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mioxenoblade

Captions shouldn't be censored. If the video says fuck or cum or cunt the captions should say the fucking word.

dancing-jestress

Unless it's a slur! No one needs to see that.

mioxenoblade

If they say a slur in the video, the captions should reflect it. The disabled are not little babies who have to have life sanitized for them.

isawken

“bring back bullying” it never fucking left because some of you have no kindness or whimsy in your dehydrated hearts!!!

byjove

being on my period makes me feel like a wounded forest animal trying to find a warm dark small place to die

dopaminerjic

just blocked a bunch of terfs, and as op may well be aware already, they’ve been rbing the unedited version of this post. on the brighter side, you can now hover over several radfem blogs and see some variation of this

byjove

Yeppp. That’s why I had to add the banner. Blocking them is like whack-a-mole.

byjove

…..ok

haiyuki

my bf found the image so i can explain it now

my mom would write bible verses on like anything when i was younger so this happened

byjove

OH THATS REALLY FUNNY

the-real-numbers-deactivated202

WAIT

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physicsiguess

fuckyeahpilesofdirt

killtheteendream

We lost a vital part of this site when people stopped making “fuckyeah_____” fan blogs

coolxatu

@fuckyeahpilesofdirt is still posting guys

hotvampireadjacent

Last post 4 days ago….. survivor of an ancient time thank you @fuckyeahpilesofdirt our strongest soldier

memorycycle

dmv: can i have you birth certificate

me: i dont have it but you can trust! 😁✌️

dmv: ok! 😁✌️here is your license

me: its so small and cute! 😳

dmv: just like you! ☺️

mantaradio

can't get an algorithm like this on twitter

natalieironside

Being a mom and an anarchist and trying to figure out the whole "parenting" song and dance from that perspective makes me think 8-year-olds have about got it figured out. I hate school. I hate tests. I hate bedtime.

cuetheviolins

No like here’s the thing: children are an oppressed class. I mean that 100% sincerely. Children m are an oppressed class. They quite literally do not have the right to be free human beings.

Reposting from my twitter here, but: you wouldn't prevent an adult from speaking to their friend or eating when they were hungry. In your personal life that's abusive behavior, in the work sphere a suppression of workers' rights. Other places these rights are violated include: prison.

In Education and Peace, Maria Montessori describes the culture of war and identifies it as originating, on a personal level, in the struggle between the adult and the child that begins as soon as the child is born. This is the very first conflict. The adult subjects the child to their own wants and needs and completely disregards the needs, development and personhood of the child. This struggle continues throughout childhood, between both parents and children and other adults and children:

“Both the adult and the child are unaware of their own characteristic natures. They fight one another in a secret struggle that has gone on for countless generations and is becoming more violent today in our complicated and nerve-racking culture. The adult defeats the child; and once the child reaches adulthood the characteristic signs of the peace that is only an aftermath of war—destruction on one hand and painful adjustment on the other—remain with him for the rest of his life.”

This conflict positions children and adults relative to each other as two distinct classes, one with power and one without. Of course, there are other conflicts at play here—race is a huge one, gender another. And that’s not to say children can’t have power over parents, etc. But one of the most fundamental class conflicts is between adults and children.

Children exist in a state of war from day one. Their environment is completely unsuitable to them; they’re treated as if that’s their fault. They’ve literally been alive for less than a decade. Any action they take is done as a result of class conflict.

natalieironside

I vibe so hard w/ this

derinthescarletpescatarian

I work in childcare and multiple parents have been MYSTIFIED that I’m able to handle their “difficult” children (this includes both neurodivergent children and children who are just rude/mean/violent) and it’s impossible to get them to understand that 90% of the average kid’s behaviour “problems” are just frustration at having a lack of autonomy in their own lives. Some kids do have complicated problems, yes, but so many parents are confused by perfectly understandable reactions! Of course your child is acting out; they have no self-determination or right to their own resources and it’s the only avenue they have left to assert themselves! Of course your child just yelled at you and stormed off -- you were just bullying them! I heard you doing it! They were responding extremely reasonably to being bullied!

