the moss agenda

meep morp 👽

[eviltoxicmosssauce]

finally doing an intro post

HELLO! i'm moss

he/it | trans | schrodinger's aroace | writer and artist | system!!!!

other guys who might be on here: zom, orion, letty, star

knight husbandry expert

i WILL tell you the same joke multiple times . i have memory problems and am deeply unfunny but apart from this i would love to be friends!!

music: indie pop rock usually but i enjoy folk punk and metal subgenres as well. daisy the great, hozier, my chemical romance, will wood, jack stauber, the happy fits, david bowie, the crane wives, rage against the machine, & more. also a mechanisms fan <333

hobbies: art, writing, kandi, drums, d&d, medlit, sometimes knitting & other forms of crafts. i've got a bunch of original projects cooking atm too (CNV, herring falls, camlann's waste, & various fan creations)

fandoms: mainly bbc merlin, the magnus archives, find us alive, legends of avantris, and general arthurian legend, plus occasionally willow (2022), assorted horror podcasts, SCP, cowboy bebop, castlevania, star trek, and more i'm probably forgetting. very into horror and scifi but i'm quite picky

dm for discord if you wanna hang out there :]

dni: send me hate mail idgaf it'll just make me laugh

how the personal tags work-- #moss says things is the main one for pretty much every post i make or add to. all my blogs use that one. #moss does art is the same but for drawings

COMMISSIONS ARE OPEN !!!!!!!!

^my pet isopod franklin

[eviltoxicmosssauce]

COMMISSIONS ARE OPEN!!

DM me for more information/discussions of payment!!

DISCOUNTS: - 15% off on illustrations of characters I already like B) - Matching sets - buy one illustration & get a matching one for half price!! - Doodlepages for only $5 ($7 with color)!!!

BUSTS:

HALF-BODY:

FULL-BODY:

DOODLEPAGES:

FULLY RENDERED:

I will do: ✅Furry/anthro ✅Couples/ship art ✅OCxCanon/Selfship ✅Partial nudity/Suggestive ✅Blood/gore/body horror ✅Simple backgrounds ✅Character design ✅Full nudity/NSFW ✅Armor/weapons ✅Funky color palettes ✅Animations - we can discuss!!

I will NOT do: ⛔Complicated machinery ⛔Detailed backgrounds ⛔RPF ⛔Offensive/bigoted material ⛔Incest/pedophilia

[mxxnoir]

Something cryptic about Stryga

[3000s]

i just realized the only 2 options arent "make someone angry" or "do what they want"

[3000s]

being in love is like you learn theres other reactions people have besides angry or not angry

[3000s]

love when its safe

[sandersstudies]

Sick list of symptoms bro. Now try humanizing your behavior instead of pathologizing it.

[sandersstudies]

Pathologizing: Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive.

Humanizing: Hey, I’m sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didn’t mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me.

[queer-asinfuckyou]

Because I just saw a post bitching about this one, I want to add: this post is saying that you need to take accountability for the way you hurt other people, even if it happens because of a symptom of your disability/illness. It's also saying that using terms (especially acronyms) that aren't common knowledge isn't a helpful way to explain yourself. It is NOT saying that you need to let people walk all over you because "your disability isn't an excuse."

If you're diabetic, you don't have to eat the honey glazed ham that will send you into a coma (their example). But you also can't yell at the person offering it and accuse them of trying to kill you. You can just say "thanks, but my body can't handle that kind of sugar intake, so I'll pass"

[ayin-me-yesh]

If you run over someone's foot with your wheelchair you still apologise

[despazito]

[ode-on-a-grecian-butt]

art by @niochemblyat

[ode-on-a-grecian-butt]

I always know its getting toasty out in the world because girls start reblogging this post like crazy

[lelif]

on survival

-// @aridante // @orivu // @buzzkillgirls // ? // ? // richard siken// @cemeterything // moomin, tove jansson// @disenchanted-killjoy // isn't that enough, shawn mendes// @ prettytheyswag on twitter// @ coletyumuch on twitter// ? // ? // bird by bird, anne lamott// undertale// @strawberrycircuits

[realityofmine]

Excalibur - 1981

[hexpatient]

me: im disabled and have limits

the smartest most intelligent guy in the world with the most hugest dick ever like so big, like the biggest dick ever, man and also soooo intelligent and thoughtful and just so so intelligent: have you tried pushing yourself?

