Kinky. Curvy. Sexy. 420

Welcome to my page. 18+ only! I like sexy things and sexy people.

[foxgirlfeet]

OH

[theedorksinlove]

these too damn relatable

[throuplepower]

Polyamory isn’t all about sex. Sure, sex is great but it’s about the little things. Like remembering what they get on their sub or that they like their shirts hung to dry. It’s understanding that it’s not all about you anymore. It’s about the nights at home crafting or redecorating the house. Knowing how everyone likes their eggs cooked and realizing that sometimes we all need alone time. It’s the little things that keep your relationship strong, not the sex.

[britneyblazes710]

@sirdabalotg59

[creamypinksugar]

[lenadirscherl]

https://www.instagram.com/bopolena/

[charlyssecret]

[anywayitsstillme]

“Even strong women, the most independent of them, have desires to be fucked to exhaustion…”

— coachmw–Thoughts of a Silver Fox (via coachmw)

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[im-the-batmann]

What the fuck did my own two eyes perceive on this day??

[isthereanyscape]

[bdsmssc]

[chrissongzzz]

you still gotta flirt with her, even if she's ur girl

[evie-lupine]

Hi evie, I did my first ever scene a few days ago, with a couple the plan at first was just for me to observe but I ended up doing a full blown scene with them involving both rope and impact play and I honestly really enjoyed it, all was good till things started to slow down a bit then I started to shake and cry I had to be wrapped up in a blanket and cuddled till I calmed down this hasn't scared me off at all though any tips to avoid another mini meltdown in future? So much for going slow lol

Anon,

You have somewhat answered your own question.

Go SLOWLY!!!

Seriously, this is exactly why I tell people to do small, short, clearly defined scenes when they first play. You were likely overstimulated and overwhelmed. They did NOT prepare you to play. The fact the scene was not negotiated under the pretense of you participating, but the folks you wee with did both rope and impact play on someone who has never played before makes my alarm bells go off. This very easily could have gone completely sideways for you and could have ended much worse.

Do. Not. Play. If you. Have. Not. Negotiated. It. Beforehand.

Point blank. I am serious about this guys! I have seen people get hurt for that exact reason over and over and over again and it’s simply not safe. Especially when you have 0 experience. I know it’s soooo tempting but please don’t do it! Once you have been entranced by the scene you are likely no longer in a place to have completely rational, fully informed negotiations.

Next time I recommend doing a very short, limited, one-stimulant-only scene.

Evie

[fanfetica]

Great advice. Negotiate for safe, sane and CONSENSUAL play.

[sharabp]

Throughly enjoying other restaurants reacting to IHOb

[ruinedchildhood]

[ifitpleasuresme-deactivated2018]

I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

All that and the fucker never even gave me a single orgasm.

[just-an-irish-rose-deactivated2]

Too important not to reblog

[kthmistythoughts]

😳

[asubmissiveview]

I am so sorry for what you experienced @ifitpleasuresme. Thank you for sharing this wake-up call.

[instructor144]

Signal boost. If you go charging into a scene thinking you can act like they act in those gonzo BDSM porn loops, you’re a fool. Always keep the Safe in Safe, Sane, and Consensual. If you are not absolutely sure of what you’re doing in a scene, don’t fucking do it.

[hunnybunz-world-deactivated2018]

Hair pulling done safely…boost!

[belle-convoitise]

I have a janky neck and this is so important…

[chapterauthor-deactivated201812]

Always a re-post. Reading her post just makes my skin crawl and an intense desire to track down the bastard who did this and beat him with a 2x4.

I don’t do BDSM, but I respect and honor those who do. I don’t care if it’s vanilla or kink sex should never result in surgery, broken bones, or trauma of any kind. For Pete’s sake SEX IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN AND PLEASURABLE!