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BONES ∆ HE/HIM ᘛ⁐̤ᕐᐷ ᘛ⁐̤ᕐᐷ Marginalized Bitching Sideblog. Disabled physically & mentally. Cripple punk. Neurodivergent. Mentally ill. Third culture kid. Queer. Adult ∆ SFW Please don't try to befriend me if you're a minor. You can follow if you want though.

[goth-rooster]

II apoI apWaWanted tk leo ley t yall know this and all my other accounts are gonna be inatctive now. Nowt that I have many folowllowedrs or anythibg but.

. Tubmblr becaume intolerable dye tue to staff. WhI cpuld tolerate it befoee with a carefyully cuearated following list, but they just. Madwe it unavoidable . Theyre boiosting thw 0e platforms of nazis, racis racists,ableists etc. They make the app less and less function

al al and hard to use. They started adding incessant and triggering ads. Basically im judt sr t donw e for the sake of ny my own mhealth. I dont gotta amothnother place ti do direct yall to if u wanna fjbd me bc social mesiadia sucks shit in geberanera L.al. in Unfortunatley cant pyut my disxcord here either bc ik forom expeeierie.xe ill gtll just clutter my frienrsds list w ppl whoholl nlnlyonly message a couplr re times and then never atafaigsiajn. in. n

bit rehagardless i wush yall welli, .

[goth-rooster]

there goes the app fucking up simple tasks again. What i typed was perfectly legible but i hit post and suddenly ???? This kinda shit id why im leaving lmao

[ablesisters-remaking-deactivate]

i think tumblr isn’t ready for this take yet but, while solidarity between the mentally ill/neurodivergent and physically disabled communities is important, we face very different kinds of ableism and you really need to stop hijacking posts about issues or positivity related to disability and making it about mental health

[ablesisters-remaking-deactivate]

like it seems to be a trend especially in online spaces like tumblr/twitter and it’s tiring - someone can make a post about, say, being in constant physical pain and someone will try to make it about depression as if the two are remotely comparable. it just feels bad man. let us talk about our issues or spread uplifting messages about the struggles we face without making it about yourselves

[ablesisters-remaking-deactivate]

[image transcription: a light blue banner that reads “if you are able-bodied don’t fucking comment on this post”.]

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

Disabled person: “I got a new wheelchair! Woot!”

Another disabled person: “YASS! Freedom!!!”

Abled person: “That just makes me so sad.”

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

Ableds keep your soggy ass pity and ableist bullshit to yourselves challenge.

[randomslasher]

Me: “I got new glasses, finally! No more constant headaches and I can SEE!”

Abled: “Sweet frames, I like them!” 

Also me: “I got a new cane and put sparkly tape on it! It really helps my balance and eases my back pain when I have to stand for prolonged periods. Plus sparkly!” 

Abled: “Oh gosh oh no I’m so sorry for you, oh dear how tragic!” 

[sweetest-honeybee]

This is how some people acted when I tried out some finger braces for my arthritis and it was so annoying lol

[livebloggingmydescentintomadness]

i feel like this thing where people are going stir-crazy and want something to do less than a week after being explicitly ordered to stay home under threat of disease and death kind of blows a hole in that “if we give people universal basic income everybody will just be lazy and won’t want to work” talking point

[jenroses]

The number of artists, writers and musicians dumping output for free to cheer us up is right there in the “people will do productive things because the things need to be done” department.

[metapianycist]

autistic self diagnosis is valid

[actingnt]

a person: i’m autistic. i don’t have a professional diagnosis.

a neurotypical: you can’t! self diagnose! autism!!! onLy a dOctor can do that!!!

most doctors: don’t know what autism looks like in people other than nonverbal white cis boys

most doctors: recommend abusive therapies for autistic kids and teens

most doctors who specialize in diagnosing autism: refuse to evaluate adults

an autism evaluation for a minor teen who wants one: requires having supportive parents who understand that autism is not a tragedy and looks different for every autistic person, and that many autistic people can talk, have friends, do okay in school, and otherwise fake looking neurotypical

an autism evaluation for an adult: very expensive and often not covered by insurance in the U.S., also extremely difficult to get in France

an on-record autism diagnosis: can be used to deny you custody of children, to have your kids taken away, to forcibly institutionalize you

autism advocacy orgs that actually help autistic ppl like ASAN, AWN, AANE: Here are some resources for figuring out if you could be autistic. Professional diagnosis is a very personal decision and is not required for knowing that you’re one of us. We support you as an autistic person even if you don’t have a paper diagnosis.

