I'm going freestyling next weekend for the first time, I just wanted to ask a couple of questions! Is freestyling easier alone or with a friend? Cause I know men will easily approach a small group of girls, but I'm not sure how they'd react to just one! Also, if alone, is it alright to be reading a book/newspaper? I can't decide if that's peak men's interest or make them think that I don't want to talk to anyone! I'm a little nervous about this, but practice makes perfect!
Q1:Â Is freestyling easier alone or with a friend?Â
Personally, for me, Iâve only gone freestyling alone. However, I know alot of ladies that do go in groups though. But idk, if youâre an introvert this may be a bit much. *Hmmm, marinates on this for a moment/gatherâs thoughts*
Hmm, I still think you should try it by yourself and hereâs whyâŠ.
Your sugar friends may not always be ready when youâre ready to go freestyle. You donât want to become dependent on them every time you decide to go out freestyling. Instead, you must be independent when it comes to sex work. Hopefully youâll understand what I mean by this.Â
Q2:Â Also, if alone, is it alright to be reading a book/newspaper?
Yes and no, depends on the setting.Â
For coffee houses, such as Starbucks, yes itâs okay. Just make yourself look approachable. Look happy, smile, enjoy your coffee. Just look like youâre enjoying life. If you see a gentleman that you like, ATTACK! By ATTACK, I mean make eye contact and smile coyly and blink/bat your eyes while youâre smiling, then look away and get back to what you were doing. While smiling show little teeth, not alot. Wait a few minutes, if he leaves, oh well, onto the next victim. But if he stays, wait about 3-4 mins and make eye contact again. Sometimes I walk up and introduce myself, sometimes I donât. It depends. *Iâll elaborate on this later*
Now for restaurants and hotels that have bars, no. Hotel lobby ehhâŠmaybe. Same rules apply. The only difference is, you may have to buy yourself a drink first. This may not make a difference, but what I like to do is to buy myself a colorful pretty looking drink, like a cosmo. Hereâs a list. Oh and if youâre hungry, buy yourself a small plate of food too, lol. Sit up straight, no slouching and wear red lipstick. No seriously, wear red lipstick and donât wear any other color. If the bar is somewhat empty, thatâs okay, sit somewhere near the nearest guy and chat it up with him. Introduce yourself, say something like, âI guess weâre the only ppl here tonight, huh?â Laugh. Smile. Give him a compliment. Wait until he gives you a compliment. Ask him, âSo what brings you out this lovely evening?â Smile while youâre saying this. Continue on with the conversation. Ask whereâs he from, what does he like to do for fun, but ask it in a cute/create way like, âSo what do you do when youâre not wearing this sexy suit and tie? What do you do for fun?â You know questions like that! Be interesting, sound interesting, even if you have to tell a fib here and there. Be intriguing! Listen more than you talk. If the guy is shy, you may have to do a little more talking to open him up. It all dependsâŠ
Tip: Do you all recall that scene in Bad Teacher when Carmeron Diaz was in the bar!? Even though itâs somewhat exaggerated, I always think about this scene before going out to freestyle. I also think about all the bad bitches I admire such as:
Katrina Laverne âTrinaâ
Joseline Hernandez (LHHATL)
I would go into more detail, butâŠ
I may come back later to add some more little tips when it relates to freestyling, but I think this should help you all out for now. :-)
