10 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T SAY TO A LATINA FEMINIST
The web source I picked does from the online magazine Latina, and can be read here.
Raquel Reichard writes a witty and compelling list of ten things not to say to a Latina feminist. The list goes as follows, translation in italics:
"I get so happy when I see Latinas embracing feminism."
"Los hombres Latinos sufren discriminación también." Latino men also suffer from discrimination.
"You being so angry all the time only feeds into the 'feisty Latina' stereotype, so you’re actually hurting us, not moving us forward."
"Aren’t you a feminista? Why are you listening/watching/reading this?"
"So how did you escape the machismo Latino culture?"
"Pero eres tan bonita." But you’re so pretty.
"You just need some good d*ck, mami. I can take care of that."
"Shhhh. Don’t say that. La feminista is here."
"The situation for women here is better than they are in [insert Latin American/Caribbean country here]. You should be grateful."
"I LOVE Gloria Anzaldúa and Sandra Cisneros."
The list is give a detailed response to each of the comments, witty all the while educated and delievering hard truths. Reichard fights notions that Latinas are now adapting the feminism created by other women, aka white women. She points out the ideals have been present for a long time, the word is just new. Even then points to film to show the presence of U.S. Latinas in feminist movements, “I’m not ‘embracing’ feminism; I am a part of feminism.” To the men who accuse her, and other Latinas, of turning their backs on male struggles she responds with inclusion in her fight, but questions if they do the same. And questions three and four, she taunts the stupidity, all the while giving an explanation to media literacy of problematic media.
Question five exemplifies the ways in which white feminist other Latina feminist often are othered in feminist spaces. Reichard points out the hypocrisy in painting the struggles of Latina women as alien to white women when U.S. feminist struggle with patriarchal issues. Six, seven, and eight receive short answers, mostly likely due to thier ignorant nature; assumptions that Latina feminists are ugly, need to be fixed with sex, and should be shamed for their beliefs.
The last two questions are ones that touch on two very important subjects, the shame from within the Latinx community for “complaining” about life in the U.S. and the exclusion of Latinx feminist writing in academia. To the critiques of U.S. based Latinx feminism, Reichard responds this that her feminism is trsnsational, intersectional, and struggles aboard do come into play, but they do not make her struggles invalid. She responds to comment of appreciation for Anzaldúa and Sandra Cisneros with a simple question, “Then why aren’t they on your syllabi?”
Reading though the list was definitely bittersweet. Reading through both the questions and responses made it obvious to me that the alienation from both white feminist and Latinx culture is unifying for Latinx Feminist. I felt Reichard really hit the nail on the head with her list. She clearly demonstrates the tensions between white feminists with questions one, three, five, and ten. Outsiders looking in on the problems of the poor Latinxs, being so proud of them for being able to break away from their sexist community, all the while policing the way they practice their feminism is all too familiar. The inability of mainstream feminism to understand struggles of latinx feminists creates barriers for the a more widespread understand and intersectional analysis of the world we live in. Questions 2, 4, 6, 7, 8, and 9 were powerful moves because they show how Latinx feminist feel scrutiny in their communities. The lack of understanding from a older generation who try to tell you that you have nothing to worry your pretty little head about here in America, the way that our men push against our growth in sexists way, and the feelings of betrayal from our communities, all of which takes a huge toll.
Through out the reading I began to wonder if the machista culture was what actively pushes against unity if latinx people. I often see Latina women step in the defend our latino brothers, question five pushes against making the fault of latino men be seen as savages in comparison to white men, but where is that unity when Latina women are trying to climb out of oppression?
Reichard, Raquel. "10 Things You Shouldn't Say to a Latina Feminist." Latina.com. 2015. Web. 22 Apr. 2016.