“Hm. I was always wondering what is the best way to tell someone of the same gender of yourself that you love them? There is this girl that I’ve been secretly in love with for a few years, but I don’t know how to tell her that. Telling Baxter seems like the scariest thing I could ever do. Does anyone have any advice? I’ve also never actually came out as a lesbian before.” @forgottenfriendshipstarters
“Well, I guess that the first thing that you have to do is give yourself time to fully process what you’re feeling before taking any action. If you’re sure that these feelings are real for Baxter, act on them. Start by revealing your feelings to a loved one, and getting their support. Then, make a plan to share your feelings with Baxter, and see where it goes! I took that from a website, yeah, but that’s what they said. They also said that if you get rejected by Baxter, tell her “I appreciate your honesty.” And then, whether your crush rejected you or reciprocated your interest, you've still gone through quite an emotional journey. Be sure to care for yourself during this time. Make a list of why you’re awesome, hang out with your best friends, or treat yourself to a spa day or a new outfit. Hm. To be honest, I’ve never even told anyone that I’m bisexual. So, I understand that this can be pretty scary, not knowing how everyone will react to you deciding to be a lesbian.” Blair said.
