Having AK Scarecrow as a partner headcanons
Warning: this is not the healthiest relationship to be in
He love bombs you to get what he wants, but he doesn't hurt you in any way ever (or at least, he tries not to, accidents happen)
He's pretty possessive, but you can negotiate with him. The worst it will get is someone else hurt you and now he wants to hurt them and you gotta talk him out of it.
He's very physically affectionate if that's what he knows you like, but he's a bit hesitant to have it done back to him. Be patient with him, he'll get there.
He has trouble expressing his more vulnerable wants and needs, so you'll have to encourage him.
You have to remind him to take care of himself a lot.
He's very stubborn, but it's not impossible to have his mind changed.
Do. Not. Bite. Him. It's very triggering. Talk to him first if you really want to. Compromise with him.
He has a lot of nightmares and night terrors and he feels bad when it disturbes your sleep too. He usually insists you fall asleep first just to be safe.
Expect to find him watching you a lot, especially when you don't expect it. He loves suddenly revealing he's been there a while to startle you. He can't help old habbits.
He also loves when you worry about him because 1, fear, and 2, nobody has ever cared for him this much before. Sometimes he will do things he knows you don't like just to get you to go "No, Jon, you're not going out in that weather without a scarf, you'll get sick!" If you catch on and call him out on it, he gets pretty quiet and tries to change the subject.
He's still very self-conscious despite his "Idgaf" attitude.
He takes way better care of you than himself.
He is in so much pain all the time, please massage him
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