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becca king who has an active sex life and a boyfriend and wants to be independent and not infantilized and known first and foremost as 'becca' and not 'mel's sister'...............mel king who has structured her entire life around becca's needs and care and being 'becca's sister', even moving to pittsburgh specifically because becca got into an independent living center there, now not knowing what to do or who she is if becca is keeping secrets from her and no longer needs her..............pitt writers you are cooking with gas

#the pitt #becca king #mel king

shatterstared

all men do is lie

#the pitt

sushishorts

HUDSON WILLIAMS FOR BALENCIAGA HEART AND BODY CAMPAIGN

#hudson williams

helperhoopoe

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.

randomslasher

This is really important for future predictions, too. “You’re eventually going to leave me” is impossible for someone else to disprove without just sticking around forever, but no one wants to stick around when they’re being constantly accused of future abandonment. Giving someone no choice but to either stay with you forever in order to prove you wrong or leave you and prove you right is incredibly emotionally manipulative, whether you mean it to be or not.

“I get scared sometimes because I’m afraid of being alone again” is easier to address and doesn’t leave your partner(s)/friend(s) feeling as though they’re being preemptively accused of something.

dead-mad

The lack of options for disabled people who can't live alone/fully alone is really scary. The options are residential facilities, supported living, aids, and other notoriously abusive and expensive things or family, friends, or a partner(s), who are also often abusive.

The risk of abuse when you're disabled and have to rely on others is very high and getting out of an abusive situation is already hard without being disabled. And if you do get out of it, then what? You're still disabled and still need that help.

paperandpencilsandskips

girl who has ibuprofen: I have ibuprofen if you need it btw

retquits

so don't get too comfortable.

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susandsnell

one of the biggest death knells of feminism is the notion that the only true sisterhood comes from coddling someone’s views and actions no matter how patriarchally complicit they are and that criticism is an act of internalized misogyny

susandsnell

Part of loving your sister is telling her when she’s being fucking stupid actually

susandsnell

acting dumber than you are to please men is fucking degrading and it is not antifeminist to tell someone this!

romanceyourdemons

horror concept: you are a woman and you are getting married

bimbinis

you know a joke that never EVER gets old is when a character says smth like “I will NOT go to [place] and that is FINAL” and then it cuts to them in that place I eat that shit up every single time