[dumpsterat]

Name: Alex

Pronouns: They/Them

Age: Adult (25)

Asexual nonbinary lesbian

Dating sim connoisseur

[the-ace-lesbians]

I was talking today with a fellow asexual who has been struggling with their sexuality and how it ties in with sexual trauma, and how they feel broken in relationships with allosexuals.

I just want to say, truly, to any asexual out there who feels broken or like they have to 'perform' for an allosexual partner:

You are worth more than putting yourself in such an uncomfortable position for someone - if you are not enthusiastic about it, you don't have to 'put up' with it. You deserve to live a life completely sexless, if you so choose, and your relationship does not mean you are beholden to owe your partner something.

[kid-bunny]

in order to unlearn racism u have to be willing to accept that u are racist. it’s not a bad thing to want to change for the better. it’s not a bad thing to say hey, the way i’ve been acting is racist and i don’t want to be racist anymore. when people of color are telling u ways in which u have been racist, it’s actually not cool to brush it off and say, well i didn’t mean it that way.. u actually have to make an effort to stop doing those things if u want to be able to actually say ur anti-racist. u can’t just say ur not racist because u don’t wanna be seen as racist. that’s not how unlearning racism works.

[kid-bunny]

“um i’m actually a good person so calling me racist couldn’t possibly be true. ur just attacking me!” see how the racism is literally right there? see how ur just seconds away from calling me an angry black girl?

[theilluminantsystem]

I literally reblogged this a day ago and OP was still up. This shit is entirely unacceptable fucking hell.

[bluesturngold]

Whether this was a mass report until OP got auto-modded or a racist mod terminating OP with prejudice, any Black person who speaks up on racism instead of just grinning and bearing it still risks getting nuked from fucking orbit in this shithole.

Take what OP said to heart and do away with your white fragility.

[greenlabcoat]

transition timeline but about halfway through im inexplicably a cackling green witch for a few months before continuing as normal

[magicmooshka]

latest comic idea i came up with while talking to @missiletoe: ratatouille but instead of a rat who can cook it is a frog who writes the most amazing yaoi. it is titled "frogjoshi." everyone says, "how can a frog write yaoi? what does a frog know about gay love?" and yet, she writes the most beautiful BL stories of all time. a world-renowned yaoi critic reads her novel, and is moved to tears having been reminded of the first yaoi she ever read, long ago, before she even knew what yaoi was. she demands to meet the author. they bring out the frog. roll credits

[magicmooshka]

guys it’s real now

I made it into a very silly zine and you can print one too for free

[datafii]

forever thinking of catra from the 2018 she-ra series. what if you were deeply in love with your best friend. what if you chose long ago to abandon your morals to stay by her side. what if, at the very first chance, she was faced with the same decision and chose her morals over you. what if your grief over that choice was so immense that it fueled five seasons of television and almost ended the world. what if, at the end of it all, the end of the very world she fought so hard to save, you asked her to stay and she finally, finally did

[dumpsterat]

Ya know I had this thought yesterday but many people it seems like think the queer experience is black and white when its really not

Like i’ve seen posts and comment after comment of people strictly defending their labels (Usually gay or lesbian) and saying how “Words have meaning.” And “Its okay to not be a lesbian and to be xyz.”

And First off don’t tell anyone what they have to label themselves as. But second: Just because your experience or queerness fits neatly into the typical experience doesn’t mean everyone elses does. The human experience isnt some black and white thing. There will always be variation because humans are messy and complicated.

Labels aren’t meant to be a checklist you go through to gain access to. They are meant to describe your lived experience. I don’t know when we forgot that.

I don’t care who else uses the lesbian or gay labels because frankly i have better things to do than play gatekeeper.

[dumpsterat]

Man I was doing so good and not having real bad ocd issues lately and just dealing with the thoughts neutrally and then BAM my dumbass fucking gave in and did compulsions yesterday WHYYY

Sigh

[dumpsterat]

I understand why people like shipping now I WANT CLAIRE AND RAE TO BE HAPPY AND IN LLVE FOREVER PLEASE

[fairycosmos]

apparently youre supposed to perform. they love it when you perform. but it has to be authentic. they hate it when it's not authentic. but you have to perform.

[fairycosmos]

apparently youre supposed to perform. they love it when you perform. but it has to be authentic. they hate it when it's not authentic. but you have to perform.

[captain-price-returns]

[dumpsterat]

Work has me so burnt out and im so tired but i still have two more days to work GET ME OUT OF HERE

[2-point-5]

i like being a lesbian and all, but holy shit, men are so cool. i hope all men reading this have a wonderful day.

[basilpaste]

i like being gay and all, but holy shit, women are so cool!!!! i hope all women reading this have a wonderful day as well!!!!!!!!!

[2-point-5]

[image description: the epic handshake meme. one arm is labelled gay people and the other is labelled lesbians. in the middle it says "fuck yeah bro". end id]

[2-point-5]

hey guys, quick reminder! this post is about uplifting other people!!! tags like 'ugh, but men are gross lol' or 'op has never met a man' are not welcome and will recieve an insta block! men are cool! women are cool! thank you for coming to my fucking ted talk! :-)

[the-identifier]

post identified anyone that doesnt identify as a man or woman, also cool

[hollow-toy]

mutuals can always dm me but be warned i talk like your coworker who is trying too hard to get to know you and my response times are akin to the response times you might get if we were communicating by letter

[transgendercoolcat]

💖 Help me take Baby Girl to vet 💖

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[deaddogbrain]

imo the way you feel about groups it's fully socially acceptable to hate (like children or polyamorous people, among others) is the canary in the coal mine for underlying bigoted beliefs. if you're only supportive of marginalized groups when it's cool to do so, probably you don't actually care about marginalized groups, you care about other people thinking you care