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powerrangersystem

89words

“When a relationship ends, you often either cling on to the good or the bad. If you hold on only to the good, you will be haunted by the ‘what ifs’. On the other hand, if you hold on only to the bad, you will be consumed by rage. It’s important to remember both the good and the bad. Important to remember that the relationship might had been good while it lasted, but had to come to an end.”

— if only my brain is louder than my heart (24)

ruhlare

stuck between "i want to push everyone away, i want to be left alone, i don't want to talk to anyone, don't look at me and don't touch me" and "i just need to be held for a minute, i need someone who doesn't look away, i need someone who will understand my silence"

nateswinehart

Ha ha seriously tho.

kitsiinabox

nateswinehart

anightvaleintern-blog1

I needed to hear this right now. <3

marqweabyss

My new favorite post.

blueandbluer

As someone who finished her undergrad at 40, I feel this later update. Take your time. Progress made at any speed is progress.

free-my-mindd

It’s not your job to figure out people and why the mistreat you, your responsibility is to get out of harm’s way and start doing what’s right for you.

memeuplift

afterword

idk who needs to hear this rn but suffering is not noble. take the tylenol

wahoo-shem

One time when I was younger I was refusing to take headache medicine and my mom said “the person who invented that medicine is probably so sad you won’t let them help you” and now every time I find myself denying medicine I just imagine the saddest scientist making those big wet eyes like “why won’t you let me help” and whoop then I take the medicine

untitled54184

No matter how many times you fail to meet your own expectations, you have to forgive yourself. Despite contrary belief, dwelling on and badgering yourself over your faults doesn’t ever help you grow into who you want to be.

It’s like gardening: if your flower isn’t blossoming like you want it to, you don’t rip out its leaves as punishment for failing to satisfy you. You recognize the problem and figure out what’s going wrong with its environment so you can modify it, giving the flower a chance to bloom in its own time.

Accept your shortcoming or setback, forgive yourself, and figure out what’s going wrong so that you can plan for how to prevent it from repeating in the future. Thank your past self for trying in the first place and then give your future self the love needed to flourish.