🌌💫VIRD💫🌌

He/him A trans dude from the canary islands!

[introjectcontaintmentzone]

I don't mean any disrespect with this

What are your feelings around husband's past as a sex worker?

I know it can be a sore spot in most relationships , so I wonder how you navigate it

First of all, none of you get to judge our partner, you don't know him, so keep that in mind. We don't care what your opinions of this are, and we don't give a fuck what any of you think we should do or how any of you will view our relationship after this. If you don't have anything positive to say, you should just not say anything.

We are aware of the circumstances that brought our partner to end up in that situation in the past, we wish we could have been there to avoid anyone taking advantage of him. That's it. Just like we're sure he wishes he could have been there when it happened to us.

We don't have anything to navigate, that past doesn't define him, and we don't even want to know what you were implying with that, so we don't need an explanation for that. He is our loving partner, we love him, whatever happened did because everyone that could have done something failed him and now that is just an experience we wish he didn't have to have gone through, what is done is done, nothing else, nothing more.

None of you get to judge him for any of this, and neither do we, given we were stuck in a situation for a time too. We're just two victims trying to live our lives, we've found each other, we are finally safe with each other. We love each other. No matter what.

If anyone is coming here to say anything about his past in this field, get out. It is none of your business. We're not shy with the block and report button either. —Host1 (any pronouns) + The Lady (she/they)

[virdthebird]

Why is it me being a sex worker in the paaaaaaaaaaaast... something my partner has to be asked abouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuttttt

[megalo224]

brothers from different mothers

[flanzee]

ninten's real name (or something like that)

got this idea forever ago when i was reading ninten's wiki page and remembered his other canonicaly dubious(???) names. it's just so fascinating to me...

(my headcanon is that 'Ninten' was his nickname all this time, he introduced himself with that name only, thus not many people knew his real name was Douglas!)

[virdthebird]

You were not a sex worker looked through your stuff dont claim to be things for internet points

On the longer side, i think its very funny to forget that sex work is illegal in some countries, i think its funny to think that everyone is completly transparent and open about all their life experiences on the internet constantly

I did nsfw "everything is okay" commissions for dirt cheap when i was a minor, then , when i was an adult, got into sex work through someone i knew and thought wanted the best for me, i have lived my life constantly desperate for money due to situations i was born into , and i want to talk about them, but honestly, right now im a bit too busy with surviving and i know people struggle with realizing others behind a screen are whole human beings

Sex work is a valid kind of work, and people deserve protections and respect, the thing about sex work is that it leaves you in a very easily exploitable position and i feel victim to that, i dont need internet points, i dont need to disclose my whole life history online, i want to share parts of my story, but im aware i have not lived a normal life and people wont believe everything, and that is okay, im too old to care about if strangers in the internet believe me or dont

This year im getting closer than ever to being stable, maybe after that i can take the risk, but i dont owe anyone any explanations of my life or details on it

[virdthebird]

im just kinda tired, this has been a part of my life that ive only shared intentionally with like… three? people? all the other people that know found out through other means and, i never feel like i can talk about it, im very tired, i want to scream these things, these feelings, but, the emotional burden and weight is just too much

I just prefer handling them by myself, no judgement, no bother, no matter, im tired

[virdthebird]

You were not a sex worker looked through your stuff dont claim to be things for internet points

On the longer side, i think its very funny to forget that sex work is illegal in some countries, i think its funny to think that everyone is completly transparent and open about all their life experiences on the internet constantly

I did nsfw "everything is okay" commissions for dirt cheap when i was a minor, then , when i was an adult, got into sex work through someone i knew and thought wanted the best for me, i have lived my life constantly desperate for money due to situations i was born into , and i want to talk about them, but honestly, right now im a bit too busy with surviving and i know people struggle with realizing others behind a screen are whole human beings

Sex work is a valid kind of work, and people deserve protections and respect, the thing about sex work is that it leaves you in a very easily exploitable position and i feel victim to that, i dont need internet points, i dont need to disclose my whole life history online, i want to share parts of my story, but im aware i have not lived a normal life and people wont believe everything, and that is okay, im too old to care about if strangers in the internet believe me or dont

This year im getting closer than ever to being stable, maybe after that i can take the risk, but i dont owe anyone any explanations of my life or details on it

[virdthebird]

🌻We are the same

I started this piece for mermay but I ended up not finishing it on time ,then tried to finish it for pride month… ,anyway, here, lesbians!

"Only a woman's kiss

Will give me life again"

[She/Her for Echo

[She/Her for Aisaka

[autisticautonomy]

Hey does anyone remember when a transgender adult man with cerebral palsy got top surgery of his own accord and then posted about it in celebration, and then transphobes:

Lied and said he was non-verbal

Lied and said he was incapable of communication

Lied and said he had not gotten the surgery of his own accord

Lied and said his "guardians decided [he] was trans"

Got MGT to call a procedure done on a consenting adult "criminal" just because he had cerebral palsy

Mass reported his video and his account, which he ran, until facebook terminated his account for "child exploitation" despite it being his account, him being an adult, and him not being exploited

Ableism and transphobia are inseperable. Just like ableism was used to prop up bigotry throughout history, now it is being used to deny transgender people bodily autonomy the same way it is used to deny disabled people bodily autonomy. It's not a coincidence that so much of the rights transphobic rhetoric is focused on labelling us as "mentally ill". They don't think any disabled people, let alone mentally ill people should have independence or liberation.

A disabled college student was bullied for posting about his transition. Meta removed his account

<p>Micah Leroy, who ran the account known as “Disabled Trans Boy” on Instagram, became the subject of a right-wing hate campaign after he po

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[awawaven]

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[jay-rayart]

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[nihilisticlinguistics]

adulthood notes:

The Rodeo Rule: you only have to do it for the first time once.

The Rohan Rule: if you are at a social function full of new people and you want to be liked, find someone doing important work like setup or food prep and offer to help.

The Tutorial Mode Rule: to navigate an unfamiliar situation where you fear you will mess up an interaction, preface the interaction by mentioning that you've never done this before, and let them know if you have a specific concern or question.

The Rocket Science Rule: most new things you want to try seem very complicated but are simple when taken step by step.

The [X] Will Remember That Rule: if you need to make small talk with the same person on a regular basis, try to save one fact or current event in their life from a given conversation and bring it up next time you talk.

The Cool Binder Rule: by wearing clothes and accessories that are to your taste instead of trying to blend in, people will be more likely to compliment you and show interest in you as a person.

[maroonracoon]

[bunbunsheart]

hi so recently there was a very strong earthquake in Venezuela that left so many people deeply affected including my family that lives there. The government obviously doesn't have the means to help its people with the current economic situation and all so I would really appreciate some monetary help as my grandpa and aunt are currently struggling, their home is barely livable at this point (theres multiple cracks in the infraestructure) and they're in dire need of basic need products (food is scarce due to the high demand) There's also some direct friends of the family that were deeply affected and I would like to help them too, any dollar or sharing helps

➛ here's my paypal

[bunbunsheart]

thank you to everyone who has donated so far i really appreciate your kindness, sadly a close friend of the family is in critical condition right now and her family cannot pay for her medical expenses, please keep sharing this post any donation is welcome, you can send the money to my paypal and I will send it to their family 🙏

[a-galaxy-away]

[noqualitycheck]

[hyaesia]

lalalala (messing with brushes)

[noqualitycheck]