a sincere autism self diagnosis: harms no one even if it’s incorrect, enables the person to feel part of a community of people with similar issues and learn more about autism, a gateway to learning about autism acceptance movements, often the first step toward self acceptance and self esteem

[ethan---green]

Okay, this post actually helped me a lot a while back. Idk if I’m ADHD or autistic, but either way, super helpful

[aprotestforyourheart]

This post is really helpful!

[scottishwobbly]

“Accordingly, we are fed a steady diet of reproaches by liberal and misanthropic environmentalists alike about how ‘we’ as a species are responsible for the breakdown of the environment. One does not have to go to enclaves of mystics and gurus in San Francisco to find this species-centred, asocial view of ecological problems and their sources. New York City will do just as well. I shall not easily forget an ‘environmental’ presentation staged by the New York Museum of Natural History in the seventies in which the public was exposed to a long series of exhibits, each depicting examples of pollution and ecological disruption. The exhibit which closed the presentation carried a startling sign, ‘The Most Dangerous Animal on Earth,’ and it consisted simply of a huge mirror which reflected back the human viewer who stood before it. I clearly recall a black child standing before the mirror while a white school teacher tried to explain the message which this arrogant exhibit tried to convey. There were no exhibits of corporate boards or directors planning to deforest a mountainside or government officials acting in collusion with them. The exhibit primarily conveyed one, basically misanthropic, message: people as such, not a rapacious society and its wealthy beneficiaries, are responsible for environmental dislocations — the poor no less than the personally wealthy, people of colour no less than privileged whites, women no less than men, the oppressed no less than the oppressor. A mythical human ‘species’ had replaced classes; individuals had replaced hierarchies; personal tastes (many of which are shaped by a predatory media) had replaced social relationships; and the disempowered who live meagre, isolated lives had replaced giant corporations, self-serving bureaucracies, and the violent paraphernalia of the State.”

— Murray Bookchin, “Society and Ecology” (via meatthawsmoth)

[solarsorcery]

me when i cant see myself: my appearance really doesnt matter! my value as a human being doesnt depend on how i look, and i shouldnt hate myself just because society says-

me after catching a glimpse of my reflection:

[anxietyproblem]

[eliminated]

[yuyuuyuyuu-deactivated20230726]

i pray you heal from things no one ever apologized for

[lavendermarriage]

can I get some fuckin uhhhh adequate medical care

[pinupprodigy]

Isn’t it kind of bananas that for most of human history we’ve been completely oblivious to how utterly environmentally tumultuous the planet has historically been? Before the advent of paleontology, conventional wisdom posited that the earth has more or less looked the same for as long as its been around, but soon enough naturalists like Georges Cuvier came along and said, “well it actually turns out that most of the organisms that have ever existed are actually no longer with us,” thereby introducing the entire concept of extinction to the human race?? Do you realize how coconuts that must have sounded back then?

Not only that, but the more we delved into paleontology the more it became apparent that the Earth has spent so much of its existence (about a billion years) being completely unsuitable and even hostile to life as we know it. A significant stretch of the cosmic timeline classifies our planet as being an oxygen-poor wasteland constantly pounded by asteroids and brimming with active super volcanoes. Even after life on Earth started to stretch out its stubby little amphibious legs we’ve had like five mass extinctions events almost completely fuck it all up (including one known as the Permian extinction which killed off no less than 70% of the planet’s land-based life and 96% of its sea critters). Can you recognize how rare and unlikely it is that out of all the downright catastrophic times any of us could have existed as unfortunate little trilobites or dimetrodons we actually get to exist as humans beings who can learn about this stuff with the help of a scientific discipline that effectively allows us to peer back into the reaches of the past?? Anyway, here’s wonderwall 

