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🌻Patron saint of problematic transgenders I love reading how people from all the expectrum relate to this toxic little bunny

Hope you all enjoy ep 9 and remember!

You are not alone

thatdiabolicalfeminist

"Dogwhistles" are called that based on real "dog whistles", many of which are pitched too high to be audible to most humans, but are still perfectly audible to dogs.

Rhetorical dogwhistles are things that most people would not be able to identify as bigoted because they're INTENDED to have plausible deniability.

The wording changes are meant to be subtle enough that people really can mix them up accidentally when they don't have much information!

So when the gender critical movement calls trans women "transwomen", they're hoping for 2 things.

this usage will spread enough among people who don't know any better, to give transphobes the plausible deniability of not LOOKING like a frothing bigot constantly.

the usage grammatically places trans women in a different category than other women; it's changing "trans" from an adjective to part of a noun to make this distinction.

The more we can avoid this usage, the less deniability have transmisogynists have when using it, and the less rhetorical ground we cede to the degendering and misgendering of trans women.

I don't actually think ceding this ground is LESS divisive than pointing it out politely.

coldstream

i love having friends who can communicate like adults it's so cool

coldstream

imagine being like "hey this made me feel bad" and they're like "oh sorry i'll try to be better about that" and that's all it is

ferncloud

im here for you

extranuts

@spritecorruption

bakwaaas

You gotta understand that some people never really grow. They never learn their lesson. They never recognise their mistakes, they never acknowledge their faults, they never admit they were in the wrong. You will never receive an apology from them, and you will never see their behaviour change.

lilybee

if you’re in the notes saying “this is wrong and cruel because everyone is capable of growth” you’re not understanding the post.

yes, everyone is CAPABLE of growth and change. everyone has the RIGHT to growth and change. but no, not everyone will CHOOSE growth and change. some people are not interested in and cannot be made interested in self-improvement or self-reflection. some people will go their entire lives refusing to admit they might be wrong or examine their own behaviors. some people will never, ever accept responsibility for the effects they have on people and the world around them. humans are varied; some are just always gonna be like this.

it is VITAL to understand this if you’re the kind of person who tends to pour energy into helping others, especially if there are already people knowingly hurting you who consistently show absolutely no interest in changing that behavior. you can’t forcibly make them want to change who they are. you aren’t going to find a way to convince them to suddenly care that their behavior is hurting someone.

the motivation to change and grow comes from within. others may inspire us, but WE have to decide we want to be better and work towards that. until they decide that for themselves, nobody else can do it for them. and they might never. people are mortal. we are a finite series of choices. it is entirely possible to make mostly selfish ones.

everyone CAN grow, but not everyone will. not everyone wants to, and nobody can force the desire to grow as a person on someone else.

mithsd

“Am I selfish for doing this?”

cobbbvanth

star wars, but it’s just the memes

MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU

Item: A Soft Pillow Rarity: ⏶ Common

What's your comfort game?

Feed your dashboard by answering my question, blogger.

Uuuuuhhhhhhhhh hwat

cornflakeeeee

it the day

bog-bert

gandalf big naturals in spore

captainskells

medusa, a commission for a friend d3_sd

personsonable-deactivated201908

me holding a gun to a mushroom: tell me the name of god you fungal piece of shit

mushroom: can you feel your heart burning? can you feel the struggle within? the fear within me is beyond anything your soul can make. you cannot kill me in a way that matters

me cocking the gun, tears streaming down my face: I’M NOT FUCKING SCARED OF YOU

miaislying

Hey OP? What the FUCK does this mean?

personsonable-deactivated201908

decay exists as an extant form of life

miaislying

That’s a terrifying answer, have a nice day

haystarlight

THE ORIGINAL?!?!!!!!!!!;!!!!!!!!???

shower-thoughts-last-responder

On my dash!??!

Please hold

twothpaste

unfortunate psa

I'm really not the sorta person to make callout posts. Considering the stuff that's gone on with this guy, though, I feel obligated to spread awareness in whatever way I can. Bimble / bimbleygimbly / bimblescribbles has been credibly accused of sexual harassment & sexual assault, and has more or less admitted guilt. He's caused some other issues in Discord servers - such as condoning the sharing of nsfw content around minors, harassing minors, and repeating the same behaviors even after being confronted. (There's more details [here] and [here], if anyone needs them. CW for discussion of SA.)

Recently, Bimble has been joining Mother servers on Discord, and contacting folks in the fandom - despite agreeing to stay away. If this were all just pretty private drama, I don't think it'd be my place to speak up. But given what I know about him, and how many folks are following me, I think a warning here is warranted. For what my opinion is worth: I don't believe it's safe for this person to participate in the Mother fandom - especially considering how many minors & survivors there are in this community. I think we should do all we can to keep our spaces safe from people like this.

Do not contact or harass Bimble. If he tries to contact you, I highly suggest you block him. If he joins one of your servers or communities, I implore you to warn the moderators, and provide them with the above links. You can even reach out to me if you need to; I can redirect to folks who've got access to more detailed info.

Stay safe, and take care, y'all.