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[rheill]

When Ryne isn’t in the Trust party. (Sorry, Thancred!)

[real-horse-facts]

horses made me transgender

[real-horse-facts]

Story time to explain this

-there’s a horse where I work named Lucy who HATES men

-like “bite your face off” levels of hate

-enter me, who’s been having gender thoughts but not really realizing what that means

-I’d been avoiding Lucy because I quite like having my face not bitten off thank you

-Then one day I forget that she hates men and I go into her stall with her to clean out the poo

-She Doesent Hate me but I don’t think anything about it because I don’t remember that she’s sexist

-Someone walks by and comments on how she never lets any men in there

-“ha ha weird”

-internally I’m screaming “holy shit holy shit holy shit”

-thoughts that I’ve been having suddenly start to make sense

and that’s how I realized I was a girl

[professorsparklepants]

#afbh #assigned female by horse (via @chucktaylorupset)

[lacefuneral]

so THIS is what a "horse girl" is

[valtsv]

what if you woke up one morning to find out that the new meme was an image captioned "YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE THIS GUY" and the image was a picture of you

[valtsv]

[detailsofpaintings]

Jean-François de Troy, Before the Ball

1735

[sugarglider-s]

Kinda gay to make a wanted poster… why do you want that man? So you can hold him?

[ilovedookie]

Yeah. Hold him accountable.

[much-needed-context]

Hold him accountable for stealing your heart?

[lunnefisk]

reading junji ito is brilliant because you'll read like a delectably original fucked up piece of work that will genuinely haunt you for ages, then you turn the page and the next story is called 'the little fucked up man' and the story is that there's a little fucked up man

[desimonewayland]

Le Bonheur du Jour, Paris, 1920 - 1924, text with illustrations on both sides of the page, written and designed by Georges Barbier

© National Museums Scotland 

[0nmmu]

[sigillums]

FINAL FANTASY XIV: SHADOWBRINGERS ↪ Tomorrow and Tomorrow                   “Our journey will never end.”

[bunjywunjy]

Considering the warm reception the Cuscus has gotten here I have a hunch that people might also enjoy the Colugo

I do also enjoy colugos, they are indeed very Shape!

[bunjywunjy]

wow, I don't think I've seen this many Animal Opinions since the Hammer-Headed Bat thing

[ororomunroedontpullout]

Rad//fems using the situation in Afghanistan to be racist and islamophobic??? What??? No way!!! How unexpected that an ideology rooted in white supremacy might replicate imperialist rhetoric.

I am truly and utterly SHOCKED that these white western women are using this as an opportunity to speak over Afghan women (many of whom are proud muslims) and to push their ideology that ignores how both men and women have been harmed (economically, physically, mentally, and sexually) by decades of American military violence in the region.

What a surprising turn of events 🙄🙄

Anyway here is an organization that supports Afghan activists.

[cottaegecore]

“there are many children in afghanistan, but little childhood.” 

please consider donating/sharing this list of trusted organizations to help those in need. please add to the list as well.

women for afghan women 

afghan aid

sanitary products for displaced afghan women

[headspace-hotel]

the theme that always resonates me the most in stories is “the world is cruel; therefore I won’t be.”

[arsuf]

DEMON’S SOULS  ▪  16/?

[comradeyaoi]

im not even joking rn this fucking painting made me start uncontrollably sobbing. Do you know how long it took to paint? How expensive it was? The cat was content for hours and so loved that the girl held him there and paid for him to be painted with her. Imagine having such a bond… imagine being so loved and loving so much back…

[comradeyaoi]

Apparently this is almost a genre of painting. Its human nature to love and cradle cats …. And the bond these cats and their people have. To sit together for hours to get a painting to attempt to immortalize the love you two shared

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

something sad but also kind of sweet ive noticed about human trait mirroring (i.e. seeing someone regularly preform a physical or verbal action and adapting it as your own) is that even years after a person has stopped being in my life theyve still left pieces of themself within me. i still smile and wave like my childhood best friend did. i still pull my shirts up to cover my face when im embarrassed because my favorite college roommate did that. ive learned how to be a human being through all those around me, and those after me will likely learn the same way too.

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

[anxietyproblem]

[zero-two-ten]

this site has one setting

[jenroses]

I’m laughing, but there’s a super useful corollary, which my husband calls “the Red Balloon.” He was a defense lawyer and had a fair number of drug addicts come through, and there is a thing where if you’re like, on your first offense, they’ll do a thing where you can go to treatment and if you complete it they’ll take the conviction off your record.  And he would tell his clients, “Look, everyone’s going to tell you not to do drugs. They’re going to say it over and over again. And it’s like, if people tell you not to think of a white elephant, you’re going to think of a white elephant. But the trick to not thinking about a white elephant is to think of a red balloon. So you need to find your red balloon. For some people it’s yoga. For others it’s woodworking. For some people it’s scrapbooking or gardening or any of a long list of things to do. They focus on that, it’s a lot easier to succeed in ignoring the white elephant.” So yeah, “watch yourself” is one thing… but the better idea is to watch something else. (Even if it’s fanfic about werewolves fucking.)

It’s a form of productive dissociation, and is super, super helpful. It’s easy for me to get bogged down in how much pain I’m in… but some of the most painful periods of my life have also been the most productive, writing-wise, because writing is one of my red balloons. 

[kittydorkling]

There is a phrase I use A LOT in my parenting and my son gets very sick of it, but it’s true:

The thing you practise is the thing you get good at.

You may not intentionally be practicing “being grumpy” but if you don’t put effort into practicing “not being grumpy” then I’m afraid that’s what you’re doing. It’s hard! It’s really hard! Sometimes, for some things, it’s pretty much impossible and that sucks!

But being carefully aware that you are going to get good at the things you do most of is a good way to be more careful of what those things are. If that makes sense.

[bogleech]

You gotta appreciate sometimes how tumblr works in such a way that everyone who wants to reblog this interesting or useful psychological advice is also forced to reblog the thing about werewolf fucking