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trust

[fiderezen-blog]

Just because I'm a guy.

It doesn't mean I don't have emotions.

I don't need a girl to fill my cup. I can do that on my own.

My opinion shouldn't be shoved to the side just because it doesn't fall onto your understanding.

It doesn't mean I don't know my worth.

It doesn't mean I can't walk away from people who treat me like shit.

I'm not anyone's butler nor slave.

It doesn't mean I don't support women.

It doesn't mean I don't support self-love.

It doesn't mean I'm heartless.

It doesn't mean I can't love you from far away because I know I can.

It doesn't mean I can't hide my feelings.

Don't treat me like I'm a joke.

I know my worth.

[wordsnquotes]

I am jealous of those who think more deeply, who write better, who draw better, who look better, who live better, who love better than I.

Sylvia Plath (via wordsnquotes)

[quotewithasource]

Sometimes you have to lose all you have to find out who you truly are.

The Light in the Heart (via quotewithasource)

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by  Helen Korpak

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[fiderezen-blog]

Why am I so scared to trust? This fucked up world has gotten me to feel so skeptical, it's not healthy.

[fiderezen-blog]

We’ll be okay.

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We'll be okay.

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If in this universe, we do not love each other, I do not want to be in this one.

[themotivationjournals]

Find someone who loves you well. Someone who never belittles you. Even in the heat of an argument. Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile. Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed. It is not love’s job to punish you. And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short. No one is perfect – do not hold them to this standard. Find someone who is patient, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often. Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic. Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street, or a stranger in the supermarket. Common courtesy is important. Compassion is important. Kindness is important.

Unknown  (via themotivationjournals)

[meanwhilepoetry]

I am teaching myself how to take up space. How to not apologise constantly for the way I live and breathe. How an apology isn’t something I am supposed to say before I speak in a conversation. How  I’m so sorry, isn’t something I have to say before I just allow myself the basic right of speaking about anything. I am teaching myself that I am allowed to exist on this planet without thinking of myself as a burden. How to not apologise for things that are out of my control. How to understand when people are trying to manipulate me into thinking the worst of myself and most of all how to stop thinking the very worst of myself as I deserve better than that from myself. I am teaching myself that humans can exist without assuming the very worst about themselves and how the people around them perceive them. How to not apologise when someone bumps into me and I immidiately assume it is my fault. How to not apologise when I ask a question because I think others will think I am stupid. How to love myself for these flawed bits of me no one has ever wanted to love before. I am teaching myself that all the lies my abusers told me about myself were so very wrong. How I am allowed to make mistakes. How as long as I apologise and amend things, anything is fixable if I still have love in my heart for the other person. How not everything that has ever gone wrong in every relationship is my fault. I am finally learning how to take up space as a human being. It’s taken a long, long road to get here. And I still have a very long way to go before I am done understanding that it is my job to take up space, that I am not just an afterthought or a secondary character in this gift of life I have been given. That who I am is not an apology, that who I am is not wrong.

Nikita Gill, On Learning How To Take Up Space (via meanwhilepoetry)

[fiderezen-blog]

Mr. Know it all.

I think I'm always right, but I know I won't be always right. I do not want to assume what I truly do not know, but what is this feeling in my gut. I'm just scared to be right sometimes. I see things. I can see people's futures. My insight is that real. It scares me.

Idk if this is my ego or my intuition speaking to me.

Am I too serious? Am I too dramatic? Because I know you don't have time for things like drama and all.

You look for fun. Good vibes. Good energy.

Fuck. In all honesty. You deserve the best love in the damn universe.

[wordsnquotes]

What’s the worst thing I’ve stolen? Probably little pieces of other people’s lives. Where I’ve either wasted their time or hurt them in some way. That’s the worst thing you can steal, the time of other people. You just can’t get that back.

Chester Bennington (via wordsnquotes)