I swear half the people in this world -- including those who live with these kids 24-7 -- somehow manage to forget or conveniently ignore that kids are, in fact, people, and will act like people in response to situations.

cherrych4

there is no reason a child should not be able to eat when theyre hungry and not eat things they dislike. if they dont like vegetables then teach them how to make it a way they do like. if you wouldnt yell at and hit your grandparents for not finishing their plate why would you do that to a child. they learn from you, not from what goes through your head while you punish them.

natalieironside

I gotta say the notes on this post have been really heartening b/c "Children are people and not property" has historically been one of my more controversial opinions

shrimp-dicked-fuck-nugget

naamahdarling

School though. I was always EXTREMELY offended by being told how to use my child body. I should be able to shit and piss when I need to, I should not be forced into physical activity or be nude around peers or adults, if I need a drink or a snack, I should be allowed to go get that if the timing is convenient.

And I should not be forced to endure bullying from adults simply because they are my teachers. If I am bullied by peers they should suffer consequences, and if they violently assault me, they should be expelled. If I have a difficulty learning or understanding I should be accommodated. I should not be forced to get up at 7 am and go to school and after school shit, then come home and do more school shit, taking away time I need to grow and learn and play.

Yes, a certain amount of making kids do things is logistically unavoidable. You can't leave a six year old at home while you run errands. Kids need to contribute to housework, and cooperate in their education. But the degree of entitlement shown by adults towards controlling the minds and bodies of children is honestly repugnant.

naamahdarling

A while back I was watching a video about a woman who works with "problem" horses and helps them overcome, usually, trauma and neglect. And she did it very gently. Yes, she established boundaries with them and there were things they were not allowed to do. But at one point a stallion was behaving in an agitated way and she pointed out his combination of anger and fear in his body language, and she backed off and said something like "This behavior is all right. It is healthy. It isn't what I was hoping he would do, but that doesn't matter right now. What matters is that he feels threatened, and he is right to let me know that."

And then she said something that just stabbed me in the heart. She said, and I do remember her exact words:

"He is allowed to defend his body."

It was a watershed moment for me both in thinking about how I approach animals, but also in how I suddenly understood my own trauma from childhood that occurred in school, home, and in medical contexts, and how I suddenly understood my adult reactions to my ongoing and neverending retraumatization at the hands of the medical and psychiatric professions.

I have the right to defend my body and my core psyche. And I had that right as a child as well. That wasn't well acknowledged then, and still is not, I live in a very toxic and controlling environment because I am disabled and mentally ill. Not being allowed to draw your own boundaries and decide your own fate fucks you up, man. It's literally killing me.

So yeah, a ton of this, now that I think about it, applies to disability as well.

rosecrystal

yoga shorts

nitewrighter

Outfit idea.

buttfacemcgee

beardedmrbean

kureiois

ailuromantic-deactivated2022122

nobody tears through library books quite as fast as a 12 yr old girl with no friends

ailuromantic-deactivated2022122

only ppl on this post who matter r the ppl who r saying "me except im not a girl anymore" & "me except i wasnt a girl yet"

memeuplift

maculategiraffe

at the farmer's market the baby was pointing at the tomatoes and going ba ba ba and signing "on" so my sister was like "how much for just one tomato" and the person at the stall was like "oh he can have one. don't worry about it" and the baby stood there by the stall devouring the tomato like an apple in big messy bites and people kept stopping and going "awwwww" and then "oh man that does look good" and buying a bunch of tomatoes. all natural organic advertising

rhettroblues

Lauren Bacall as Vivian Rutledge THE BIG SLEEP 1946 | dir. Howard Hawks

wordfather

shoutout to the guy who created a parody account of cinemasins where instead of pointing out every single flaw in a film, he just pointed out things he liked about the movie. you're so right cinemawins its so much more fun to like things

lastoneout

CinemaWins once said "Every movie, with very little exception, is someone's favorite, I like to find out why." and that sentence alone is worth more than every single thing the CinemaSins guys have ever created.