dad enjoyer

20+. he/him. DNI if under 18. some weirdo freak content, DNI if you hate fictional shipcest. mostly posting dadson. :)

[dropoutfailure]

my fav ship dynamic except it's just my OCs Mishka + his dad Gustav, because I was starved for content, so I made my own food. dadson + guilt + weird messed up trans guy content. 💘

I so badly wanted to keep it simple and do an actual "ship dynamics" simple sketch vague-ing about my characters, but um I guess I had it in me to do more today. how.

[steelestallion]

Transgenders NEVER GIVE UP. HOLY FUCK. NEVER GIve up. Never give up.

[finnthetboy]

the appeal of forcemasc for me is that ive spent my whole life surrounded by people who so desperately want me to be a girl and ever since i (sort of) came out as trans everyone (my family especially) is SO against me being male. the appeal of forcemasc is someone FINALLY saying actually you are a man you have always been one and you are hotter as one!!

[yellow-cat]

its boring when things are very beautiful. it needs to be a little bit ugly. like smudged makeup. anatomy in a drawing you didnt get quite right. knickknacks strewn about. you understand

[yellow-cat]

im uninterested in your "Perfect Thing" id prefer something real

[dropoutfailure]

small pokemon give me cuteness aggression (sexual)

[byjove]

June is also men’s mental health month so I’d like to drop in and say that mine is not so good. It’s also Pride Month so I’m going to be treating the problem with yaoi.

[lindleland]

for the duration of pride month all mutuals are allowed to hit it raw

[lindleland]

please

[pmamtraveller]

Taiyō Matsumoto

[cheaphalloweencostume]

socially, i mostly relate to cats, in terms of “my behavior may sometimes come across as antisocial or possibly shy but the truth is sometimes i just have to Go Somewhere Else Immediately Right Now”

[dropoutfailure]

bet it feels good as hell to be slapped and told to 'snap out of it' when you have anxiety, and then told anxiety isn't real and 'you just get stuck in your head and need to get your shit together and then you'll be fine'

like is anyone gonna sexualise boomer old men who don't "believe in" mental illnesses

or do I have to do everything around here

[dropoutfailure]

boomer dad bf who says "you don't have anxiety, you just have free time to waste. stop daydreaming and get back to work" is kinda 🥺🥰😣

tbh, besides the violence, "dismiss irrational thoughts, redirect attention+energy elsewhere" actually works quite well for my anxiety. in situations where it's applicable.

[ilynpilled]

a character being a perpetrator does not negate their victimhood and neither does their victimhood negate being a perpetrator. u can accept and reckon w both dimensions in ur analysis

[ilynpilled]

there is nothing morally purifying about suffering or victimhood, it is not something that inculcates “goodness.”

one’s character has no impact on whether they were/are a victim or not, victim status is not something that is only afforded to the palatable.

it also does not = absolution.

[ilynpilled]

ppl cant handle this in cartoons made for teenagers lets not get ahead of ourselves

[crabanarchy]

They say ooooh be a good boy for daddy and you'll get a reward. But then the reward is just gay sex. This is bullshit. I wanted a skateboard

[crabanarchy]

Then they say if you're a bad boy daddy will punish you. But what's the punishment? More gay sex! You can't escape it. This whole damn place is in the pocket of Big Sex

[crabanarchy]

[cogneartive]

can i please get more pictures like this. this how it feel

[cogneartive]

more examples

[dropoutfailure]

bet it feels good as hell to be slapped and told to 'snap out of it' when you have anxiety, and then told anxiety isn't real and 'you just get stuck in your head and need to get your shit together and then you'll be fine'

like is anyone gonna sexualise boomer old men who don't "believe in" mental illnesses

or do I have to do everything around here

[self-loving-vampire]

Problem #1 regarding child abuse is that a lot of people seem to struggle to imagine normal, respectable-looking parents and other authority figures ever doing it despite the statistics so instead they do the stranger danger panic and completely overlook some of the greatest threats.

Problem #2 is that even when people understand, even if in an abstract way, that parents can be abusive they just... don't seem to actually register that as something that can apply to real life. It's just hypothetical to them and doesn't actually guide their ideas of how to prevent child abuse.

Problem #3 is that even after overcoming the above biases a lot of people have a very narrow image of what abusive parenting is where they imagine like... people doing violent things basically out of sadism and without provocation. They don't seem to think it's "real" abuse if the victim did something that "justifies" punitive violence, like disobeying the parents.

In fact, most people think parents have a right to do a whole lot of awful things to their children beyond just hitting them, like violating their privacy, controlling their access to information, and deciding what/when/if they eat, among other things.

[self-loving-vampire]

Only the countries in red have banned child corporal punishment.

You might notice that for starters not a single one of the top 5 most populous countries in the world (representing 45% of the world population just by themselves) has a ban.

Globally speaking, most of the children in the world live in places where it is legal to hit them (up to 86% are not protected by law as of last year, according to UNICEF) and even where they have legal protections there is the matter of social acceptance and enforcement.

[self-loving-vampire]

We can't even get people to stop making "cute" memes about how "la chancla" and "el cincho" ostensibly fix children.

We are not even close to escaping this hole.

[evilsoup]

i remember there being a couple of posts on here that got fairly popular presenting not hitting your kids as like a "white people thing (derogatory)". Literally woke apologia for hitting kids.

[enjolrasofficial]

as someone living in a country where it is in fact forbidden to physically punish your children the first thing my mum taught me was that it is not only important that the parents know it is illegal but also that the CHILDREN know. as a small child or even as an older child who gets punished physically the chances that you actually know that what's happening isn't just Wrong but also Officially Illegal are slim to none. so i've been witness to her going up to parents who were threatening or hitting their children more than once. every time she told them very politely "hi sorry, i hope you're aware that it is illegal to hit your children. should i call the police or will you stop doing that on your own?" and the parents would look super pissed off but the kids would look very suddenly very interested. especially older sisters always seem to take the information that it is in fact okay to call the police if being hit by their parents very seriously. and one time my mum did call the cops. on our neighbour. never saw that guy again but his son to this day comes over to say hello every time he's in town. so be kind to your children. protect other people's children and help them protect themselves too.

[trnsqueer]

gets a free dad hug at pride and getting a boner about it

[videolottery]

I’m chained up in a basement and tortured + bleeding but I’m not an emaciated little twink so no one even cared enough to jack off to it