something super fucking serious and important for today.
my boyfriend of nearly four years was arrested yesterday at 1pm.
his bond is set to an egregious amount. the kind of bond set for murder charges.
i haven't seen or heard from him since noon yesterday. i had to pick up his belongings at the PD without seeing him, call his family, his boss, and have been fighting endlessly since then to find a good lawyer.
yesterday, i lost my other half. i have no doubt in my mind that what he has been convicted of is untrue. absolutely zero doubt. he is a kind, smart, strong man. the evidence they have on him is hearsay, from a domestic dispute with an ex who has accused him of some serious things. this is not the first time this has happened, she has a track record of doing these kinds of things for money, control, and power. every instance of this always increases in extremes. she goes from petty custody battles to full-blown federal cases.
in today's world and climate, i know how scary it is for charges like these to be pushed. i would not post if i had any semblance of doubt in my mind that he was innocent. but i know that man better than i know even myself. he is nothing but good. he's a hard worker, a loving and driven man who's goals are selfless. he has been my rock, he has been there for me through everything. i can't lose him. i cannot fucking lose my boy.
this is going to be a strenuous, horrific fight. legal battles like these can stretch years, depending on the severity and seriousness of the case.
as much as i hate to be a beggar, or put myself in a potentially scary online situation- i will put this out here. please, please, if anyone is able to contribute even a penny, it will help in the long run. this is absolutely going to destroy me financially. it will affect my life, his, and others. i'm just a student. we do not have the money for a lawyer, or bail, or anything like this. i am asking for help humbly.
this isn't something i would ever in a million years wish to have to do. i would literally be releasing my identity to you all because of this, and you all know how i love to NOT do that. so for now, ill keep my ko-fi, my cashapp, and my venmo posted on my intro and here. thank you all. if you would like to read the go-fund-me, click here.