[hexpatient]

from my own experience and also from what i hear from others, the issue seems to stem from a fundamental misunderstanding of how i know my limits. i know because i have discovered and tested them. i push them sometimes, carefully. and occasionally i get ok results or at least nothing bad happens. but sometimes something does happen, so i MUST respect my limits.

but when i talk about disability to abled people, they assume its just a bad attitude. like ive defaulted to a "i cant" attitude. and that stems from a fundamental mistrust of disabled people, and the cultural grift of acting like bad things can only exist in the mind. yes i know this is old news. anyways.

[hexpatient]

someone said this in the tags and tbh i had forgotten, but also many disabled people arent just the "i cant do this without serious consequences", but are literally the physically/mentally truly Cannot kind of disabled too. they cant push themselves because there is nothing to push. they just plain Cant. these people are also grifted and abused with the "just try" shit. my bad to leave out that kind of disability here.

[jubjubbird]

i've been told to stop being such an issue and just try to understand that i can't always have my way and i should try to step outside of my comfort zone because this is just a friendly gathering and we all want to have you here and have everyone here and there doesn't need to be a whole big deal about what movie we pick so really just try to give us a little leeway too.

this was about watching a movie with strobing lights. i have photosensitive epilepsy.

[poniko-w]

last year of artfight pissed me off

[st-just]

The Watcher by Kez Laczin

[kezrekade]

I’m glad you all like my art! I made another version you might like.. :3c ~The Watcher, Unsealed~

[smellyvampirez]

right on

[child-of-crows]

the dildo in question which also seems to have a short story

[annabelle--cane]

I somehow hit the jackpot and grew up being raised by a mother who was actually good and liked me (while she was poor and disabled nonetheless! Big Fascism is always saying poor and disabled single mothers who aren't evil can't exist, get #owned lol), and that actually made me extremely anti-adult from a very young age. every single friend I ever made from ages seven to nineteen would constantly tell me crazy stories about what regularly went down in the penal institutions that passed for their homes, and that was all considered normal and fine and the gold standard for what nice suburban families were meant to be, meanwhile if I said something like "my mum lets me read any book I want and all movies and tv are allowed as long as we watch them together" then I'd get un-invited from every birthday party because I was deemed a corrupting influence (which, to be fair, I was, because I would spend a lot of time convincing my friends that if their parents' rules sucked and were unfair then it was okay to lie to get around them). and whaddya know I'm twenty-four and still get on really well with my mother and talk to her as much as I can and this is the case for literally no one else I know.

[eviltoxicmosssauce]

i havent caught up with malevolent in like a year what the fuck is threshold

[lowkeyed1]

modern au graydon trying to figure out how to tell elora he's fallen for her... -----

"I know we haven't known each other very long—" He frowned at his reflection and stopped. Cliche. "I want you to know I have the utmost respect for you as a coworker—" Stodgy. No. "I believe I am developing feelings for you of the romantic variety." Seriously? He rolled his eyes. Lieutenant Commander Data couldn't have put it any better. "Hey, I think I love you..." He shook his head and put the guitar down. That was obviously the wrong direction. What was he thinking? "I'm falling in love with you." Well, that might be the best of a bad lot. Graydon sighed and ran his fingers through his hair one more time. It was almost noon and Elora said a walk in the park on their lunch break sounded really nice. It was the perfect opportunity to tell her, to see if there was any chance. It didn't feel likely but he couldn't sleep, he was constantly distracted. Something had to give. A flush came from the stall behind him, the one he'd thought unoccupied. Boorman's voice sounded, low and amused. "Dunno man, I liked the bit with the guitar." Graydon groaned.

[eviltoxicmosssauce]

if you were my horse and we were in the kentucky derby i would name you aborted pregnancy (/pos)

if i was your horse i'd chomp off your head in a single bite like an apple

[junglejim4322]

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

[junglejim4322]

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

[junglejim4322]

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

[transhumanisticpanspermia]

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?