The Outgoing INFJ

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Tag yourself, I’m Dreams and Memes

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sorry ENTP

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INFJ Pupdate

A couple months ago I confessed to ISFP because we have been having such good times, but it didn't seem like he was going to make a move. He said he purely saw me as a friend (LIES, LOL)  Anyway, he said he still wanted to be friends tho. We ended up getting a lot closer after that and I was still confused because the situation didn’t feel like a just friends situation. Anyway, for the summer until school comes back in session, we both moved away to different states.

I texted him a lot after he left first. Then I stopped texting him because I wanted to take care of my emotional health (me being more of initiator in the texting arena.) He doesn’t text me for a few weeks and it was killing me, lol. I thought I was going to lose him, but I knew we were close. He texted me last week and we talking about possibly dating again. I found out he really does want to date me, but he has some issues he wants to sort out first. 

There are about 3 and a half months until we will probably see each other again and I’m really hoping he us able to sort through his issues and then we can date......I have a feeling to trust in this situation tho. :)

[birbyy]

Sometimes, i like to imagine a future me telling someone, "you know, i have told you everything about myself i am capable of putting into words. For everything i don't know how to say, i want you to see my tumblr."

[extravertinginfj]

INFJ X ISFP LOVE

Based on what I know about this guy....I would type him as an ISFP. We have a very special relationship right now and we sometimes spend all night playing video games together or occasionally a few hours on the phone chatting....

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How to Be Sure If You're INFJ

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Hey if you're still doing the squad poem thing: there's me ENFJ, one INFP, one INFJ, and one INTJ. (INTJ is the only male, all the rest of us are girls! ☺️)

There is not one sane thought among us

and we thrive

on

deep thoughts

solemn vows

and

probably

a little too much 

laughter

[extravertinginfj]

Hey rate my squad? INFJ, INFP, ESFJ, ISFJ xD (poor ESFJ)

In waves of emotion

among the torrential sea

there is one strong among them

they are mom

they are mom god

we love mom god

[extravertinginfj]

In love, again.....

I don’t even know what to say guys

[extravertinginfj]

INFJ and INFP as best friends, please? Thank you. <3

INFJ: I met this guy that barely knows I exists, but I know I am going to marry him :D

INFP: I can’t wait to meet him!!!! Go INFJ!!

[extravertinginfj]

I really, sincerely, think you're an enfj. And I don't know you personally so how could I know. But I suggests to study up on enfjs more for a little while and see if you relate to it more. You have some Enfj traits like developing your Se before you develop Ti. (Ti comes naturally even in your teen years, and being in the grip of the Se plays out in odd spending sprees and insatiable appetites when you're stressed, rather than actual development). Sorry if I'm wrong!!

Yeah like wanting to buy my neighbor’s xbox that i don’t actually want? lolol. Thanks for the input, it’s always good to take a look at other perspectives. I pretty confidently identify with INFJ though.

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What are some of you favorite quotes?

“If you can’t beat fear, just do it scared.”― Glennon Doyle Melton

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Dating Apps

I’ve never had a boyfriend and it sucks, because I have always wanted one and fantasized about relationships. And I have never kissed anyone. This is also the first time since I have been romantically interested in boys that I do not have emotional attachments to anyone.

I decided I was ready to start online dating (again) casually on a dating app. Nothing serious. My goal was to just go on dates. If someone I was interested in turned up, I could work on growing that relationship.

This is my first time trying to “grow into love” instead of love at first sight. However, I still would prefer that. How has casual dating helped you find love?

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infj things

- idea of a good time is staying at home doing nothing - listening to the rain, thunder or the ocean is an added bonus - second guessing everything when stressed - just thinking - observing other people from afar - hating people who are two-faced and selfish - phobia of crowds - knowing that things will work out eventually but needing a little understanding to feel supported - perfectionistic - too hard on themselves - wanting to know themselves as deeply as possible - opens up about feelings then apologises for doing so - can’t talk coherently but writing is the opposite - will say something extremely intelligent then accidentally run into a wall

feel free to add more

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MBTI & Development: INFJ

This profile is meant to be used as a supplement to the Type Development Guide (mbti-notes.tumblr.com/development). Without understanding the theory behind function development, you are likely to misinterpret this profile. Type development involves confronting all the negative aspects of your personality, therefore, take time to deepen your understanding of your type’s strengths and weaknesses.

INFJ (Functional Stack: Ni-Fe-Ti-Se)

Core Values: vision, insight, harmony

Strengths: quickly see obscure connections and generate creative ideas, oriented towards helping others

Weaknesses: unrealistic in approach, overly idealistic in perspective, too concerned about the opinions of others

Shadow Conflicts: Ne seen as draining, overwhelming, illogical, confused; Se seen as meaningless, thrill-seeking, irresponsible, short-sighted; Si seen as narrow-minded, persnickety, self-limiting

Keep reading

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What it’s Like to Date an INFJ (+ Advice)