[st4lker-deactivated20200823]

not to reveal what i was talking about but its like the very moment you mention anything to do with sex or sexuality as a trans woman everyone immediately assumes ur some idk hentai bdsm addicted pervert when anybody else can talk about getting railed all they like on whatever platform they want and wear dog outfits in front of kids or whatever like im sure gay men get the same thing but tbh i think trans women get it a million trillion times worse

[st4lker-deactivated20200823]

tbh i think this could be part of why a lot of trans women myself included tend to identify somewhere in the realm of im a woman except when it comes to sex im more like a gay man bc the moment u talk about sex as a trans woman whether it’s with a woman or a man literally everyone immediately assumes ur predatory and that shit gets internalized where its like “ok maybe being a gay man for sex is less predatory”

[st4lker-deactivated20200823]

actually i change my mind please reblog this. especially if ur tme ESPECIALLY if you already reblogged that post talking abt a similar thing but with gay men because nobody will ever talk about it when it happens to trans women!

[isomerize]

I get that you're young, but queer isn't a slur and don't reblog my damn posts with "q slur", please. My identity is not a slur. Thinking queer is a slur is ahistoric bullshit.

Lmfao what the fuck are you on?? Q*eer was originally used to refer to trans and sga people BY CISHETS to refer to us as abnormal and wrong. It’s a fucking slur. If you choose to use a slur as your only personal identifier then yes, your identity is a God damn slur. This is so disrespectful to every lgbt person with trauma surrounding that word, and you’re the one who’s being ahistorical. Asshole.

[deepfriedfuckpotato-deactivated]

I’m on education that came from somewhere other than tumblr, my dude.

We’ve been calling ourselves queer since before WWII. It was not originally used “by cishets”. It was used by us. To describe us. Interchangeably with gay, which was used by all genders.

Ten years before you were born, Queer Nation was fighting for rights you now enjoy, marching in the streets. Queer Nation was founded by members of ACT UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power), an organization for AIDS advocacy, because we were literally dying in the streets. Which is where die-ins came from, by the way - during the AIDS crisis when hospitals wouldn’t touch us with a ten foot pole, people protested by literally dying in a place inconvenient for the powers that be.

Whoever “taught” you that queer is a slur and always has been lied to you.

We’re still here, we’re still queer, go educate yourself.

[onioncourse]

If you can’t give me sources on q*eer being used by lgbt people BEFORE they reclaimed it from cishets using it as a slur i really don’t care what you have to say

[deepfriedfuckpotato-deactivated]

Wow sorry about your inability to use google. If the internet is too hard, you could try picking up a book at your local library!!!! Like, how about My Queer War by James Lord or  Coming Out Under Fire: The History of Gay Men and Women in World War II by Allan Berube?

[lauralot89]

From  George Chauncey, “Gay New York,” page 10

[vaspider]

This is so painful to read, honestly. 

Kids, learn your own queer history. Our identity was our word first. 

[what-even-is-thiss]

Trope where there’s one girl in a group of guys but then over the course of the series they all eventually realize that they’re trans and start transitioning and it turns out that all along it was one guy in a group of girls.

[what-even-is-thiss]

The boy comes out at the end of the second to last season after the leader of the group who’s been out the longest calls them a girl gang and he goes “Uh, actually Keisha… about that…” and she goes “Oh don’t tell me. Not you too.” and he goes “Uh, yeah I was gonna tell my mom first but what the hell I’m Caleb now.”

[what-even-is-thiss]

The first episode ends with the one who will be called Keisha saying “Let’s go boys and Steph” and in the last episode she says “Lat’s go girls. And Caleb!”

[what-even-is-thiss]

The series has nothing to do with being trans of course. It’s an ongoing joke at worst. It’s a group of teens that fight corn demons in the midwest.

[what-even-is-thiss]

There’s a pair of twins who pose together like team rocket whenever they’re making an announcement. When they come out they make sure to pick rhyming names. They’re not identical twins they’re just like that.

[virgil-in-the-bathroom-deactiva]

The only thing my brain processed at this ungodly time of night was “corn demons in the midwest”

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

you deserve to be loved as much as you love others.

[angelnumber27]