NOT EVERYTHING FEELS LIKE SOMETHING ELSE
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NOT EVERYTHING FEELS LIKE SOMETHING ELSE
okay i’ll bite. chomp even. kill perhaps. maybe even maim
I spent more time waiting to hear from you than actually hearing from you
When your dad tries to guilt trip you into visiting him: “well I guess I’ll just spend the weekend all by myself...”
You say “glad to know we’re on the same page.” Slowly, he will have to adapt to just outright telling you what he thinks instead of playing mind games.
When your friend tries to hint that they’re mad at you without saying anything: “Oh, I’m fine, clearly you don’t need to worry about me,”
You say: “I’m glad you’re doing well. Call me if you want to talk, though!” Soon enough, they will accept that they can’t be passive aggressive with you.
When your boyfriend says: “All your friends are great, I really love *insert male friend* especially.”
You say: “I’m so glad you like my friends! I should invite them back soon.” He needs to understand that if he has a problem with your friends, he needs to just voice his concerns instead of being sarcastic and accusatory.
As someone who has lived through several toxic relationships and has an abusive father, I think one of the most important manipulation tools a toxic person has is excessive subtext and hidden meanings in their conversation. It hides all of the actual fighting from the eyes of onlookers while still hurting you, which is scary and makes you feel like you’re making it all up. Don’t put up with this bs. Make them stop hiding.
Make. Them. Say. What. They. Mean.
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
a masterpost
manager: you’re gonna greet the customer normally this time?
employee: yes
m: ok. gonna do a good job?
e: yes? oh my god?
Customer: [enters]
e: hi :) welcome to the sunglass hut :) im the sunglass slut :) can i get you anything?
hello everyone this definitely isn’t a list of all the musical boots i could find online in a handy google doc for everyone to use and reblog during this very isolated and boring time!!
“i miss you” from someone who chose to part paths is one of the most frustrating things in the world to me. like… no you dont! you miss the idea of me! you miss what i gave you! you miss the love, the attention, the care and concern! if you cared for me in the way that you now claim you so do, you wouldn’t have just ! discarded me in the first place! are you kidding! and yes !!! i understand people change of COURSE but for the fact that this has happened on multiple occasions now where ppl all of a sudden “miss” me but then show no change in how they treat me….. what!
it’s actually stupid how many times a day I have to remind myself that I shouldn’t kill myself just to get revenge on everyone who’s ever treated me poorly
Hate moving on… like bitch I wanted to be wit u
When your dad tries to guilt trip you into visiting him: “well I guess I’ll just spend the weekend all by myself...”
You say “glad to know we’re on the same page.” Slowly, he will have to adapt to just outright telling you what he thinks instead of playing mind games.
When your friend tries to hint that they’re mad at you without saying anything: “Oh, I’m fine, clearly you don’t need to worry about me,”
You say: “I’m glad you’re doing well. Call me if you want to talk, though!” Soon enough, they will accept that they can’t be passive aggressive with you.
When your boyfriend says: “All your friends are great, I really love *insert male friend* especially.”
You say: “I’m so glad you like my friends! I should invite them back soon.” He needs to understand that if he has a problem with your friends, he needs to just voice his concerns instead of being sarcastic and accusatory.
As someone who has lived through several toxic relationships and has an abusive father, I think one of the most important manipulation tools a toxic person has is excessive subtext and hidden meanings in their conversation. It hides all of the actual fighting from the eyes of onlookers while still hurting you, which is scary and makes you feel like you’re making it all up. Don’t put up with this bs. Make them stop hiding.
Make. Them. Say. What. They. Mean.
kill myself: 👀😗
mom and dog would be sad: 😕
I saw a post that said “it isn’t my responsibility to rebuild a bond that i didn’t break” and damn I felt that
Gotta love my mother’s words of wisdom