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[echidnana]

we started watching lycoris recoil & it's super cute but whew we kinda prefer low stakes shows this is stressing us out 😭😭

[soup-mother]

probably should have seen it coming I guess but it's pretty fucking annoying everyone saw a conversation about "people don't understand how difficult it is clothes shopping as a trans woman" and proceeded to show just how much they don't understand it by assuming it's only about sizing and not the constant societal surveillance and inability to use the change rooms and fear of being kicked out of the story and unwillingness even for friends to recognise that there's barriers in your way and try and help you.

even people trying to commiserate with me complaining about the dumb responses assumed that it was just about sizing. and phrased it all like "you're so seen and valid". fucking christ.

wow it's almost like people don't understand how challenging it is clothes shopping even years into transition as a trans woman! who could have guessed??????

[soup-mother]

Not the strongest comparison here but

"It's incredibly difficult and challenging using public bathrooms as a transgender woman and it should be obvious why if you have paid attention to anything ever"

"Girl I feel you, welcome to womanhood. sometimes the seats are gross or someone's left something on the floor, we all experience this, you're so valid for this"

(meanwhile I'm lucky if I'm not immediately stopped upon entering)

with clothes it's like ok cool but you might notice that you are wearing womens clothes from the clothes store that you bought and were able to try on before buying and weren't called a pervert and/or pedophile over it. meanwhile I am not. so maybe this is not actually "something all women experience" or just about sizing yes?

[ribstongrowback]

hope this isn't derailing but i think that this is heavily shaped by this condescending attitude people have about trans women's womanhood. they treat us like little girls discovering every aspect of being a woman instead of understanding us as adults who can have fully formed and informed opinions and analysis about our lived experience.

folks assume we have everything to learn about being women, because the idea that they would have anything to learn from us about it or about being a trans woman is simply too ridiculous to even cross their mind.

[cloevr]

[jenny-holzer]

[zukkaoru]

[ID: a screenshot from Ao3 which shows the last line of a chapter:

“I don’t dance,” Sasuke snapped back. “Anyway, what’s Gay Pride Day? What are they proud of?”]

[julystruck]

I will be fr I dont think white people should be allowed to call themselves mutt

[julystruck]

whatever feeling guilty for this. my nuance is i dont gaf if you call a dog a mutt but I think as soon as you start calling a human person that you should keep in mind its kind of a little bit of a slur. even if that human person is yourself

[feldfrog]

As a kid, I wasn’t allowed to touch the hot stove with my bare hands. But now I get to do it whenever I want

[muttrott]

I recently completed this little custom colorful set for @pansyfemme and I had so much fun getting to make it!

If you want a totally custom piece please dm me or reach out on my site <3

[frogwhomp]

blehhh

[echidnana]

we feel like we're neglecting our tumblr. like a pet we have not been feeding

[kitchen1]

I wish I took a better pic of this writing in a bar bathroom in toronto bc I think of it so often. Be So Completely Yourself That No One Is Attracted To You Or Wants To Employ You

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[mcaelius]

star wars is so fucking stupid. yoda can't just have a walking stick he Has to have a magic wookiee painkiller gimer stick full of nutritious juices. ?

[mcaelius]

sucking the juices out of yodas walking stick. ?

[genderqueerdykes]

it is genuinely okay to be confused, by the way. being confused is not a sign of weakness. it takes a while for humans to fully parse things, it's normal to have to think about something for a while. some people do figure things out right away, but it's okay if you don't. this applies to identities, your gender, your name, your orientation, your health, your relationships, your job, interactions, anything, really. it doesn't make you weak. it's just happening

[genderqueerdykes]

it is genuinely okay to be confused, by the way. being confused is not a sign of weakness. it takes a while for humans to fully parse things, it's normal to have to think about something for a while. some people do figure things out right away, but it's okay if you don't. this applies to identities, your gender, your name, your orientation, your health, your relationships, your job, interactions, anything, really. it doesn't make you weak. it's just happening

[genderqueerdykes]

it is genuinely okay to be confused, by the way. being confused is not a sign of weakness. it takes a while for humans to fully parse things, it's normal to have to think about something for a while. some people do figure things out right away, but it's okay if you don't. this applies to identities, your gender, your name, your orientation, your health, your relationships, your job, interactions, anything, really. it doesn't make you weak. it's just happening

[ros-sauce]

I wonder who in niigo is the most out of touch in terms of what shows books games etc are popular

[ros-sauce]

You'd think it's Kanade but we know she'll look at anything if the music bangs. And you Wouldn't think it's Ena because she seems trendy, but her trendiness seems to start and end at beauty/fashion, so she might very well be in the running

Mafuyu spends the most time around similarly aged peers but who knows if what said peers say sticks in their head at all. We know they're a tiktok hater so they might automatically discard pop culture upon hearing it

[ros-sauce]

Ultimately I think that when Mizuki mentions a hot anime, the reactions are:

Kanade - Recognizes the name because she started watching it for the kickass OP, admits she got sidetracked at episode 3 and keeps forgetting to catch up. But it's On Her List

Mafuyu - Hasn't heard of it

Ena - Also hasn't heard of it, frantically mutes herself so no one will hear her looking it up so she can appear more hip than she is

(Mizuki - Knows Ena's doing that and makes fun of her)