⍟ Love you forever, don’t let go of me… /lyr : @theinkbunny
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Introduction ✧
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No, I need something more than this
(Hey, hey)
Something better must exist. /lyr
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Hey! We’re the System of Protection / Godspeed System.
Welcome to our blog of utter nonsense!
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Quick disclaimer: beyond this point you’ll find a bunch of nonsense and art related to random fandoms burried among all the reblogs. Seriously, nothing here is going to be completely comprehensible it is utter multifandom madness. Expect some violence and blood too!
Also, if I follow you or like a post or send an ask, due to how Tumblr works it’ll always be under the user @askdon-chan. It’s still us though!
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DNI: Racists, sexists, homophobes, transphobes, aphobes, basically if you hate a group because of a certain harmless or minor trait they all have, then I’d prefer you don’t speak to me. I’m not too fond of people who ship adult x child or sibling x sibling relationships either, and I’d prefer users involved in syscourse not to interact. Oh, and uh, try to keep it PG please!
With that out of the way, additional things are under the cut!
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More about me!!! (Or uh. The host Them.)
➜ Genderfluid (she/they/he, but fluctuates between preferences here and there
➤ Aroace (sex-repulsed)
➜ Plural, A.K.A the host of a median system you can call the System of Protection!
➤ Tends to make all sorts of art. physical, digital, writing, there’s a lot I do-
➜ Doesn’t have an exact grip on their identity entirely yet. Please expect many changes and respect said changes ^^;
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Where else to find me?
On my other Tumblr blogs! I own these blogs:
❥ @askdon-chan (Don Wada ask blog [Taiko No Tatsujin])
❥ @youreallyareanidiot (Sideblog for our alter Offiz)
❥ @ithinkdeathkillsus (Sideblog made just for our Die of Death alters)
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Some of my pals!
✪ My real freakin’ awesome best buds Chance and Carrie!!!!!: @sharky-the-idiot, @carriethecakerealedition
⍟ Some other real cool people I know: @lilacthebooklover, @incredibly-tired-icecube, @gooffrenzy
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Credits!
☀︎︎ I edited together the PFP and header myself!
☼ I also made the little divider graphics! ^^ All art is from Sanrio though!
☀︎︎ @getauserbox for the user boxes!!! They make them so cute we CAN’T…. AAAAAA!!!!!! >u<
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The Hyperfixation Board! (What the freak am I specifically focused on this time???):
The main hyperfixation right now is...
Roblox! This explains the 10 or so Robloxians in here…
The board updates with changes to this post and my blog’s theme! Come back here when that happens!
[image description: an excerpt from the above text. It reads: “Really—I’m O.K.” And he was, too, except that he could find no explanation for why the song had affected him so grotesquely. He had supposed for years that he had no secrets from himself. He was proof that he had a great big secret someone said, and he could not imagine what it was. / end description]
Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
Adding my 2 cents worth that I learned from my time in DBT.
Guilt and shame are NOT the same emotion!
Theyre very similar, but theres a key difference. Guilt comes from an internal source and shame external.
What do I mean? Well, when you feel guilt, its because you've betrayed your own morals. Youve done something you view as bad, and you feel guilty for defying your own moral code.
Shame, however, is external and comes from our individual societies, and has nothing to do with moral codes (in the way guilt does). Shame comes from how OTHERS perceive you. You go to school, and wet yourself, you feel shame because the other kids point and laugh, they think less of you now. You may know it was an accident, and accidents happen, and thats okay! But because other people now think less of you for it, you feel bad.
Not taking away the points of OP, i still agree, just think it might be useful to distinguish between the two emotions because they are not the same.
good morning to tragedy fans, fat people, people with psychosis, neopronouns users, autistic people, people who can’t drive, trans people, men and mascs, and single dads. the rest of you go figure
dess voice inside of noelle's head: noelle listen to me. its dess talking to you. you have to continue on what i left behind. take the funny little bottles and syringes in my drawer. you have to transition into a guy. fulfill my last wish for me.
