dude do u have any tips for just like,,, getting ur life back together? i've been going through some stuff lately and i'm A Mess and i just need some advice on how to like,,, go back to normal
its prolly been too long and u prolly wont even see this answer but the reason i answered so late is bc dude tbh idk either man. my life is basically in shambles right now and idk how to get back to normal when i do ill let you know.
i'm still not doing well but not in shambles anymore! so i wanted to just add to this..
i feel like you probably know this already but whatever you are pushing off will only get more daunting as you push it back even further. when you do it, it's probably not as bad as you thought. even if it was, at least you get it over with!
take it one step at a time. do small things that you used to do that you enjoyed in your day-to-day like using bath bombs in the bath or smth.
reach out to people for help. im sure there is someone who loves you and wants to help but even if you cant find that person (not because they dont exist) or you dont want to talk to someone you know, you can just reach out to strangers online like me tbh as long as youre not giving out personal info but just asking for advice like this, im sure more people would be willing to help than you think.
utilize your resources. idk what specific part of your life you were struggling with but there are probably free programs offered by the government or internet guides on so many different topics
honestly you just gotta do it. whether that be simply getting out of bed or applying for a job or wtv. you just have to do the thing no matter how long it takes you. idk it might be bad advice but i don't think anything i can say is more important than your will to do the thing. it might be a bad thing to say mental healthcare-wise but sometimes you gotta drag yourself through things that feel impossible to get through the hard parts.
