant even mention how we were hurt but y'all can bring up pedophilia anytime you want in front of us for no greater purpose than virtue signalling? thus reminding us of what happened daily while we are just trying to vibe. thus compounding the harm we went through. food for thought

[venerable-thief]

I am a huge fan of retiring to my quarters

[somethingusefulfromflorida]

In this economy you'll be lucky to retire to your nickels

[quinnception]

[oatmealaddiction]

I feel like some of you guys think "bad art" is like someone gluing rhinestones to a water melon, or a guy who made his own armchair out of Ohio license plates, or a trashy romance novel where someone says "the blue-eyed one kissed the brown-eyed one," when in reality bad art is a 1000000 Billion Dollar movie where none of the workers got paid and every single creative decision was market tested to see how lucrative of a profit it could foreseeably make to wow shareholders.

[fancygermancar]

trying to make unlikable characters

[ribstongrowback]

amiguita i'm not letting you keep that one in the tags

[p0tat0-g0ddess]

I haven’t platonicposted in a while

[joeyclaire]

what’s it called when you’re so disconnected from reality that cold water doesn’t feel like anything and you can barely taste food anymore

[joeyclaire]

[magekrove]

wanted to make something simple for a button

[depsidase]

[uhrwerk-und-eisen]

I stumbled across this corner of Tiktok the other day - people claiming that "their" chatGPT is "awakened" and telling them about the nature of the universe, consciousness, spirituality, etc, and I had to turn my phone off and go lay down for a while. What the fuck.

AI LLMs are NOT fucking CONSCIOUS or SENTIENT, y'all. They don't *know* or *understand* ANYTHING. They can't even tell you anything NEW!!! ChatGPT and its ilk simply spit out likely combinations of text based on what's been scraped from existing data. It does not have unique thoughts or a personality. It either regurgitates existing things or hallucinates garbage.

Here I thought people having AI girlfriends/boyfriends and students using it to outsource thinking for them was the pinnacle of fucked up, but I was wrong.

Not only are we outsourcing human livelihoods, creativity, the development of critical thinking skills, and human romance to this Mindless Shit Machine, we're now hanging our faith on it like some kind of religious oracle??? And we're burning up the only fucking planet we can live on at FRIGHTENING speed to do it.

The depths of human stupidity continue to horrify me.

Fuck AI.

[dramatic-delirium]

I am mostly an atheist, but I do understand and somewhat appreciate spirituality. Rituals and finding meaning in life and universal connections and security are all very human cravings. And let me inform me you can make up the rules! You can make up your personal beliefs, you can customise it, you can mix and match, find what's good for you!

So please just make your religious beliefs yourself if you do not like the standard flavours, why— why would you let an LLM do it?! T.T

[ziijsh1]

you should support drag kings. btw. I think it's incredibly telling that nobody knows they exist at all. "oh they weren't around" they've been around since the late 1800s/early 1900s

(poster from 1907)

(image from 1977, right)

support drag kings just as much you support drag queens. Or at least more than Chappell Roan.

@transfemme-shelterdog

[valeriapryanikova]

catfish

[lloerwyn-deactivated20201104]

Every word that starts with an N should have a silent G in front. Gnorway. Gnuclear. Gnervous system. Gnipples.

[esoanem]

At some point my brain decided based on the word knee that body parts beginning with a n sound should have a silent k (particularly the word neck) so I am against gnipples wholeheartedly, it should clearly be knipples!

[lloerwyn-deactivated20201104]

How about a compromise? Gn words and kn words get switched. So now it’s gneecaps and gnowledge, but it’s also knome and Knosticism.

[lunamargarita]

the problem with this is that it doesn’t account for the original dilemma, which was gnipples vs. knipples 

I, for one, think it should be pnipples, like pneumonia 

[lloerwyn-deactivated20201104]

Okay, but what about mnipples, like ‘mnemonic’?

[thatwheezingsoundthetardismakes]

Gkpmnipples (pronounced “nipples”)

[anasandorpygoscelis-deactivated]

This is the kind of content I remain for. (and y'all provide on the regular, I love you)

[definitelynotclayface]

Female presenting gkpmnipples

[evilkitten3]

what the fuck are you people doing, trying to invent neo-french?

[astrophysicist-not-princess]

No, we’re inventing Gkpmneo-French

[sacred-portal]

[dogboyrevenge]

@dramatic-delirium

[dramatic-delirium]

Which fox me?

[kaelio]

[m4gethecat]

[wuntrum]

i am nooooot locked the fuck in. im locked the fuck out. call the locksmith

[unionizedwizard]

i mean typically this is like

>research shows testosterone HRT is not a contraceptive so you still need to use protection!

>ok. do you know if it has literally any effect on fertility whatsoever?

>lol no

>ok. so hypothetically how would a trans man on HRT know if he's pregnant?

>well silly girl :) you just check your period :) if you missed your period you might be pregnant! duh!

>ok. testosterone HRT stops your period after, like, 3 months though

>[windows error sounds] well then you can usually feel your breasts get heavier and more tender :)

>ok. what about people who don't have mammary glands anymore? how would that even work?

>listen i don't know. why don't you have a pregnancy test?

>those tests work by detecting a specific hormone. does HRT interfere with this hormone by either making it undetectable or stopping its production entirely or anything? how do i know the test itself is reliable?

>have you tried the morning after pill?

>the morning after pill is also hormone-based. how do i know it's reliable? does taking testosterone HRT have any impact on its efficiency? could it potentially cause an adverse reaction? could a trans man with updated ID documents even access it in the first place since the pharmacy only delivers it to people they think, at a glance, could be pregnant?

etc etc

[unionizedwizard]

like i dont know . i keep thinking of that doctor i saw three times at the goddamn hospital and to whom i explained the concept of taking hrt (prescribed) (controlled) (medical setting) three times and i still don't think he actually understood. "but you look different!" bingo doc that's what it does! "but ... can it actually change your body? :o" bingo doc ! that's what an """hormone"""" does . that's like its whole thing actually. that's what , it does ,

it's like the people at work (transcription) (remote office work) (linguistics) (spelling) (grammar) (writing) (language) (grammar) being confused at the concept of "pronouns". "what do you mean by "pronouns"?" cindy my belovedest ! i think the problem might not actually be that you don't know about The Transsexuals? i think you might actually just be worryingly bad at your job. you know? the job which is "know about grammar"? that job? the grammar job? the job that is about knowing grammar rules? that job? the one that you have? cindy? cindy. cindy look at me. CINDY,

[sutulicat]

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