this is an official announcement for my followers new and tenured (& anyone else stopping by)
If you're under 18, please leave. this blog is NOT for MINORS.
Trigger warning: hard kinks (CNC, somno/intox, stalking/kidnapping, weapon play, bdsm, hematolagnia, dd/lg and other dom/sub dynamics) This is not an exhaustive list, please take care of your mental health 🩷🐋
DNI/GTFO: pedos, racists, homophobes, transphobes/TERFs, fatphobes, ableists, animal abusers/zoophiles, and other hateful people
my nickname is Cj, if u need something to call me. i'm twenty six and from the USA. i have a twin flame that i love very much, but we are currently in no-contact. So please be respectful; as Megan thee Stallion & Glorilla said, "You ain't my daddy, I'm not your baby." Periodt. I don't mind flirting with my moots and all that but please be considerate of the fact that my heart is taken by my mirror soul, and i'm basically emotionally unavailable. The title of Daddy is reserved for VIP only, and i'm the only one who hands out the badge, bye.
This bog (lol) is mainly for my own pleasure, i love the internet and i have been on tumblr probably since i was about 14 (as they say: once a tumblr girl always a tumblr girl) and what i blog about can range anywhere from dark topics such as suicidal ideation, discussion and expression of the mental health diagnoses i have, to exploration of kinks and sometimes just yelling into the void and and is very NSFW, also often humor related, which can be dark, much like the rest of this bog XD
On that note, this blog is based on fantasy, consent, and respect, & appropriate preparation and safety measures are mandatory when indulging in anything depicted in this blog. Safety and compassion for oneself and others is paramount, especially when experimenting in the world of kink and BDSM. A major goal of mine is healing past traumas through forgiveness and self-love, and becoming the most loving and truest version of myself.
If ur interested in things on the heavier side such as politics, and worldly affairs, i also post about that kind of stuff here as this is my main blog, but i do have a blog dedicated only to news and my political stances and opinions @wh3ntheshitgoesd0wn
I also reblog a lot of Y2K posts as i am an authentic n i n e t i e s baby💁🏻♀️💅🏻 also coquette, goth, emo, dumbification/bimbofication, and fairy-core shit to name a few things
this blog is pure fantasy. I come here to express my shadow self and just me in general, and attempt to understand her better, in a s a f e & r e s p e c t f u l way. Everything here is enjoyed on strict rules of consent and trust.
as for tags, i tag stuff that's my own photos under #dummmbest, or #my post and i do post songs that i like too, under #audio, but i don't tag much else except for commentary purposes
feel free to send asks, i don't mind at all 🩷
THANK u 4 READING! enjoy your stay!! 👻🤙🏼

















