Étoile or Astéroïde | french & english | 20+
un astre bleu essayant de paraître humain·e
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-> english : ae/aer • star/stars
-> french : ae • ael • al
-> emojipronouns : ⭐•🌟
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[Header : A night sky drawn pixel-like in a gradient from black to purple with numerous white dots for the stars. The moon is full and detailled in blue in the up right. A shooting star is appearing and disappearing endlessly on the left. There is a box in the middle saying "game over" and having two propositions like in a video game : "try again" and "quit + cry". The pointer constantly moves from one to another.]
[Profile Picture : A lot of blue little plastic stars.]
[Decorative symbol : a single black five-pointed star]
[big-sized, bold and blue text : fallenfromthedeadstars' map <3]
[dividers are by @/sssilverblessings]
✨ I describe every media / text and put content warnings at the start of the post or in tags + tone indications (more detailled explanations here [link]). I can mess up, so don't hesitate to tell me if you need a specific thing described / added to a post or if I did it badly !
✨ No DNI list, I block when I feel like it (but mostly try to not end up in an echo chamber).
✨ Please tell me if you find typos somewhere ! I have an objectively good english level but still make typing / spelling / grammatical mistakes sometimes. Same for AAVE and slurs, I sometimes say words like this thinking they only are slang or descriptive.
✨ A lot of my posts are queued, so if i don't answer and you see new things on my blog, I'm not ignoring you – I'm just not here. I'm also all for interactions (comment ! reblog ! send asks !) but I'm not looking for friends.
✨ I'm okay for my posts being character-claimed and used by a gimmick blog, even the most vent-y ones. I'm also cool with spam-likes and do it myself sometimes (sorry if it bothers you).
✨ My Poetry Masterlist [link] | My dolls' presentation [link]
Tags system [blue text : Tags system] :
-> each is a link !
#deadstars reblogged this • #deadstars reviews aer inbox
#deadstars talks about art • #deadstars is an artist
#deadstars has some headcanons
after the cut :
-> "i have things to say" : my posts about my opinions
-> "important links" : informations and websites
i have things to say
[medium-sized font, bold and blue text : i have things to say]
-> societal and political discussion
talking about the difference between Palestine and Hamas [link]
protect children from every adults (this includes your partner) [link]
it's okay to have mixed feelings about your parents even if they did their best [link]
being part of a marginalised community doesn't make you immune to being an oppressor yourself [link]
what is intersectional feminism ? [link]
testing generative AI is still using generative AI [link] (in french)
-> understanding identities and respect to have
list of unwelcome and welcome people in pride [link]
keep fighting for all queer people ! [link]
you have to respect trans people's identity even when they are bad people [link]
my take on the "trans women VS trans men" online discourse [link]
your past doesn't invalidate your aroace identity [link] (my experience)
the link between being queer and being autistic [link] (my experience)
short memory in autistic people and how it affects special interests [link] (my experience)
the "lack" of empathy in autism [link] (my experience)
autistic people and physical complexes [link] (my experience | in french)
-> fiction, medias and writing
talking about the glamourisation and normalisation of murderers in fiction with Barty and Evan from Marauders fandom as an exemple [link] (the ONLY post about Marauders i didn't delete because i was making an interesting point)
more ethical ways to consume boycotted medias + talking about the power of online clout [link]
your favorite character isn't perfect and that's what make them interesting [link]
over-analyzing doesn't exist [link]
-> others / not classified
don't give too much informations about yourself on internet + you can block ! [link]
why i hate "name-me-three-songs" type of guys [link]
talking about an eye-opening vegan post i saw [link]
important links
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🇵🇸 instagram account sharing a different fundraiser for palestinians each week [link] (from a friend)
⚧️ two intersex people explain why perisex people shouldn't use ASAB / OSAB vocabulary + the whole history behind it + by what replace it [link] (not mine | text not described | cw genitalia, child abuse, pedocriminality)
🏳️⚧️ a list of all kinds of pronouns [link] (not mine)
🏳️⚧️ how ae/aer pronouns work [link] (mine !)
🖇️ how to know if you are restricted by Tumblr's spam-control policy and what to do then [link] (mine !)
🖇️ list of youtube videos on Tumblr lore [link] (not mine | text not described)
Mes francophones politipotes j'ai une question pour vous : quel·le·s sont les youtubeureuses que vous boycottez ?
[texte de taille moyenne : Mes francophones potipotes j'ai une question pour vous : quel·le·s sont les youtubeureuses que vous boycottez ?]
J'ai de plus en plus de mal à assumer la dissonance cognitive qui existe entre mes valeurs (anti IA générative, anti-racisme, anti-sexisme, anti-viol, anti-psychophobie, anti-validisme, anti-queerphobia de toutes sortes, anti-grossophobie, anti-police, anti-spécisme et tout ça AUSSI dans le vocabulaire, pro-environnement, pro-droit des enfant·e·s, etc...) et celleux que je regarde pour le divertissement.
Il y en a plusieurs que j'ai déjà arrêté de regarder par moi-même, mais d'autres où je continue ET QUI POURTANT ont des comportements / agissements similaires in a way. (+ peut-être de la misogynie intériorisée de ma part parce que j'ai l'impression que j'ai moins de mal à arrêter de regarder une meuf qu'un mec 😬)
Bref, balancez moi vos listes (avec les raisons svp !) que j'update ma consommation vidéo pour le meilleur. La bise !
It's the last day of pride, I would like to take this opportunity to remind everyone someone who used to identify a certain way and doesn't anymore isn't an ennemy nor the proof this said identity doesn't exist / is a phase.
Detransitioner are welcome. People who believed they were a-spec before becoming more confortable with others are welcome. Straight people who had a bi(-curious) phase are welcome. People who've been in a polyamorous relationship before realising it's not for them are welcome. You're welcome, I love you, all your journey makes who you are today <3
people will say "diversity's so beautiful" and then show someone with conventionally attractive features but with a lot of moles, space between their teeth and heterochromia
I'm not afraid to say my queer identity is 100% linked to me being autistic, and I wouldn't be any of it if I was neurotypical [bold and blue text : 100% linked to me being autistic, and I wouldn't be any of it if I was neurotypical]. It's not discrediting the community, or watering it down, it's simply the truth. Autism alters how I understand society and therefore myself, how I interpret rules, how I navigate this life, how I create relationships with others.
If I was neurotypical, I don't think I would be transgender or aspec. I don't think I would be nonbinary, alterhuman/non-human. I don't think I would be on the asexual spectrum, the aromantic spectrum, the afamilial spectrum, the aplatonic spectrum.
Does it mean being queer is unatural ? A mental illness ? No [bold text : No]. First of all, autism isn't a mental illness but a neurodevelopmental disorder, learn the difference. And even if it was categorised as a mental illness, it doesn't mean queerness is also one. It only means this thing I have alters my own life perception, and therefore it should not be surprising I end up identifying with labels outside the norm.
Me thinking this part of my identity is intertwined with how my brain is wired in a different way than others, it is not [bold text : not] me saying this is how it works for everyone. Individual experiences aren't the textbook definition for someting bigger, and a lot of you need to understand that.
