Cara~ask me anything!

Kind of an advice blog, ask me anything❤️ Any pronouns, please read info post! i love rebecca chambers

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Intro/Info on me!

What’s this blog about?

honestly, right now it’s mostly a shitposting blog

But I love helping people write, work on edits, or any other creative project!! I’d say i’m pretty knowledgeable so ask away! (as long as it’s not math)

I was also a certified Active Minds leader in HS! While i’m not a mental health professional, (and I do urge you to seek one out if needed) I am always here to talk, just give me a DM!

other than posting edit ideas i’ll just talk about my favorite characters or games or whatever im hyperfixated on at the time.

About me

My names Cara but feel free to call me Finn! I go by Any Pronouns but I prefer She/They. Style wise i’m kind of a blend between y2k and whimsigoth if that makes sense. I’m not super religious anymore but if I were to call myself anything it would be a Hellenic Polytheist (I am not greek so do not ask me for advice on that go to someone greek instead!!)

Favorite bands/artists:

Fiona Apple

The Crane Wives

Florence + The Machine

Hozier

James Marriott

Fandoms i‘m in:

Resident Evil (current hyperfixation)

PJO

Good Omens

TLOU

WWDITS

The Hunger Games

Maze Runner

+ plus many others i can’t remember rn

DNI LIST

I don’t post anything 18+ so minors- your good here

Creepy old men

Racists

Facists

Homophobes

People who yuck someone else’s yum

just mean people ig

side note i don’t know how to use tumblr how do people make their posts pretty

bye!

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A Guide to DIY HRT

all around the world trans people are being denied gender affirming care, which in some cases, can be life saving. I’m doing my bit to ensure that this video is spread all around to help as many as possible. I also saved it to the wayback machine in case it gets deleted.

stay safe, don’t die, you matter

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i need more fics to have more exposition. like yeah sometimes we can jump right into the smut but like, i’m connected to this character, i wanna know how we met, what our relationship is like, and how we got to this scenario. "he dragged you on top of him and bucked his hips up into you." WOAH how’d we get here, what happened to hello, how are you?

(no hate to people who do this i just crave plot)

um anyways anyone have any good grace x reader fluff or some plot heavy metaltango fics?

[356sentient-string-beans]

What I look like checking a specific X reader tag for the fourth time today, only to realize I’ve truly read everything…

This problem is more regular than you might think… and this being a problem in itself might also be an issue, but that’s not what we’re here to talk about 

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i need an off putting wife for me to lay my head on her lap while she strokes my hair and manages her etsy shop

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the day i get proper mobility aids it’s over for y’all

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i’m kinda on a toxic yaoi kick rn, like yesss fight eachother to the death yesss feel so guilty because he betrayed you and you think it’s your faultttt.

[jolinaorghazal]

Kreon

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i love this so much omg

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one more week.. one more week until my gig is over.. one more week until my hair will be pink..

[i-give-you-a-fish]

oh great fish lord i once again come to thee to ask for you to bestow upon me a fish

You get a Foureye Butterflyfish

Chaetodon capistratus

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oh my god i was given a fish this is my peak i have reached my potential

[noelledeltarune]

before pride month ends does anyone wanna admit they have a crush on me

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anyone..? please

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how has no one made a PHM animatic to How big, How blue, How beautiful by Florence + The Machine yet? I think the post chorus (? i think that’s what it’s called) fits really well and the ending lyrics too.

[omegaweiss01]

Grace Ashcroft and Ryland Grace are both precious to me. They're both sweet baby rays and I will die for them.

That's it. That's the post.

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i feel very maternal to them both

(but also lock me in a room with Grace i love her)

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we need more plus size reader fics where the reader isn’t described as "curvy" or "chubby". girl say fat, it doesn’t have to be an insult. Also, not all fat people are curvaceous goddess’s with a fat ass, some of us are just fat. i want more flat-ass fat reader fics please

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does anyone else get this feeling when their hyperfixated on something so much where you start to feel disgusted about how much you think about it and get overwhelmed? no? just me?

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praying for everyone Black in Belfast rn. hella Black ppl lost they homes as a result of this antiblack terrorism.

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like ok allegedly the white people in Northern Ireland terrorizing mainly Black people and poc are British loyalists and not “real Irish” but that video stating that is showing more concern for the white Irish people currently hiding in their homes “in fear” of harm, while real life Black people are actively being harmed lmao like??? get up! if you say you’re not like these white supremacists than show up in defense for the Black people currently being mobbed by people who look like you!

paying liberal lip service does nothing but make sure history doesn’t remember you as the “actual bad guys”, just the cowardly bystanders & it damn sure doesn’t make any moves to protect anyone Black!

[beaindulgent]

crazy how any broad conversation about racism somehow always circles back to centering whiteness. building off of the post above, if your knee-jerk reaction to Black people getting burned out of their houses is to get defensive for people who look like you, maybe that's something you should pick apart more.

are you defending (in this instance) Irish Catholics as a proxy to give yourself grace, to lump yourself in with "the good ones?"

what you're actually doing is absolving yourself of action and self-reflection. that discomfort you feel about white people perpetrating racism is asking you to do something to bring your actions into alignment with your values. instead, you're discarding this feeling by doing some feel-good mental gymnastics to ensure that there is a narrative that gives you an escape hatch, an assurance that there are good white people in the world (ones with whom you identify).

instead, let your discomfort guide you to do something real because if you're not actively standing up against fascism and its children, you're laying down to get stepped on. here are some real things to do:

donate to support the people who have been attacked, displaced and traumatized in racist attacks in Belfast:

Support people and groups impacted by racist attacks

We are raising funds to support people who have been attacked, displaced and traumatised in racist attacks in Belfast.

don't have money to spare? find local organizers, join them, triage immediate needs in your community, then play the long game to move the Overton Window towards inclusive values. i do not want to hear any wailing about how nothing you do matters, no one will do anything, etcetera, etcetera; these are more mental gymnastics that allow you to give yourself permission to to do nothing

Toolbox — Beautiful Trouble

Dive into the Beautiful Trouble toolbox, an interconnected web of ideas and creative best practices that puts the power of organizing for so

don't have time, money, or energy to spare? go to your local library and pick up a book to educate yourself and build empathy:

The Best Black History Books of 2025

We are pleased to release this year’s AAIHS list of the best books published in 2025! Check out this extraordinary list of great books from

21 Must-Read Books About Immigration | 2025 Update

Check out this list of books about immigration curated by Global Refuge. Novels, nonfiction, YA, and about immigrants, Dreamers, refugees an

no access to a library? do the internal work and pick apart your own internal biases about race (i'll give a starter question for reflection: why did you feel compelled to respond to a post about violence against Black people and immigrant communities by centering white people?)

Racism: How to challenge your own biases - United Way Greater Toronto

Self-reflection helps you challenge your assumptions and fill gaps in your understanding about racism. Here's how to do the work.

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this is the second case ive seen of a black child going missing and then found lynched, what the fuck is going on

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racism is so fucking vile i hate the state of this country