Extrovert Problems

This blog is dedicated for extroverts and the problems that will come along for being one. This is a blog deticated for extroverts and what problems will come along for being one. Ask/Submit box is always open and anon is on. IMPORTANT! Please never send any hate to introverts (or anyone else). No matter what the situation is, I will not tolerate that kind of behavior here.

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Raise your hand if you have ever told to shut the fuck up, or that you're annoying for being talkative or you have felt bad for being an extrovert.

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How to Care for an Extrovert

1. Respect their need for independence and autonomy.

2. Praise and compliment them in front of others.

3. Affirm their passion and enthusiasm.

4. Encourage them to talk things through as a way of processing problems and challenges.

5. Encourage and affirm their spontaneity. Surprise them from time to time.

6. Recognise that they’re likely to be super busy and, possibly, over committed, too.

7. Allow them to try new things right away, while their enthusiasm is high.

8. Give them lots of choices and options.

9. Demonstrate your love and affection. Tell them and show them how much they mean to you.

10. Give them the opportunity to shine.

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When two introverts meet.

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When two extroverts meet and ironically act like introverts with each other

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tumblr introvert culture makes me mad because you have people complaining about being lonely and then say stuff like "i love canceling plans with my friends"??? im an introvert and i love hanging out with my pals ! also having extroverts as friends is great u guys are fun to be around. 🙂

That makes me mad as well, I hate that part of tumblr/online introvert culture. It’s not only rude, but also really disrespectful to always cancel your plans.

Like, how about instead of cancelling the plans, you could suggest an alternative plan if you are feeling too overwhelmed. Or reschedule it. If your extrovert friend gives you room, the least you could do is to sometimes maybe go out with them or do things with them. 

I’ve said it already many times, but I’ll say it once more. 

If you don’t respect your friends with different social needs, you are not a very good friend. This applies to both introverts and extroverts. You need to give your friend room to be alone, but you sometimes need to go to do stuff with them too. Maybe sometimes it can be going to a coffee shop, and other times it could be just ordering pizza and chilling inside. And maybe sometimes just have a skype call and play games. 

It is important to find a middle ground.

PS, Your extrovert friend does not want to hang out with you because they want to annoy you. They just like your company and want to spend more time with you.

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This speaks for itself

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I like my extroverts but my only problem is when extroverts act like introverts don’t have a life if we don’t have a certain amount of friends or like parties

Yeah, I think that is a problem too. Just because someone lives their life differently, doesn’t mean they don’t have a life. 

How many times you go out to do things shouldn’t be a measure of how much life you have haha.

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idk what introvert needs to hear this but please check yourself when ur saying stuf like “staying in your room all weekend by yourself watching netflix is much better than going out and being social” because speaking from experience it’s very easy to confuse being introverted and isolating yourself to cope with anxiety and depression please reach out to your friends and make an effort to live your life and say yes to things, there’s no harm in enjoying your own company but please try to avoid shutting yourself away because you’ve convinced yourself that you’re better alone it’s seriously a recipe for loneliness and will really fuck with your self worth

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Extrovert Problem #39

Introverts assuming you cannot survive alone. And how you need to be with someone 24/7 and leech their energy like a vampire. 

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Y’all act like it’s a problem being an extrovert. 

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*looks in the ‘extrovert’ tag* *only sees posts about introverts*

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I mean option A) isn’t that far off from the truth….

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Wild idea

What about we stop trying to shame people who participate a lot in class? People who enjoy discussing subjects with professors and other students? People who are naturally extroverted and wish to share their ideas with others?

I get it. It’s annoying when someone keeps correcting the proffessor and I have found dudes who act very smugly about how much they supposedly know, but some of us are just fascinated by a subject and wish to discuss it further and share our ideas about it. You are completely open to debate them, agree or disagree with them, it’s what we like.

So please stop telling people who participate a lot they are “annoying” Not our fault y’all prefer sitting down in silence during the time you paid to have.

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Extrovert problem #5

You meet a new person.

Person isn’t social

You begin to tell your entire life story just to uphold conversation.

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I don’t mean to interrupt people; I just randomly remember things and get really excited.

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most Rationals can relate

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Some extroverts also would actually prefer to just literally Netflix & Chill with introverted friends. Or just play video games all weekend without even opening the curtains.

I may be repeating myself but stop assuming all extroverts like going to the club or a bar.