have a nice day!!

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[rustmarty]

i think amber heard shouldve beat him up more

[artigas]

i'm probably gonna say very little about fandom discourse around this ep because spring break starts next week and i'm running out of sanity but actually. i love everyone on the pitt being flawed and fucked up and nasty sometimes. i love robby being a hypocrite and repulsed by samira's anxiety because he's repulsed by his own. i love that, alternatively, samira is repulsed by her mother's loneliness because she's repulsed by her own, too. i love santos blaming langdon for her ostracization at the ED and her unwillingness to see that, separate of the langdon issue (however separate you can make it), if you go around being an asshole to your peers all the time, some people are just not going to fucking like you. i love that its garcia specifically who checks santos for the lack of decorum she's displaying in front of their patients in this ep because garcia herself could arguably stand to have a bit more decorum when talking about patients and she's also treating santos like a dogggg right now. i love that mel is overstepping boundaries with becca and coddling her in a way that doesnt allow becca the space she deserves to be an autonomous adult with autism who should be respected on her own terms because mel's also struggling with what it means to be an autonomous adult with autism who should be respected on her own terms. i think there's a difference between a show depicting characters behaving badly and cosigning their bad behavior. i think a good character and a good person are separate categories. i love that this is a show that isn't so obsessed with likability that it keeps its characters from behaving badly.

frankly, i hope these characters keep fucking up, and i hope they keep getting checked by their fellow fuck ups, because that's life, brother. there is no divine priestly class of sinless people who exist to tell the "bad" people off for their missteps. and i hope that, as the show progresses, we see robby, santos, mohan, langdon etc make more mistakes and better mistakes. and i love that this show, for all its flaws, is (imo) still holding true to its premise that people are not wholly defined by their best moments or their worst. no matter how uncomfortable it is to sit with that nuance or how tense that makes an episode of television lol.

[annabelle--cane]

important Character traits:

paranoia

control freakism

sense of self-worth so low that it loops back around into being totally dismissive of everyone else

a warm-hearted kind center beneath 200 protective walls of bitterness that doesn't actually make the bitterness better in any way at all even a little bit

bisexuality

crushing feelings of responsibility

zero understanding of own bodily autonomy that bleeds out and affects how they treat others

a lil petty vindictive sadism they maybe don't wanna look at too hard or acknowledge

full self-awareness of all their most negative traits without working to fix those traits at all

internalized misogyny

a mysterious undefinable hunger that cannot / should not / must not ever be sated

asexuality

[vivacias]

What's a book written by a woman that changed your life or that you consider a classic? Any genre, any language.

[belovasknives]

"You can be white. You can be American. You can represent your country at the highest level. You can play the same sport as them. You can be pretty. You can align yourself with them politically. They're still going to laugh at you behind your back."

link

[elk-sedge]

guys i can't deal with this being hilary knight's last olympic game and i don't get to finish it out. i am so sad

[elk-sedge]

the first goal that got by frankel.... free me my heart is in my throat!!!

[elk-sedge]

have to go to a lab so i can't finish this game. this is perhaps punishment for a soul full of whimsy and admiration for the beauty of the olympics

[hiramslodge]

does your car have a name ?

yes (please tell me what it is)

no (why not?)

Voting ended onFeb 23

if you don’t have a car your alternate form of transport can count too !! please tell me your bike’s name

[elk-sedge]

If i hear about a woman's husband or god forbid the men's team one more time istfg nbc

[clover-fell-over]

tried something new :)

[nat-20s]

gotta be honest I think a REAL juicy dynamic is when someone has a True Love and a Soulmate and they are two different people

[leilakalomi]

Think of your worst therapist. What did they do to earn that designation?

Frequently canceled sessions

Missed 1 or more sessions (without telling you)

Were frequently late

Multitasked during your session

Laughed when you told them about a traumatic/upsetting experience

Told you that you weren't trying hard enough when you were feeling desperate

More than one of the above

Something else (add in notes if comfortable)

I have never had anything like this happen; my therapists were all great

Voting ended onJan 7

[glowspider]

[elk-sedge]

Ilya being the gay hockey player nick fury is so funny. Every game must be like !!! Gay person spotted !!! I must give them permanent brain damage from pissing them off so bad so they join me and shane's charity.

[elk-sedge]

I hope manousos is as big a loser and a boyfailure as carol is. I hope he makes her worse

[elk-sedge]

Ngl i liked kip and scott so much,,, it felt so honest and real. Also i have inherited my mom's love of francois arnaud from the tender age of 13-14 when we watched the borgias together so maybe i'm biased